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Your marriage will not be succesful, here is why Over the next years your personality will change, your perception of reality will change...Chances are, that in the next few years your girlfriend will not be compatible with you anymore. Friends/Girlfirends are like computer software, every once in a while you need an updated version. Your "brain" is the computer, the new Operating System is your new "modified" personality - modified by your current friends/girlfriend, life in general, and other variables, you have no influence on. If your friends/girlfriend isn't compatible with your operating system/platform anymore, you need new software (new friends/new girlfriend), new software is expensive, and difficult to use at first, but the possibilities are greater. Change is nothing to be afraid of. |
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he is lucky cause he doesn't see this. |
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This is why you should wait till your 30's to marry. So the ravages of age force you to love anyone who gives a shit. Plus, you have slowed down a bit. Hopefully found yourself a little more. The 20's are a torrent of change of identity. I had a girlfriend come back one summer a completely different person. That just wouldn't happen in your thirties, you are pretty much set in stone by then. |
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Girlfriends have an automatic update too you know |
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True that, and most people are never ready to marry or have kids....they are still to busy with themselves...even in their 40's |
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The thing that scares me about any long term relationship is boredom. Im talking sexual boredom. I love girls, but I know after 2 years I get bored and want what I can't have. Maybe a girl that was really open and always knew how to get me hot. Someone very communicative. "Hey, let's fuck!" Someone bold and open. I don't know. You need spark. Otherwise, you are stuck in a nightmare. |
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Im stuck in a nightmare and im only 19 years old. |
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become gay... |
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can you really become ? i thought gays was born gay |
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I just ended a 5 1/2 year relationship. |
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do you feel shitty about it or is it simply a releif ? im currently in a 2 1/2 relationship and im currently thinking about what would happen and how it would feel if i ended it. Im kind of used to live the way i do with this girlfriend and when we break up im sure it will feel very weird and all the every day things will be totally different. |
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you have to try it, i felt the same with my gf a few years ago and i quit. had another girl for a few months but then i found out that i wanted back and it worked eventually. though that experience was necessary to have a life without too much regret |
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monoid, your such a coward |
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*you're, dammit |
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yeah, allright.. it's not easy =D Right now it's christmas so i dont wanna think about stuff like that, i really dont wanna act at it at all either atm (im gonna get nice presents!!!) =D It's not like i have the worst time ever with my girlfriend, we get along really well and have quite allot of fun.. but the spark is freaking dead, as dead as it could be We are like two good friends. |
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well I wish him luck for the future despite this theory |
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wha....i'm a coward ? |
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Well, thanks Monoid, I'll bear what you said in mind. |
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in your mind...your cute little mind..... |
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at this point in my life i really need some time apart. i need to be (or learn how to be) myself. it is hard after 5 1/2 years and we have only been apart for a couple of weeks. it is still very surreal, it certainly hasn't hit me yet. |
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Try some dissassociative drugs, like DXM for example ! It helps |
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You're still alive? |
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He dosent sound it |
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Uhh.... |
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haha "uuuuuhhhhhhhhh" |
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Badass!! |
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Merry Christmas Monoid! |
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