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offline happy cycling from berlin on 2004-11-07 22:23 [#01387229]
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i just got an email from a friend of a friend -- i'll call
her K. K's mom received a tip from her son's (K's brother)
highschool teacher suggesting he might be using drugs. K's
mom searched through his room and found a lot of suspicious
things and showed them to K. K knows i've used a lot of
drugs and is asking if i can deduce any conclusions. it
seems pretty obvious to me he's using stimulants, probably
cocaine.

i feel it is extremely unethical to look through a
teenager's stuff and i'm not sure a hysterical parent is
what this kid needs right now.

what do i say, if anything?

i'll cut and paste the email in this thread momentarily.


 

offline happy cycling from berlin on 2004-11-07 22:24 [#01387230]
Points: 2786 Status: Regular



the email:

I have sort of a strange request for you and your
drug-related expertise.
One of my brother's teachers made a very vague sort of
warning phone call to my mom, concerning my brother and his
new friends and their activities. She took the hint and
looked around his room and discovered some interesting
things.
We've made some of our own conclusions already, but wanted
to see if you could add anything to the picture.
Considering the following things, which of them could be
related to drug use, and how (ie, if he's just smoking weed,
we can deal, but if there's something more going on, we'd
like to know)?

Behavioral/physical issues (not necessarily all occurring
simultaneously, of course):
1. decreased (often significantly) appetite
2. dilated pupils
3. angry outbursts
4. extra-chattiness

Things found all hidden in one place:
5. lighter (ok, well, that was a given, but I listed it
anyway)
6. tweezers
7. zig zag papers
8. nail clippers
9. a very small compact (mirror size about 1x2 cm)
10. multiple empty baggies
11. film canister containing half a joint and some seed-like
items
12. two empty packs of Colts cigars
13. two sticks of Chapstick (still containing chapstick)
14. a bottlecap with the flat part cut out and replaced by
the screen from a faucet
15. grey oil pastel
16. two eyebrow pencils (and a makeup sharpener)
17. grey oil pastel
18. a funnel (probably holds about 1/2 cup of whatever),
with some remains of crystals left in it - smells like
kool-aid, but was hidden with the rest of the
suspiciousness

Other items of note:
19. a whole crapload of broken ballpoint pens, broken about
an inch in, with the long parts lying about unsuspiciously
on the desk, but with the short ends missing

Thanks for any help you can provide ;)



 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2004-11-07 22:28 [#01387232]
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the searching is already done - not much you can do about
that.

if you do not give them the info someone else will.


 

offline DeadEight from vancouver (Canada) on 2004-11-08 00:30 [#01387272]
Points: 5437 Status: Regular



at the very least i think you should tell them how you feel
about the fact that they went through his stuff, and make it
clear that they have to approach the issue with more
sensitivity than that in the future... that said, if he's in
high school, it probably is a good idea to get him some
help... i wouldn't count on every high school kid dabbling
with (what sounds to me like) meth to make it to the other
side okay all by themselves...

if they are patient with him, he should be okay...


 

offline Taxidermist from Black Grass on 2004-11-08 01:01 [#01387282]
Points: 9958 Status: Lurker



Yeah... looks like meth and pot (although pot really aint no
thang).

Specially with the chattiness, anger, reduced appetite and
pupil dilation.

Honestly, meth destroys people more than most other drugs.
Its highly addictive, and fucks your brain up longterm,
prolly ten times than cocain, heroin and crack. Suggest they
send them to treatment before it becomes too big a problem.
Don't narc on them and tell them what drug they use or
anything like that, but I have to deal with jib-kids all
day, and they aint any fun.


 

offline Monoid from one source all things depend on 2004-11-08 01:03 [#01387284]
Points: 11010 Status: Lurker



I wish I had (real) friends who do (real) drugs....


 

offline bill_hicks from my city is amazing it is calle on 2004-11-08 02:21 [#01387304]
Points: 4286 Status: Lurker | Followup to happy cycling: #01387229



I'm sorry to tell you this but I think he might be a
homosexual. sorry.


 


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