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i have to confess that since i know of myself i'm a very irresponsible person. not that i want to act like that,but sometimes i know to put on my back too much projects and never finish any of them or just let people down,cos i don't feel like doing this/that at the certain moment. for instance...the last 6 days i had to be on breifings for the club,but i didn't come cos i had to finish the EP. by this i let down everyone in the group and i feel really sorry for that,but it's just the natures course of myself. i act in terms of feelings...if i have a task to do and if i don't feel like doing it that day i won't do it. this sucks bigtime,but i don't know how to avoid that? help |
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sneakattack got banned for telling the truth |
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heh |
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Welcome to the procrastinate world! |
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i miss the little guy |
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Do it again, and I'll temp ban you. |
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*shivers* |
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im just joking with you, i copied that off of another thread and thought it was fitting |
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multiple accounts = permanent ban |
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it doesn't stop you |
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none can gimme a word of advice? i try to help everyone when i can...excluding the trolling here and there. |
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to err is human, dude you can only do what you can do |
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and that is to be irresponsible? |
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i seem to can't stop acting like i do now... |
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i don't know, it seems like it is an issue of responsibility. when one commits to something, they should follow through. perhaps you can prioritize before commiting to too many things - think about whether you can or want to actually do them before you say you will. even if you say, "no i won't be able to do that," up front, it's much better than saying you'll do something and then not doing it. |
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seeing as he begins his post with "i have to confess that since i know of myself i'm a very irresponsible person" I think he already knows this.. |
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yeah..seems that i can't refuse anything. two weeks ago i said i'm gonna put flyers and stuff around the city and i didn't do it. god i suck i'm starting to think that i have to follow what you just told me... |
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i'm aware,but unable to fix that...which is the ironic part. |
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first thing you need to do is stop creating bullshit excuses for yourself, things like "but it's just the natures course of myself" and "i act in terms of feelings...if i have a task to do and if i don't feel like doing it that day i won't do it". you need to grow up and not see your decisions as an uncontrollable thing like the weather. it is NOT nature's course for you, you CHOSE not to go. you "act in terms of feeling" because you CHOOSE to. these choices aren't freak accidents. try empathising with the people who you let down, how your selfishness makes them feel first you need to change this attitude, then you can start planning, etc. |
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you are kidding yourself. |
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if you are aware that you are letting these people down, and you think youre irresponciblity is the reason, then work on that. work on being more responcible. try to only commit to a few tasks, and see them through. i hate multitasking myself out, so i only concentrate on one or two things at a time, therefore i able to complete all of the things on my plate, but one thing at a time. i literally put things on the back burner or do not commit myself until i know that i can see them through |
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i already put myself in their shoes...and i saw myself as a jerk. i would be pissed if someone would act like that to me...heh,this is so silly to write,cos i am like that.lol so,what do you sudgest...should i take notice on what tasks i choose to make? |
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i have a lot to work on myself...starting from this to socialising a bit more. |
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well, r40f's advice sounds good - scrap everything and start just saying "yes" to a few things, like one or two. you MUST be able to manage that. then slowly start adding tasks, but only so much as you KNOW you will do, not just what you think you OUGHT to do. and like I said before, stop making yourself a kind of victim. |
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if you know what the problem is, all you have to do is work to fix it, you seem like you know how to fix it, you might just need to get motivated. |
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thanks qrter chap |
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what qrter said is correct as well. only you are responsible for your own actions. no matter what, you are always making decisions, and like it or not, they will impact others. so it's pointless to make excuses like "it's just my nature," because personal accountability is just a fact of life. |
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motivation is where is at...i live in the city where everything is soo chilled and unmotivated,so i guess i got swollen by it. i have to make a new page in my life...seriously,cos this ain't leading towards anything respectfully. |
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try living in the us, i live too fast, i must try to slow myself down at times, life wizzes by me at 100 miles an hour....must...slow...down...why do think i like donkeyball-speedy idm |
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wanna see one other act of irresponsibility? i still didn't send you the release we did...but i have it burned and waiting. |
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i need that kinda treatment... the average speed of the cars in my town is 40kmh |
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well, it's not like there was a deadline for that, so i can see why it might be a low-priority thing. i started working on some artwork, though. so send it! :) |
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sure,i'll do that on monday,cos i'll wake up a bit early. hey,please come on slsk,i need to propose something. |
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