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Right now he is in intensive care. The doctor told his girlfriend, that he lost parts of his brain because of his heavy alcohol abuse..... Sad thing is this message left me totally cold, me and my mom, were joking, and I secretly hope he dies.....yes, I hate my dad that much, and its so fucking funny to see his trashy "girlfriend" (who called the police on me to get me out of the house) now being stuck with this fucking sad asshole....bwahahaha |
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dunno what to say...im sorry? |
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That's sad on multiple levels. Why do you hate him that much? Sorry, or not... |
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wow. damn. |
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If someone I hated had a stroke I'd also be jumping for joy. Congratulations. |
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No one deserves a stroke. |
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Well, Lassie maybe. |
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or that girl down the street that you fancy? you wanna stroke her cat |
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That's poor. |
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Well if anyone, it would be Monoid. |
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I dont really know. He never was violent to me or my mom, but he is the reason why I became such an antisocial loser. Probably hard to understand if you never lived with an alcoholic....However Im not bitter, or anything (well yes Im am) Its just so fun, and satisfying to see him and his "girlfriend" suffer.... |
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Try to release the schadenfreude.... it'll make you feel better in the long run. |
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hey i've only been awake for about an hour - i need to warm up |
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yeah, you need to let that hate go, it'll just make you more and more bitter and the rest of your life will become even more shitty than it is now. and then you did it yourself, so you can't blame him anymore. time to move on. |
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That cunt blamed ME and my MOM for my dads poor health, and called me an socially inept loser who would sooner or later end up in the gutter. My spineless Dad just stood there and said nothing. At that time I was living with my Dad, and she wanted me out of the house. Funny thing I payed RENT, and bought my own food etc. and that cunt has the nerve to call me a loser, tho she was UNEMPLOYED over the last 10 years. My Dad won't be running around soon and will have to face a shiload of rehab, which she will have to pay for......bawahaha. |
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and you thought your life was shit. |
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oh. |
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Is it wrong to laugh at other peoples misfortune ? Maybe, but Im pretty happy right now. |
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let go of the anger. anger leads to hate, and as we all know hate leads to the dark side. |
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it's not wrrong, but it's not something i take pleasurre in as a rrule. but if you hate yourr dad as much as you say then i'd think it's prretty naturral. i know a couple of people whose misforrtune i'd laugh at. damn me. |
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You're not laughing and crying at the same time are you? |
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similar story here, can`t wait until the old man jumps in his grave, he deserves it so fucking much .... |
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For better or worse, you can learn a lot from your dad. I guess the lesson is: DON'T BE LIKE ME. |
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no the lesson is usually not to be like me |
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Nope, not at all....I stoped caring about him a long time ago. And thats the best thing you can do, if you try to help a person, and what you get back in return is just more abuse. |
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What I mean is learn from his mistakes. And I agree. At some point you have to emotionally detach yourself from people who refuse to change or get help regardless of relation. I guess it's like trying to save a drowing person who's determined to pull you down with them. Gotta let go. |
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Wow. At least your moving on, though. Hope things work out ok. |
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you should forgive him for his mistakes and move on, not hate him. that way he'll still have a grip on you. if he dies the world will probably be a better place.. but you shouldnt hate him. |
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it's not an easy task man...i wonder if you had a childhood like monoid had ? |
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I don't knw what you relationship is with him, but actually your dad is a sad man; he's an alcoholic and thats a real disease |
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yeah i dont know what hes been trough im sure it was totally not-awesome |
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yeah i can tell you that for sure,cos i had the same thing,but luckly the situation in my familly is ok now. |
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my mums dad was a downright psychopath. hitting people, drinking too much. he even threatened my dad with a hammer once. im glad hes dead. strokes too. |
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it's funny and apsurd that ewil ppl live longer than the good ones. |
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it's verry unfairr. verry unfairr. |
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on the other side it may be not...this world is left for the ewil ppl,so the good ppl end their lives shortly here. cos they're too good for it. haha,i feel like a 6 yr old kid_ |
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<---- my guru |
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Sorry, but there is no other side. Perhaps if more realised this they would make more of an effort, rather than dream about something that will never be. |
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bad situation... |
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my father is also an alcoholic, and as much as i may dislike him, i would never wish death on him. i'm sorry to hear about that - i think this may hurt you more than you think. |
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i'm aware of that...the prevoius post was just a mind trip. well,ppl that have the tendency for alcohol are very hard to understand,let alone reachable. it's tuff to convince such person to join the rehab...and then u have the familly. that's even harder...u gotta rebuild the connections...it's a painful process. |
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how can you tell? really i dont believe in that crap either but.. its impossible to tell is it? |
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Yes, very hard to understand. But seriously, it doesnt matter if he had an unhappy childhood, was cliniclly depressed, or simply unhappy with his life, all those things are no excuse to threat other people with disrespect, especially not your own children and wife |
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A response to this question would have to depend on what aspect of a person they believed might pass over into some kind of an afterlife. |
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If he had an unhappy childhood do you think he had the right to treat himself with disrespect? |
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umm,ir kinda wrong here,but that's ok...u still need to learn a few things about that. if ur dad had a violent parent the chances are 50/50 that he becomes the same person like the on he was treated by. when this question comes up,i'm really scared i don't turn out to be like my dad. i mean,i'm totally oposite from him...i don't like violence and don't solve problems thru it. but there still is a chance that something goes wrong in ur adolescent life and u become that kinda monster. not that u will,but i advice you to get a certain goal in ur life and stick to it. wheather it's music, becoming a better person or whatever. that's crucial for ur further ethics or social development. |
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Well of course, everyone has the right to destroy oneself. |
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that does indeed depend on how you see yourself as a human being, what makes you you. for example, I don't believe in the soul. I believe you, as a person, are your brain. you are unique because of the particular connections the millions of neurons make (and constantly change). so when you die, your brain dies, so you cease to be. it seems the most logical explanation to me, at this time, on the information I have. |
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Consider people who have sustained brain damage too, they can be radically changed for the worse. Death is unlikely to improve matters. |
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yeah, thats the most scientific thing to do.. explain something in the most logical way you can think of. its a pain in the ass because you can never tell for sure. what sound does a falling tree make in an empty forest? |
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