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Should a silly argument change your feelings for a "new love"? mmmmmm... don't think so!!!! it should make it stronger!!! Shouldn't it? |
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Is there another woman involved? |
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it doesn't. it just becomes bizarre and turns into hate clouded emotions filled with anxiety, lust, and a sense of extreme detachement from whatever it was that you loved about the person in the first place. |
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no Dog- Belch... hé hé. No other woman involved ;) |
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It depends how similar you are to each other and how selfish, how emotionally attached to each other -- in other words, there are plenty of factors at work. |
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i think it can be very varied...there are no patterns for this... |
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It's a thin line between love and hate, It's a thin line between the trigger and the finger on a thirty-eight. |
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There's, what, 3.4-3.5 billion other males on the planet, many of which are more interesting/smarter/better looking/wealthier/better spellers/more compatible with whomever than you are (''you'' being nobody in particular... it's all of us). Spending 6 decades with somebody isn't natural, anyway. And like Paul E. Dangerously said, there's so many variables and factors, it's unfathomable. It's very daunting. I'm extremely jaded when it comes to love, so I'm biased when it comes to this subject... I always expect the worst when I see ''I've found my soulmate!'' topics and the like, for example. I don't congratulate, I speculate. |
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personally i like the idea of spending 6 decades with same person. |
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who carres. do what you do. |
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that was in rreply to the topic. |
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in a painful way |
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6 WHOLE decades? Won't 5 suffice? Don't you want to spend your twilight years boinking all the ol' dolls in your retirement home? Me, I'll be aiming higher... the nurses. |
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hahaha...i was being serious actually...both pairs of my grandparents are married for about 50 years, and it seems to work out fine for them...i guess you get used to a person, and it's nice to be around someone who cares about you... |
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I suppose you're right, in some/most cases. I personally don't like observing my (perfectly happy) aunts-uncles/grandparents. Just so... generic and unappealing. But I guess it's better than most alternatives, and it would be nice and comfy knowing at least SOMEONE gives a shit about you regardless of what happens. |
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ow come on.... surelly other people than your girlfriend or wife will care about you whatever happens...... Like me for example.... I know that my bruv , Mum, and dad will always care about me whatever happens... hé hé. Come on dude... :) hé hé |
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yeah, but you know what he meant.... |
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pigfucker. |
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ofcourse there are others, but you probably wont live with them for the rest of your life...what do i know :) ophecks, i bet there are downsides, but i also think there are more positive sides of a long term relationship...i guess i'll be able to tell in 20 or 30 years :) |
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i did know what he ment... but wanted to spice things up a little... God knows.. You are probably shagging your cuddly toys days and nights hobbesy... :) :) :) :) :) Just spicing things up a little more ;) |
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there you go...familly love... |
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yeah fine "spice up your life" Chihiro. |
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ha ha ha ha ha ha... mmmm.. i like to spice things up indeed... that's where all the magic is.. :) :) :) hé hé |
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spice girl. |
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you like 'em? beurk... awfull... I bet you dream about 'em at night... hé hé hé hé hé hé :) :) :) |
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who are you talking about? |
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my give up.. my give up... you won Hobbes... shit!!!! no answers left... unless..... SPECIAL COUNTERSTRIKE!!!!! vrikstanimalderindoumwersfertiki..... ha ha. i guess you wonder what that means ey? :) :) |
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it's funny coz i can imagine you being like the pig in your avatar after having said that. all haughty yet pathetic. |
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that hurted me hobbes... snifff... i am sad... the pig is crying |
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ok i'm sorry man, i'm glad at least i did'nt hurt you. |
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yeah :) it's all cooL.. i do'nt accept your apology :) |
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real love doesn't fade away. if what you think was love does fade away... then you know it wasn't really love. in m/o. |
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when i fall in love it will be forever or i'll never fall in love |
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that's a horrible way to look at it. what if you fall in love with someone who doesn't love you back, eh? WHAT THEN?? |
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Great stuff Tragedy :) your posts are very logic and helpfull... Thank you :) |
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i did. that happened. we were friends, and i fell in love. that was, um...9 years ago. wow. i've forgotten about him, pretty much. but every once in a while, like when i'm washing dishes or driving or something, i'll think about him. and i still remember exactly how much it hurt to be rejected. i'm pretty sure i'll never feel that way about anyone ever again. but i'm cool with that. it's nice to know the heart works that way...it can devote itself to someone and want to stay there forever. |
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dequalsrxt> that is so incredibly depressing. holy shit. chihiro> are you mocking me? if not... thank :) |
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why should that be depressing? i think it's cool actually. i don't feel sad about it...only when i think about him, which isn't really that often. and it's a good kind of sad...just remembering the good times and missing him and all that. i meet people all the time who say they've never been in love. i feel lucky. |
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never say never. although that is a very very strange phrase. |
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i am definnetly NOT moking you tragedy.. :) |
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it's sad knowing the one person who you truly loved, and you know that noone could ever compare to them again, doesn't feel the same way about you. it's awfully fekkin sad. |
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and i agree with that Tragedy... there is no modern romance... the ancient one stays alive... It is the most beautyfull one... I can't imagine what modern would be like |
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anyway, to answer your question chihiro, i think that love has to involve conflict...the right kind of conflict. a silly argument shows that you are still individuals. that's important. but if you're constantly arguing, or if the conflict is deep, that might not be good. |
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Don't hold on And go get strong Well, don't you know That there is no Modern romance Time Time is gone It stops, stops who it wants Well, I was wrong It never lasts And there is no Well, this is no Modern romance And time Time is gone It never lasts Stops who it wants Well, I was wrong It never lasts This is no There is no Modern romance There is no modern romance This is no...modern romance there is no, there is no.... that right there is my 2 cents. good luck. |
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it's better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all cheesy but true sure, it was sad at the time, really painful. that goes away. you're left with memories, mostly good hopefully. and a sort of longing feeling that's not good or bad. |
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;) cheers for that Tragedy ... (not mocking you.) |
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who is that? |
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YYYs |
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yeah. |
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This topic is pathetic. I wonderr what you lot arre thinking sometimes when you discuss 'love'. You all trry to be so poetic in yourr descrriptions, it's nonsense. |
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