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i was wondering, why do people are always inclined to remember much more vividly bad things in their lives? sure, they always make greater impact. but this rots everything else. years of friendship ruined in a day... should one false step always be trated as a fuckin' giant false leap? is this normal? (forgive me... i'm a bit depressed) |
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people are freaks like that, i try to just remember the good times all is forgivin |
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I agree, bad memories always seem to outweigh the good ones. The strongest memories in my life were from the worst three years of my life. Memories are then stronger when the mind thinks they are needed for personal experience. You know, so you don't make the same mistake twice. |
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I don't find this is the case. It all depends on how much you dwell on something. My advise it forget it, stop torturing yourself about it, learn from it and become stronger for it. |
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BINGO ! |
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ok. i won't dwell. but the others will... i can't fight this. |
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Tell them not to dwell, take control of drum machi... situation |
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do you want to go into this more specifically here? |
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we are here for yuu mate. |
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i'm not sure... i'll make this a bit abstract just to ease myself and in the process probably making it a bit hard for you. :) so... you've been a friend with somebody for years. everything goes fine, you have the time of your lives, you spend 12 hours a day together everyday and can't get enough. and then, without any particular reason, something breaks... bad mood probably. you say something you shoudn't have. your friend does. a 15 second exchange of bad energy. but you both remember it. on the next day things seem fine. but after a while the same thing happens, only this time you have 30 seconds of bad energy exchange. and so on, until you reach the point where all the 12 hours suck... just because you can't shake of the memory of yesterday. so, what do you think? (if things got any clearer, that is) |
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