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offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 15:59 [#01007260]
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sorry to post this things but I need to talk and I am alone
now

I had a big argue with my g/f... sometimes I find it
difficult to understand her... I dont know whos fault is it


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007264]
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I used to find it difficult to understand my girlfriend, but
that was because she was a drunken bitch who slurred her
words in one incomprehensible mess.

I would offer to talk to you but sadly I seem to have the
sensitivity of a house brick, so I wouldn't be much use. So
I will just say the traditional english thing...

Chin up old boy.


 

offline _awt_ from Malmö (Sweden) on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007265]
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im in a big argue with my g/f 6h a day so i understand you
=)

theyre quite freaking hard to understand yes...

and if she sees me typing this we will get into another
smaller fight lol


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007267]
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talk to her


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007268]
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Kinda like me and hyakusen.
Don't worrrry though, these things sorrt themselves out.
It's trrue.


 

offline viktor from Uppsala (Sweden) on 2003-12-27 16:02 [#01007269]
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girls are really hard to understand / just chill man /
things will get better


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:04 [#01007270]
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things may seem all critical and extreme now,.. but with a
day or so you'll both forget the severity of the argument
and be back together,... things are never as bad as they
seem when you first have an argument with someone
(especially your girlfriend, emotions with your girlfriends
are always "intensified" whether it be good or bad)


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-12-27 16:07 [#01007274]
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hyakusen is your girlfriend..?

how extraordinary.


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2003-12-27 16:08 [#01007276]
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He'll deny it.


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 16:08 [#01007277]
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almodovar

I must indeed... but talking I said some bad things


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007280]
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tolstoyed has the right idea, don't leave talking to her for
too long, because it'll seem harder and harder to make
verbal contact the longer you leave it

what was the argument over? is it important enough for you
to be arguing this much with her? is it really?


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007281]
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Did you say "diga mi nombre, perra"?

Because I found out Spanish girls don't like that.


 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007282]
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the ungrateful little bitch.

you deserve better, you know.


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007283]
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Such as?


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007284]
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Actually...some of them do. In fact...all the best ones do.


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 16:11 [#01007285]
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such as:

you bore me


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 16:12 [#01007286]
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infact is not impòrtant enough... we are both stupid


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:12 [#01007289]
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what was the argument over?


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:13 [#01007291]
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she will get over that.

I told my now ex that she was a fat slut who didn't know any
other way of getting attention than shoving her tits in
peoples faces and I hope that she ends up with the same
stinking discharge I caught off her mum.

We made up three hours later by having sex. Then I finished
with her the next day. Such is life. Just enjoy yourself.


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:14 [#01007295]
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it might just be some insignificant built up tensions
getting released,

would it be too hard for you to say I'm sorry?
do you feel that you shouldn't need to say so?


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 16:15 [#01007296]
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yesterday we went out with lots of friends and I didnt pay
her the slightless attention... then she wnt home and I went
on till 8am... then I didnt call her in all day

and then I told her she was boring

alcohol+weed makes me stupid


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 16:16 [#01007297]
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I feel she should say sorry too for some previous things

like that she had been strange for 2 days without wanting to
explain me why


 

offline DJ Xammax from not America on 2003-12-27 16:19 [#01007302]
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Ugh I don't need to be reading this right now.. making me
think about my Mrs.


 

offline JivverDicker from my house on 2003-12-27 16:21 [#01007306]
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What you need to do is.....

Get all your modelling shots, put them in a photo album,
post it through the door with a single red rose and shout at
the top of your voice outside her window at 3:30am


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 16:23 [#01007307]
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lol

I am sorry I posted such a lame thread

but I needed to talk a little

thnaks for all the serious and funny coments, they were all
helpfull


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:23 [#01007309]
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sometimes I feel in a strange mood and people ask me what's
going on,. and it's notthing more than I'm in a strange
mood.

also, I think you should be able to stay out and have fun on
your own,


 

offline JivverDicker from my house on 2003-12-27 16:24 [#01007311]
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It's not lame... we all feel like this from time to time...


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:25 [#01007313]
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I took one of my girlfriends a frozen chicken at 4 in the
morning once to apologise. I told her I was going to cook
us a meal so we could talk things over. I then proceeded to
vomit and fall asleep cuddled up to a brick post in her
garden.


 

offline Jarworski from The Grove (United Kingdom) on 2003-12-27 16:25 [#01007315]
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I feel bad for you Nacmat. But to be honest, you're better
off discussing it with people who know you in real life.


 

offline tolstoyed from the ocean on 2003-12-27 16:26 [#01007317]
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it always help if you're honest...apperantly you're sorry
for what you said to her, just tell her what you're telling
us here


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:27 [#01007318]
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it doesn't sound to me like this is a relationship altering
argument, I wouldn't ring her if you think it's just going
to turn into an argument, when you feel in a more
compromising mood, ring her, explain to here that you think
it's strange that she was acting weird for 2 days,. and that
you feel she's trying to hide soemthing from you by not
explaining it to you, but try not to say it in a provoking
way,

bleh I'm ranting now,. I hope soem of that helps


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:27 [#01007319]
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.THIS IS RE@L LIFE.


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:28 [#01007321]
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he's got a good point there


 

offline JivverDicker from my house on 2003-12-27 16:29 [#01007322]
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I've had a similar one where I ended up putting on all the
clothes her family had left for Oxfam in the porch and
'camping' in her garden..


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-27 16:31 [#01007326]
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haha, but you know you just got to do what you just got to
do when it comes to females. I have done loads of stupid
things...like phoning up and apologising for half an hour to
the wrong girl.


 

offline JivverDicker from my house on 2003-12-27 16:32 [#01007329]
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hee hee! girls..?!


 

offline Anus_Presley on 2003-12-27 16:33 [#01007330]
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hahaha


 

offline _awt_ from Malmö (Sweden) on 2003-12-27 16:35 [#01007331]
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haha i once had a fight with an now ex gf in the evening and
then i went to her house in the middle of the night to
apologise and make things good again.. i throwed some rock's
at her window so she would awake without her parents waking
up.. but she got so pissed when she woke up she wouldnt even
let me inside to talk, i rided my bike to her house for 3
fucking hours to get their and when i couldnt come in i was
so tired and didnt have the power to ride the bike home that
i fell asleep on the grass outside her house =)

lol, i was soo nice, i should have throwed some bigger rocks
>=)


 

offline Ganymede from Tlön, Uqbar, Orbis Tertius on 2003-12-27 16:54 [#01007349]
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Sorry to hear it Nacmat... my gut feeling is that you should
ring her up.


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-27 17:08 [#01007359]
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of course

but as I said I was alone right now with no chance of
talking to a friend


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2003-12-27 18:13 [#01007391]
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I won't be much help, because my last girlfriend and I never
had 1 fight, and all the ones before that were a bunch of
sluts that i've forgotten about, so fuck them anyway. Still
though, looking back at how we never fought, I have to slap
myself in the face for ever ending that relationship...
ughhh


 

offline oxygenfad from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2003-12-27 20:10 [#01007444]
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Nacmat you as a man must play the role of ALWAYS BEING
WRONG.

If your girlfriend says "The moon was invented by Albert
Einstien" YOU are wrong and SHE is right. This will save you
lots and lots of NAG TIME.

A little tip from Oxy : )



 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2003-12-27 20:18 [#01007455]
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hahaha, good advice, and so true too!


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2003-12-27 20:19 [#01007457]
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btw, nice avatar. Seeing richard's mouth bobbing up and down
like a marionette makes for a good chuckle :D


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2003-12-28 01:36 [#01007667]
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That's the worst thing you can do because they end up losing
all respect for you. You just have to try and stay calm,
but never back down if you beleive you are in the right.

nacmat, you must be finsing this girl boring so why are you
bothered about what she thinks? Get yourself another, more
fun, girl.


 

offline oxygenfad from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2003-12-28 02:17 [#01007675]
Points: 4442 Status: Regular



No way man. When girls are in histerics they think cruked.
Like its just a fucked up mess of PSM.

Example :
Girl : "Wow Jay Leno was really good in Jurassic park !"
Me : "Uhhh Jay Leno wasnt in Jurrasic park ..."
Girl: " Oh fuck you your such an asshole!"
Me : "WHAT!? Jay Leno wasnt in Jurrasic Park!!!!!"
Girl: "Well it was just the way you said it, like Im some
sort of kid or something!"
Me : " WHAT?!?!?!?!? Your insane !"
Girl: " NO SEX!"

Example :
Girl : "Wow Jay Leno was really good in Jurassic park !"
Me : "Yup sure was! I liked his big chin !"
Girl : "Wow you are hot!"



 

offline oxygenfad from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2003-12-28 02:18 [#01007676]
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Don't cave in like when it comes to eating and movies and
shit. Like stand your ground, but when ever you are fighting
with a girl I just say "Yup Im stupid I am sorry"

Works allllll the fucking time.


 

offline tibbar from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-12-28 02:21 [#01007677]
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oxy: i highly disagree.

i, for one, would rather never have a relationship with a
girl ever again than engage in such immature nonsense. this
isnt sayign YOU are immature, but that this type of behavior
between 2 "adults" in a relatioship is acceptable as the
norm is SICKENING.


 

offline pOgO from behind your belly button fluff on 2003-12-28 02:38 [#01007680]
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all you need to do is apologise and really mean it. And not
just say sorry, say "i'm sorry I ................ because
.......... etc" and just show her how much you really do
love her


 

offline nacmat on 2003-12-28 02:54 [#01007686]
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that I ll do

but till yesterday she decided not to answer the phone
I hope today she is more accesible


 


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