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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 15:59 [#01007260]
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sorry to post this things but I need to talk and I am alone now
I had a big argue with my g/f... sometimes I find it difficult to understand her... I dont know whos fault is it
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007264]
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I used to find it difficult to understand my girlfriend, but that was because she was a drunken bitch who slurred her words in one incomprehensible mess.
I would offer to talk to you but sadly I seem to have the sensitivity of a house brick, so I wouldn't be much use. So I will just say the traditional english thing...
Chin up old boy.
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_awt_
from Malmö (Sweden) on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007265]
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im in a big argue with my g/f 6h a day so i understand you =)
theyre quite freaking hard to understand yes...
and if she sees me typing this we will get into another smaller fight lol
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tolstoyed
from the ocean on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007267]
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talk to her
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-12-27 16:01 [#01007268]
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Kinda like me and hyakusen. Don't worrrry though, these things sorrt themselves out. It's trrue.
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viktor
from Uppsala (Sweden) on 2003-12-27 16:02 [#01007269]
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girls are really hard to understand / just chill man / things will get better
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:04 [#01007270]
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things may seem all critical and extreme now,.. but with a day or so you'll both forget the severity of the argument and be back together,... things are never as bad as they seem when you first have an argument with someone (especially your girlfriend, emotions with your girlfriends are always "intensified" whether it be good or bad)
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-12-27 16:07 [#01007274]
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hyakusen is your girlfriend..?
how extraordinary.
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-12-27 16:08 [#01007276]
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He'll deny it.
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 16:08 [#01007277]
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almodovar
I must indeed... but talking I said some bad things
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007280]
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tolstoyed has the right idea, don't leave talking to her for too long, because it'll seem harder and harder to make verbal contact the longer you leave it
what was the argument over? is it important enough for you to be arguing this much with her? is it really?
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007281]
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Did you say "diga mi nombre, perra"?
Because I found out Spanish girls don't like that.
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qrter
from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007282]
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the ungrateful little bitch.
you deserve better, you know.
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DJ Xammax
from not America on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007283]
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Such as?
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:09 [#01007284]
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Actually...some of them do. In fact...all the best ones do.
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 16:11 [#01007285]
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such as:
you bore me
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 16:12 [#01007286]
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infact is not impòrtant enough... we are both stupid
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:12 [#01007289]
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what was the argument over?
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:13 [#01007291]
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she will get over that.
I told my now ex that she was a fat slut who didn't know any other way of getting attention than shoving her tits in peoples faces and I hope that she ends up with the same stinking discharge I caught off her mum.
We made up three hours later by having sex. Then I finished with her the next day. Such is life. Just enjoy yourself.
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:14 [#01007295]
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it might just be some insignificant built up tensions getting released,
would it be too hard for you to say I'm sorry? do you feel that you shouldn't need to say so?
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 16:15 [#01007296]
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yesterday we went out with lots of friends and I didnt pay her the slightless attention... then she wnt home and I went on till 8am... then I didnt call her in all day
and then I told her she was boring
alcohol+weed makes me stupid
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 16:16 [#01007297]
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I feel she should say sorry too for some previous things
like that she had been strange for 2 days without wanting to explain me why
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DJ Xammax
from not America on 2003-12-27 16:19 [#01007302]
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Ugh I don't need to be reading this right now.. making me think about my Mrs.
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JivverDicker
from my house on 2003-12-27 16:21 [#01007306]
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What you need to do is.....
Get all your modelling shots, put them in a photo album, post it through the door with a single red rose and shout at the top of your voice outside her window at 3:30am
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 16:23 [#01007307]
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lol
I am sorry I posted such a lame thread
but I needed to talk a little
thnaks for all the serious and funny coments, they were all helpfull
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:23 [#01007309]
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sometimes I feel in a strange mood and people ask me what's going on,. and it's notthing more than I'm in a strange mood.
also, I think you should be able to stay out and have fun on your own,
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JivverDicker
from my house on 2003-12-27 16:24 [#01007311]
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It's not lame... we all feel like this from time to time...
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:25 [#01007313]
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I took one of my girlfriends a frozen chicken at 4 in the morning once to apologise. I told her I was going to cook us a meal so we could talk things over. I then proceeded to vomit and fall asleep cuddled up to a brick post in her garden.
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Jarworski
from The Grove (United Kingdom) on 2003-12-27 16:25 [#01007315]
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I feel bad for you Nacmat. But to be honest, you're better off discussing it with people who know you in real life.
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tolstoyed
from the ocean on 2003-12-27 16:26 [#01007317]
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it always help if you're honest...apperantly you're sorry for what you said to her, just tell her what you're telling us here
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:27 [#01007318]
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it doesn't sound to me like this is a relationship altering argument, I wouldn't ring her if you think it's just going to turn into an argument, when you feel in a more compromising mood, ring her, explain to here that you think it's strange that she was acting weird for 2 days,. and that you feel she's trying to hide soemthing from you by not explaining it to you, but try not to say it in a provoking way,
bleh I'm ranting now,. I hope soem of that helps
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:27 [#01007319]
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.THIS IS RE@L LIFE.
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Refund
from Melbourne (Australia) on 2003-12-27 16:28 [#01007321]
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he's got a good point there
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JivverDicker
from my house on 2003-12-27 16:29 [#01007322]
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I've had a similar one where I ended up putting on all the clothes her family had left for Oxfam in the porch and 'camping' in her garden..
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-27 16:31 [#01007326]
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haha, but you know you just got to do what you just got to do when it comes to females. I have done loads of stupid things...like phoning up and apologising for half an hour to the wrong girl.
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JivverDicker
from my house on 2003-12-27 16:32 [#01007329]
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hee hee! girls..?!
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-12-27 16:33 [#01007330]
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hahaha
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_awt_
from Malmö (Sweden) on 2003-12-27 16:35 [#01007331]
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haha i once had a fight with an now ex gf in the evening and then i went to her house in the middle of the night to apologise and make things good again.. i throwed some rock's at her window so she would awake without her parents waking up.. but she got so pissed when she woke up she wouldnt even let me inside to talk, i rided my bike to her house for 3 fucking hours to get their and when i couldnt come in i was so tired and didnt have the power to ride the bike home that i fell asleep on the grass outside her house =)
lol, i was soo nice, i should have throwed some bigger rocks >=)
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Ganymede
from Tlön, Uqbar, Orbis Tertius on 2003-12-27 16:54 [#01007349]
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Sorry to hear it Nacmat... my gut feeling is that you should ring her up.
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nacmat
on 2003-12-27 17:08 [#01007359]
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of course
but as I said I was alone right now with no chance of talking to a friend
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2003-12-27 18:13 [#01007391]
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I won't be much help, because my last girlfriend and I never had 1 fight, and all the ones before that were a bunch of sluts that i've forgotten about, so fuck them anyway. Still though, looking back at how we never fought, I have to slap myself in the face for ever ending that relationship... ughhh
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oxygenfad
from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2003-12-27 20:10 [#01007444]
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Nacmat you as a man must play the role of ALWAYS BEING WRONG.
If your girlfriend says "The moon was invented by Albert Einstien" YOU are wrong and SHE is right. This will save you lots and lots of NAG TIME.
A little tip from Oxy : )
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2003-12-27 20:18 [#01007455]
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hahaha, good advice, and so true too!
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2003-12-27 20:19 [#01007457]
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btw, nice avatar. Seeing richard's mouth bobbing up and down like a marionette makes for a good chuckle :D
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-12-28 01:36 [#01007667]
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That's the worst thing you can do because they end up losing all respect for you. You just have to try and stay calm, but never back down if you beleive you are in the right.
nacmat, you must be finsing this girl boring so why are you bothered about what she thinks? Get yourself another, more fun, girl.
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oxygenfad
from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2003-12-28 02:17 [#01007675]
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No way man. When girls are in histerics they think cruked. Like its just a fucked up mess of PSM.
Example : Girl : "Wow Jay Leno was really good in Jurassic park !" Me : "Uhhh Jay Leno wasnt in Jurrasic park ..." Girl: " Oh fuck you your such an asshole!" Me : "WHAT!? Jay Leno wasnt in Jurrasic Park!!!!!" Girl: "Well it was just the way you said it, like Im some sort of kid or something!"
Me : " WHAT?!?!?!?!? Your insane !" Girl: " NO SEX!"
Example : Girl : "Wow Jay Leno was really good in Jurassic park !" Me : "Yup sure was! I liked his big chin !" Girl : "Wow you are hot!"
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oxygenfad
from www.oxygenfad.com (Canada) on 2003-12-28 02:18 [#01007676]
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Don't cave in like when it comes to eating and movies and shit. Like stand your ground, but when ever you are fighting with a girl I just say "Yup Im stupid I am sorry"
Works allllll the fucking time.
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tibbar
from harrisburg, pa (United States) on 2003-12-28 02:21 [#01007677]
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oxy: i highly disagree.
i, for one, would rather never have a relationship with a girl ever again than engage in such immature nonsense. this isnt sayign YOU are immature, but that this type of behavior between 2 "adults" in a relatioship is acceptable as the norm is SICKENING.
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pOgO
from behind your belly button fluff on 2003-12-28 02:38 [#01007680]
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all you need to do is apologise and really mean it. And not just say sorry, say "i'm sorry I ................ because .......... etc" and just show her how much you really do love her
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nacmat
on 2003-12-28 02:54 [#01007686]
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that I ll do
but till yesterday she decided not to answer the phone I hope today she is more accesible
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