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28 years still living with mom and dad not working since last year to end my final degree project but I never finish it I am ashamed of saying all this well... I am looking for a job in some architect studio finally. I ll try to finish my project while I work |
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It's only temporary, lighten up! :) What you need is a santa hat! |
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i feel better now. |
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get drunk, always works for me |
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Take your time and don't be soo hard on your self... There's a man who lives near me called Dougie and he's 42, lives with his mum and counts the traffic. |
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wow, you suck. |
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With current property prices here, even "successful" people have to move back in with their parents occassionally. It's nothing to be ashamed of. I'm back home for a year after having moved out three years ago... it sucks, but it's free :) |
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My mother, a week before she died, told me I "never finish anything". This has given me the motivation to do a lot of "finishing" the past few months since she passed. So, don't be too hard on yourself about it. Just find some motivation. |
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good point jivverdicker.. definitely dont be hard on yourself nacmat.. in time youll work out what it is you are "supposed" to be doing with life (im banking on the same thing). it happens to everyone. and if all thats wrong is a motivational problem and feeling a bit disappoined about where your life seems to be stuck, then remember it could be alot worse. theres hundreds of cliches about this kind of thing (at least you have your health etc) ..but theyre cliches because theyre actually quite true. dont get too despondent. |
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that post is kind of scary what with the gun avatar and what not... |
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good luck man, i always think that i'm wasting my time with school and the like, but its all that i ever dreamed of. the school life is definately wonderful.... stay out of the work world until the last possible second! |
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nacho: dont feel down, man. im 24 (25 in may) and i still live at home. and im currently unemployed and broke, so it sucks. just dont lose heart. youll get on yr feet when the time is right. :D and if nothing else, theres people in your life who love the heck out of ya! |
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I left home when I was 23 but after 2 years of total poverty I had to come back but its 3 years now and still here thanks guys for your nice words... but still 28 years and at home everytime I think what aphex had doen with 28 years.... |
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its alright man, imagine you have no job, live with roommates, got kicked out of school and can't find a job... but you need one in the next like week in order to pay your rent! and thats me. LOL.... i believe that everything will work out the way it should, it always does. *CHEEERS! |
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Nacmat, if you were here, I'd give you a hearty slap on the back and take you out for a bevvy to drown your sorrows. As it is, all I can say is "Chin up son!" :) |
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honey, don't worry. You still have many years ahead of you yet =oD Things will pick up eventually and you'll be back on your feet before you know it, it'll just take some time xxxxx |
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if you really want to, you should be able to live on your own. you'll have to get a semi-crappy job, or at least not something you really like. but it shouldn't be that big a problem. |
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thanks friend thanks to everybody but its time to change |
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first objective: finish architecture aas soon as possible |
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Just pretend that your mum and dad are your servants and their house is your mansion, it's all in the mind... |
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lol that was nice thanks jivver... I think I need some good music right now ;) |
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well, if you have a plan at least, you shouldn't feel so bad. having a plan is more than most people of our age have. |
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"not working since last year to end my final degree project but I never finish it" "well... I am looking for a job in some architect studio finally. I ll try to finish my project while I work" Yes, i think it would probably be a good idea to find a job. Any job really. It seems to me there are two kinds of people... the ones with self-discipline, and the ones without ;-) I am definitly one of the ones without it myself. Having no responsibilities makes me lazy. I paint and make drawings and stuff. It is my dream to eventually become a children's book illustrator. When I just graduated from artschool I didn't want to get a job either, so i could focus on my paintings instead. But I did absolutely nothing for months and months and months. Felt really bad about myself. Guilty and worthless, like i was just taking up space :-o But now that i have work (just as a mailman, it has nothing to do at all with art) i feel alot better about myself. Like i am contributing to society in a very small way. I can't really explain it, but it made a huge difference for me. And I do alot more painting too, even though i have less time for it than when i didn't have a job. Probably also because i realise now that delivering mail is definitly not something i would want to get stuck in for the rest of my life... it's really motivating i can assure you :-p Ofcourse a job in an architect-studio would be even better for you... i hope you can find one! I also still live with my parents by the way (well... just my mother), and i'm 25. They say that after you've lived on your own you can never go back. But i haven't lived on my own yet, so i don't really mind :-p I've registered to get a place of my own. But that usually takes many years. Especially if you want a cheap appartment ;-) So I'll probably be living with my mom for a while. |
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don't talk to him then ;oD (j/k xx) |
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lol actually I think I wanna hear some linear frecuency objects |
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NEUMAN! |
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I do that, do a bit of gardening and cook the odd meal, they're so greatful they'll wait on you hand and foot for the rest of the week, why only two minutes ago my mother brought me a small container of "deli-mix"... :) |
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hey nacmat , i was just kidding earlier.. seriously, life is a bizzare-o dreamed reality.. no such thing as normality or well being.. don't be hard on yrself.. we're all lost really |
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I know you were kidding and in the end it was the truth this thread made me a little happier |
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yo, i was 27 years old AND married AND unemployed AND living with my father-in-law up untill last august. but you just gotta pull yourself out of that loser situation. gotta take the initiative and shit. |
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That's NEWMAN! actually ;-) |
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Don't feel bad, nacmat... it took me a little while longer than average to finish university, but it's been totally worth it... especially when I saw the statistic about how many people don't. I agree that having a job in order to put some external responsibilities into your life would probably be a good thing... ditto what surrounded said, basically. And yes, we love you here! :) |
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you're not a disaster, you're a work in progress. what you've done is not as important as what you are doing. in the end it's the little things that will count most, words and acts of kindness. focus on your successes, no matter how small, and forgive your failures. all of us came here without an instruction manual. : ) |
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plaidzebra is like so deep like woah man like woah. |
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Is Disneyland in minneapolis? |
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hahaha |
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If it makes you feel any better i work with a guy whos 25 and has a brother of 29 , both are still at home . He bought a laptop for himself but his mum wont let him go online, even though the money was coming out of his account! . At least your going places ;) |
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Having your own house or money isn't what makes a person. What makes a person is the number of bitches you buck in a year. Obviously your own house helps in this quest, but you just find yourself girls who like doing it outdoors and buy a tent. |
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horsefactory, at least jivverdicker had something helpful to offer. are you really just trolling through looking for people to disparage? if you want to dispense insults, do it with a little wit. |
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i think 28...living at home doesn't quite measure up to what i would define as a DISASTER in this world....but it is something to be ashamed of...lol, j/k. |
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everyone has their low points in life. stay optimistic and productive and good things should happen. :D |
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You're not a disaster, look at your post count! You're a living legend! Who cares about living with your parents. Moving out is not some big thing, it's not a gauge on how successful or unsuccessful you are at all. You'll finish your degree and be off and running. And you've always got modelling to fall back on. You could hang your heart on those cheekbones. |
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i'm back in with my parents after college... life sucks i'm sorry... you either fit in the system or you don't you either take percription drugs or alcohol or weed to numb the pain or you watch sports and tv all day and you get drunk and bet your kids or you become a homeless bum or you shot yourself don't worry about man... you have to laugh at how silly life is |
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i love you nacmat |
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i was also born in 1975, and im a mess as well haha...apperantly it wasnt a good year, but i try not to think about it anyway, i too live at home (same place ever since i was born haha), but luckly my parents moved out about 10 years ago - i guess they were fed up with me...seriously tho, i speak to them on the phone almost every week, and during summer i visit them almost every weekend (but thats just cos its convenient - they live at the seaside, and well i get a free place to stay at, with service and everything haha). i work at the same place i started 10 years ago...i still havent finished my final degree (i keep telling myself it was cos of work...but thats not entirely true)...anyway that degree wont change anything about my pay or line of work so i stoppped thinking about that. i dont get anything out of a day as i cant manage my time to well, im always in a hurry...so i relax here with posting every night...i do it even at work heh...otherwise it would be just to stressful :) i should have a familly by now, but instead i spend most of my money on music...i like going to gigs (im 28 but acting like i was 16), i get stoned almost every friday, saturday, sunday, sometimes even during week... i treat most of my friends like shit...i dont answer when they phone me if im not in a mood, i always find excuses for not going out if i dont feel like it, but hey, they dont give up - so either they're masochists or im not that bad as i think i am :) anyway, most of this stuff bothers me, but i try not to think about it too much...and im always thinking about how im going to change one day, but at the momment im too lazy and exausted to do anything about it... but i do like aphex twin!!! |
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at least you're not Monoid |
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hee hee! |
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blatant: why? did this thread make you feel better? ;) maybe we are twins tolstoyed |
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<---- tragedy |
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Yeah I think my life's been on a downer for a decade or so ... only SValx, music and sweet, sweet computer gaming can help me now. |
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