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I'm 19 (20 in October) I live in quite an urban part of England, and rather a rough part too. The average 14-27 year olds round here drink, smoke, do drugs, have no morals, and would fuck anything that's slightly moist. I however have never smoked, done drugs, i got drunk once at a college bash (NEVER again, i fucking HATE beer/lager/whatever the fuck you wanna call it) and i would never demean myself to play around with anyone else as i have a very strict and high moral code. Am i weird? I am indeed in the minority in these parts...just wanted he opinion of you guys in here... |
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You are NOT weird. |
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no you are just unique (in a positive way) |
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hmmm... for them you are weird I guess. But they are weird to you. So... I just think there's a difference in interests. You seem normal to me, allthough I do drink and get drunk. You'll be quite allright I guess. |
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You'd be weird if you start being vegetarian too ;-) j/k |
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lol thanks guys i guess it just disappoints me that it seems the future generation is going to have no concept of what things such as love and respect and morals are i know that since the beginnings of time, things like sex have always been a thing that's pressured upon by peers in your teens, but it seems that nowadays it's more rife than ever, and with all the teenage pregnancies and whatnot..... it's just very disappointing |
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now that i will never do! we're omnivores |
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Wierd fucker |
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It is a shame there are not more like you, with the same kind of standards. No you are not weird. |
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you're just as weird as any other random weirdo. who'd wanna be normal anyway? |
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what books do you read? |
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r u mp3.com/osillik ? |
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You're not weird. I hate "lad culture" too. Never smoked or done drugs and don't like the taste of alcohol, though I will drink to be sociable ...if I absolutely fucking have to :p Just don't try to be friends with any of the other crowd. It won't work and they'll just try to kick the crap out of you: Them: "Kill him!" You: "But why" Them: "Cos you used some words I didn't understand and didn't mention football, beer and tits all in one sentence." |
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i don't really read books as a medium i don't really like them there's only one book that i own, and that's 1984 fucking amazing |
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i'm on zebox.com/oscillik i cant remember if i signed up for mp3.com |
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EXACTLY!!! that's another thing, i'm not into football, bikes, cars, porn...etc etc etc all the stuff that is deemed 'normal' for a lad to be into |
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I like footy, drugs, lager and women, but I also like this electronic music stuff which negates any 'coolness' I get from the first four. So in conclusion it doesn't matter what you are like so long as you are like yourself. |
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cool cool .. just remembered some dude who was called oscillik or something of the sort of mp3.com / twas most lush .. shall check out zebox if tis indeed you :) |
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oh yeah, i'm perfectly happy with myself, apart from wishing i looked a bit better looking, but hey....i'm just born ugly and there's nothing i can do about it! i'm just concerned about the future that's all... |
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i can't even remember what stuff i've got up on zebox.com i know that i put Tirade up there...some people like it...most hate it lol |
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i am like you oscillik, except that i'm 17 years old, am vegetarian, and do not have any sexual activity, excepted dreams - because of, i guess, that feeling of frustration incompatibility towards my self and body. i never even got to masturbate, i tried but i just feel too uncomfortable, it reminds me of what i am and so i stop. i kinda like alcohol though, but i did get drunk at a party only once as well. (because i'm never invited to parties i guess... meh. *shrugs* ' _ ') |
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I'm with you on bikes and cars... never understood what people find so appealing about cars, and that Jeremy Clarkson royally pisses me off. Smug twat. I'm quite happy with a nice bit-o-porn though! So in conclusion it doesn't matter what you are like so long as you are like yourself, except when there are steaming lads around, in which case just keep quiet and hope they don't notice you cos you just know they'll direct their group attention to you and start taking the piss cos you're not openly enjoying the same things they are, and aren't shouting unintelligably at a mate three streets away. |
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well, i live by the code that sex should only be done if it's with someone you love i'm live by that code so much that i hate the word sex. it just strips away all of the emotion and feeling from the actual act i'm mushy - i call it 'making love' sex is something that those people who have one nights stands have. as that is the case, i have only had one sexual partner, and i'm still with her, and i plan on being with her for the rest of my life. i also had my first kiss with her, she was the first person to hold my hand, the first person to hug me, etc etc etc |
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lol liked that last sentence hehe i am proud that i am the way i am, i wouldn't want it any different i just wish that i could be tolerated just a little more than i am, and that people would stop expecting me to be into football anyone who i meet who's new, the first thing they ask "what team do you support?" ARRRRRRRRRRRGHH! |
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and i respond "i don't like football" and they look at you as if you've got 3 million eyes |
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I agree that sex should only be done with someone you love...I am just lucky I fall in love so quickly and often. I call it 'rutting' as opposed to 'making love' but they mean the same thing. I have only had one sexual partner for three months now, so at least I am being faithful. Never be ashamed of who you are...if people start making fun of you because you don't like the same things as them, cut them with a knife, they will soon grow to like you. |
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"Never be ashamed of who you are...if people start making fun of you because you don't like the same things as them, cut them with a knife, they will soon grow to like you." that's the first time today i've laughed my arse off great quote :) |
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welcome to hell kid, especially if you end up at uni and are surrounded by this world every day. In any event, always remember to remain humble. You feel you have made the right choices, and I agree, however, it is of the utmost to not manifest this into feelings of superiority over others who partake in what you do not. That tears at you, it rips you apart. Look inward to the choices you made as good for you, and good for your future, but leave it at that. Your life sounds very much like mine, but do not let it overcome you, do not be smug about it, and let your positive choices be just that, do not let your inner peace divide you. (steps off been there done that soapbox) go get 'em son. |
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Ha! Good idea, except that due to their prevalence in society today there's always a you-to-them ratio of about 47:1 so a knife fight is going to end one way and not happily. |
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i am exactly like you |
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oh no, i don't feel superior, and i'm relaly sorry if i've been coming accross as that damn, i always end up coming accross differently than what i meant! but you are absolutley right i, nor anyone else has the right to say that someone is better than the other just because of life choices and such i just wish that there were more people who considered things... like other people's feelings, and how easily a person can be upset |
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nope, today if you pull i knife on them, you're more likely to have about 15 Mac 10 sub machine pistols pelting lead at your general direction |
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Strap yourself with a large amount of explosives and scream "I do this for Allah" as you are waving your knife about. |
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hehehehehe i like your sense of humor ecnadniarb |
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you didn't come accross that way, but I am warry as most people who make these choices feel superior. --------- In any event, the hardest thing ever has been to find a girl at college who believes some of the things I do, and you know what? It ain't happening. I'm pretty sure I'm going to die alone! |
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Yes but not many girls beleive that sheep are a higher intelligence and that god was a snail. |
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trust me....they are out there...it's just college probably isn't the right place to look....teen culture is at it's epitome in colleges/unis |
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sure, and when I'm out of college, all the girls will have had all their sex and all their drunk stories, and hooray! there won't be any left! christ.... I was walking & talking with the docotor I work with yesterday, and he was so plain about it. He says, girls love the crazy stuff until they get out of school, then all they want is vanilla. Fuck that shit, they can have vanilla now! |
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lol not all girls are like that though. but would it really make a difference to you that a girl had been wild in their past?? as long as you love her, and she loves you too, isn't that all that matters? |
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Nah, don't fall in love with love. Love isn't all that matters...there are many other things that matter. |
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no, don't fall in love with the idea of falling in love i made that mistake in the past and got hurt...badly :( i guess it all depends on the person, but to me, my beloved is the most important thing to me more important to me that music.....and anyone who knows me personally will testify that it's a big feat to be able to mean more to me than music does |
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Nothing means more to me than music, except maybe a bowl of fried rice and a cute asian female feeding me...but even then it is a very close run thing. |
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Oh and you sound pretty normal for a person from Widnes :D Trust me a know a few of them... |
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lol, hell no. If some girl fucked a whole fraternity, then fell in love with me, she obviously doesn't know me very well, and yeah, that doesn't work for me. I can forgive and forget, but only to a certain extent, making poor choices over a 4 year period does not seem the kind of the thing to brush over with a *sigh.........ok, it's cool* I want a girl who made the same decisions I did, and feels some of the same convictions I do. I tried converting them, and it doesn't work, so afer two more years of college the dating pool should be pretty small. Maybe I'll marry a nun. |
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fuck diss...i'm going to a dancing now! |
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well, i'm originally from Harlow, Essex just wasn't old enough for the rave scene :( |
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lol yeah, i mean something like that would be kinda hard to brush under the table, because *usually* (please note, i did not say ALL THE TIME, I SAID USUALLY) people like that don't grow out of their habits oh, why is life difficuly eh? i hope that you find the yin for your yang (or is it the other way round?) |
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I know a few people from Essex too...actually everyone I know from Essex is unbeleivably 'normal', nothing strange or unique about them. They just exist. Strange group of people. I visited a friend in a place called Southminster and it was like being stuck in some parallel universe. Everything was just so 'normal', I didn't really fit in there. |
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well, i can't really profess to know much about essex....we moved from there when i was 7 we moved up to widnes then at 12 i moved to birmingham to be with my dad then at 17 i moved back to widnes so i could get into college now at nearly 20 i'm hoping to move to Burton On Trent |
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lol, I'm going to die alone. |
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