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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:07 [#00802595]
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A gay friend once told me:
"In my experience (Breeder watching/hunting) its 99.9999% always the "I'm a tough guy and I can kick your ass" that gets the female."
[in this quote, breeders = heterosexuals]
This may also match your experiences; however it's not always the way it is, according to an article posted on http://www.reuters.com.
Big Guys Don't Always Get the Girls
Wed July 30, 2003 03:20 PM ET LONDON (Reuters) - Big, assertive guys don't always get the girls.
In some species, such as coho salmon and quail, weedier, less aggressive males are the top choice of females, New Scientist magazine said Wednesday.
"People just expect the dominant guy to win. But females learn through personal experience that these males can be hurtful," according to Alex Ophir, of Canada's McMaster University in Ontario.
Ophir proved the point by observing Japanese quail. After female quail watched a fight between two males they were put in the same cage with the combatants. Virgin females preferred the winner but the females with some sexual experience tended to choose the loser.
Female coho salmon are also more likely to mate with males known as jacks who stop growing earlier and are smaller than their competitors, said evolutionary biologist Steve Shuster of Northern Arizona University in Flagstaff.
He suspects female salmon may be attracted to jacks because their early maturing could be a sign of quality and success.
"The females may also prefer to avoid the physical abuse of mating with aggressive males," the magazine added.
--- http://www.reuters.com/newsArticle.jhtml?type=scienceNews... ---
discuss: what are your experiences on the subject?
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:11 [#00802603]
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i'm not a coho salmon orr quail
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xceque
on 2003-07-31 13:13 [#00802606]
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I am a medium-sized non-muscular unagressive guy, and I have no girl.
This, however, does not prove the theory correct. There may be other factors. Such as heightened interest in chocolate, or rice pudding, over girls.
I am not a salmon.
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afxNUMB
from So.Flo on 2003-07-31 13:13 [#00802607]
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Girl point of view:
I think women are nurturing so they would pick the "loser" male. Because the "winner" male may be the dick.
Personally(I was talking about this earlier with Dolleater) I prefer the male to be aggresive in bed, and outside the bedroom a man who knows what he wants and goes ahead and does it without "babe, are you sure" bullshit...I personally can't go around with someone who doesnt know his ass from his elbow and walks around like a pussy--I want to feel like I'm proud to be walking with my boyfriend not someone walking with their head down.
I guess its changed because women are becoming the dominant ones but a mans a man no matter what =)
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LiberianGirl
from United States on 2003-07-31 13:16 [#00802608]
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My bf is skinny but has a huge cock, so I'm happy.
luv ya hun
--Mary
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dariusgriffin
from cool on 2003-07-31 13:16 [#00802611]
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How romantic.
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promo
from United Kingdom on 2003-07-31 13:17 [#00802612]
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Being a weed and unsure of oneself is equally unnattractive for females. Forget aggression its more about confidence and the sense of ambition that women get from particular men that attracks them.
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:18 [#00802614]
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i'm not a weed and i'm prretty surre of myself, but i'm also not big and aggrressive.
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:19 [#00802615]
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i think im a good mix, and i'm not being big headed, coz my luck with the women is prretty bad.
and i say prretty too much.
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promo
from United Kingdom on 2003-07-31 13:20 [#00802617]
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Let me refine that the sense of knowing where you're going.
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xceque
on 2003-07-31 13:20 [#00802618]
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A simplistic view, though one that is becoming more prevalent in women.
Women seem to think they can dictate the terms of a relationship, as described: "I personally
can't go around with someone who doesnt know his ass from his elbow and walks around like a pussy"
This is all well and good, but all too often (and I'm not saying young afxNUMB is included in this) the woman will decide that she will have her way and never mind the guy, if he can't have things my way, he can find another girl. And men, being the pussies they are, acceed to this and become subservient. This is simply cos men often want the relationship more than the woman.
I think this is why I have no woman. I won't give up all my own foibles for any woman. She'll take me as I am (with minor consessions on my part as well as hers) or she can bugger orf.
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:21 [#00802620]
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you say the rright things. I partly agree with promo to.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:21 [#00802621]
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my experience is that most women want a reasonably good looking guy with a decent personality. you can fake either of these attributes with sufficient confidence, but generally not both at the same time.
not getting enough action? plaizebra's prescription for success is:
lower your standards!
delete your porn! it's sapping your motivation
and get a nice haircut!
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ambsace
from canaDUH. on 2003-07-31 13:22 [#00802622]
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i'm content to being with me and me.
and we don't need anybody.
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:22 [#00802623]
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nobody should give up anything when looking for love. that is not love. that is sacrifice.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:25 [#00802625]
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key_secret, and yet the vast majority of romantic relationships are not built on unconditional love. given this, you should expect, and embrace, some sacrifice. an unwillingness to sacrifice is a relationship killer.
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mc_303_beatz
from Glasgow, Scotland on 2003-07-31 13:25 [#00802626]
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I have a girlfriend (albiet in america), I deleted all my porn, I cut my hair, my personality is pretty good and I look alright. Also I recently cut my hair, but I still feel like shit!!! Must be doin somethin wrong. I think its the girlfriend in america part. heh heh
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:26 [#00802627]
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mc 303, you see you cut your hair one too many times. when it grows back, you'll feel better.
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:26 [#00802628]
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i need a good hairr cut.
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aquagak
from Berlin (Germany) on 2003-07-31 13:27 [#00802630]
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big tough guy are dumb and just have a head full of cum, which suggests why they cheat more that the normal guy
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:28 [#00802631]
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I think it's you deleting all your german porn.
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ambsace
from canaDUH. on 2003-07-31 13:28 [#00802632]
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bah. when some day a decently attractive girl decides she'll have a scrawny, scruffy, and long-haired computer nerd hangin' around...i'll lock her up in my basement and keep her forever.
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:29 [#00802633]
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if you embrace the sacrifice, they are not sacrifices. I do not know the word for it,
but if it feels like your sacrificing something - don't do it. and that's what I meant.
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:29 [#00802634]
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Keep her inside a sack. and don't overfeed her.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:30 [#00802635]
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having a girlfriend in another country or state is the worst. i was in that situation in college, and walking around campus with beautiful women all around me was depressing. so i guess i forgot the most important element of relationship success:
location!
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mc_303_beatz
from Glasgow, Scotland on 2003-07-31 13:30 [#00802636]
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It is true though. It's always the shallow dickheads that get all the chicks. too many shallow folks in this world of ours. too much candy floss fluff bullshit personalities and social standards. too many expectations. We are an arrogant species. I'm kinda bewildered by the human race right now
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:30 [#00802637]
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don't get rrid of porrn, i did that with rreal tangible videos, what a mistake that was, when i came home alone i rreally missed them, and worrse of all one of them was amazing and i don't know what it was called. i'll neverr see that video again. just hide them.
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aquagak
from Berlin (Germany) on 2003-07-31 13:32 [#00802638]
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who needs a woman when they've got a hand
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mc_303_beatz
from Glasgow, Scotland on 2003-07-31 13:32 [#00802639]
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yeah your probably right. I know i`ll regret. Good job I have Broadband. and now.... a wank.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:32 [#00802640]
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key_secret, i understand now. to deny oneself is to sacrifice, but to find the desire for self-change within a relationship is not sacrifice.
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:33 [#00802641]
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haha... what was that amzing movie about? In what country was it made?
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:34 [#00802642]
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it was dubbed in frrench, so i don't know what language it was made in. damn it was fine. it was some hot rreporrterr going arround having sex.
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:35 [#00802643]
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sounds cool... you sure it wasn't made in france?
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:36 [#00802644]
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who needs an oven when they've got a butane lighter?
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:36 [#00802645]
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it could have been, it was set indoorrs mainly apparrt frrom this bit on a carr.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:37 [#00802647]
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key_secret, you porn hound!
: )
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aquagak
from Berlin (Germany) on 2003-07-31 13:37 [#00802648]
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true plaidzebra, a hand has a 2d personality
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fleetmouse
from Horny for Truth on 2003-07-31 13:38 [#00802649]
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:38 [#00802650]
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"people having sex? sounds cool!"
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Key_Secret
from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-31 13:38 [#00802651]
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heh.. not really, I was 'amazed by' (well, I enjoyed discussing it anyway) porn when I was younger though...
AP : You don't remember any of the cast?
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:39 [#00802652]
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legend
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:39 [#00802653]
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do i hell.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2003-07-31 13:41 [#00802655]
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of course, a butane lighter can come in handy...
to light your cigarette when your cake is baked.
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ambsace
from canaDUH. on 2003-07-31 13:41 [#00802656]
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T H I E F !
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fleetmouse
from Horny for Truth on 2003-07-31 13:44 [#00802661]
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Eh? You were using ol' Ron? I found him on the web and resized him myself ya know...
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:48 [#00802670]
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i had this grreat porrno starring Ron, it had his wife in it and he was a photogrrapherr.
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ambsace
from canaDUH. on 2003-07-31 13:49 [#00802671]
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lemme see if the cropping is the same. hah. i was using that same picture.
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ambsace
from canaDUH. on 2003-07-31 13:50 [#00802672]
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alright, alright. your head is bigger.
my mistake. forgive me.
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fleetmouse
from Horny for Truth on 2003-07-31 13:51 [#00802673]
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alright, alright. your head is bigger.
naturally
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Anus_Presley
on 2003-07-31 13:52 [#00802674]
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http://www.k9care.com/fga/Ron_Jeremy1.jpg
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