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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:37 [#00800235] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | Link 
 basically, it says if a woman says "stop" during sex, if the
 guy doesnt stop immediately... its rape.
 
 Now, Ok, I can understand it, and yeah, a guy should stop...
 but I do see it being a very delicate matter... I mean, how
 can you prove it? It would be her word against his. If they
 are already having sex, then there would be physical
 evidence that they had sex, but how can you prove that they
 said stop?
 
 I dunno... I just think it could lead to problems about
 false accusations
 
 
 
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         |  rockenjohnny
             from champagne socialism (Australia) on 2003-07-30 09:38 [#00800239] Points: 7983 Status: Lurker
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 | well you know 
 no is one thing
 
 stop is another
 
 
 
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         |  Key_Secret
             from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-30 09:39 [#00800242] Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to Zeus: #00800235
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 | yeaz... laws are weird. if you know you're proper, just follow yourself.
 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:39 [#00800243] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800235
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 | "i thought she said STOMP!" -mr. fetish 
 
 
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         |  marlowe
             from Antarctica on 2003-07-30 09:40 [#00800244] Points: 24636 Status: Lurker
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 | Just wait - they'll implement CCTV in every room of every house - just to 'protect' us.
 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:40 [#00800247] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker | Followup to marlowe: #00800244
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 | they'll tell us how to have sex... like jesse helms and the christian coalition
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:41 [#00800248] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | yeah, but how can you use that in court? 
 it would just be her word against his, there is absolutely
 no proof that she said stop. A woman could have sex with a
 man, and then just say she said no. They would know they had
 sex, because you can check a woman, but there would be
 nothing that could prove if she asked him to stop.
 
 
 
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         |  mc_303_beatz
             from Glasgow, Scotland on 2003-07-30 09:41 [#00800249] Points: 3386 Status: Regular
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 | once you pop, you can't stop! 
 
 
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 09:43 [#00800256] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker
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 | When i get to the vinegar strokes, wild horse couldn't drag me off the bitch.
 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:44 [#00800262] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800248
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 | they say that most rapes committed on college campuses result in the woman having consentual sex with the man that,
 by the definition provided by the college and sometimes to
 local/state/federal law, raped her.
 
 
 
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         |  Key_Secret
             from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-30 09:45 [#00800264] Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to mc_303_beatz: #00800249
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 | Once you stop [listen to mainstream music] can't [listen to] pop.
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:45 [#00800265] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to titsworth: #00800262
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 | you mean they were sexual partners before, and then he raped her, or that the rape claims are actually just lies, and
 they just had consentual sex?
 
 
 
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 09:46 [#00800266] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker
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 | if you have sex and the woman doesn't like it that much, is that rape? I'm just a bit worried that i might have raped
 some women in the past and not known.
 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:47 [#00800269] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800265
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 | no, sexual partners AFTERwards. the new definition of rape at some colleges is as loose as any woman having sex while
 drunk was raped (not sure if this applies to first timers
 only). but even by laxer definitions the same statistic
 applies. it just shows how pathetic some colleges are
 getting after a few overblown incidents.
 
 
 
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         |  Key_Secret
             from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-30 09:48 [#00800271] Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800266
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 | hahaha 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:49 [#00800274] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | damn... thats wierd... 
 and fucked up
 
 and the majority of sex that happens in college is under the
 influence...
 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:50 [#00800279] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800274
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 | i know, hence the student outrage.. if it weren't for booze a lot of college kids wouldn't ever get any action
 
 
 
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         |  Key_Secret
             from Sverige (Sweden) on 2003-07-30 09:51 [#00800281] Points: 9325 Status: Regular | Followup to titsworth: #00800279
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 | haha... sad but true I guess ;) 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:51 [#00800282] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | its a crazy world we live in 
 
 
 
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 09:54 [#00800288] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker
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 | I've never raped anyone. But i've been present when one was taking place. It wasn't nice.
 
 
 
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         |  Ceri JC
             from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:54 [#00800289] Points: 23533 Status: Moderator | Show recordbag
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 | LOL@Bill. Maybe there should be a "2 minute finishing up time" rule
 that you can use before you have to stop?
 
 Yep, this is a touchy one... similair thing here... bit of a
 non-enforcable law though. What if your partner is into
 moaning "stop" (without actually wanting you to stop at all)
 during the proceedings? What about with a couple where one
 or more involved are a deaf and/or dumb person? It's hard
 enough to prove "normal" rape, let alone when sex is
 intially consenting and changes half way through...
 
 Even bruising or scratches on either party are not "proof"
 of resistance- they could be from (consenting) rough sex.
 
 As with most of our hideously outdated rape laws, I imagine
 this new one won't work if a man shouts stop... It's still
 not recognised that women can commit rape here, there is
 some other name for it and the term is a lot shorter.
 
 Moral of the story- don't have sex with psychopaths, people
 (ie, people who are likely to shout "stop" just to fuck you
 around or by a similair token, those who are likely to carry
 on when you're clearly in pain and quite definately want
 them to stop).
 
 
 
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         |  xf
             from Australia on 2003-07-30 09:54 [#00800292] Points: 2952 Status: Lurker
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 | ....they cant say no if their mouth is gagged 
 
 
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         |  Ceri JC
             from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:56 [#00800294] Points: 23533 Status: Moderator | Followup to Ceri JC: #00800289 | Show recordbag
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 | erm, laughing at his first post, not the second one... (I really should use the follow up button)
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:56 [#00800295] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800288
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 | really? did you try and help her, and stop the guy? 
 
 
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         |  Anus_Presley
             on 2003-07-30 09:56 [#00800298] Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
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 | huh. that's madness. 
 
 
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         |  Spacecadet
             on 2003-07-30 09:56 [#00800299] Points: 1790 Status: Lurker | Followup to xf: #00800292
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 | dead girls don't say no to anyone 
 
 
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         |  Jarworski
             from The Grove (United Kingdom) on 2003-07-30 09:57 [#00800300] Points: 10836 Status: Lurker
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 | Damn thread title built my hopes up, I thought they made it legal
 
 
 
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 09:57 [#00800301] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800295
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 | I couldn't. there was too many of them. And they were my friends. But to show my protest, I tried not to look.
 
 
 
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         |  corrupted-girl
             on 2003-07-30 09:58 [#00800302] Points: 8469 Status: Regular
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 | "Maybe there should be a "2 minute finishing up time" rule that you can use before you have to stop?"
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 09:58 [#00800303] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800301
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 | thats fucked up man.... 
 did the girl ever go to the police?
 
 its got to feel so dirty to be raped... so degrading
 
 
 
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         |  Jarworski
             from The Grove (United Kingdom) on 2003-07-30 09:58 [#00800304] Points: 10836 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800301
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 | What a gent! 
 
 
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         |  Anus_Presley
             on 2003-07-30 09:58 [#00800305] Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
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 | what if a bloke says stop? 
 
 
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         |  xf
             from Australia on 2003-07-30 10:00 [#00800308] Points: 2952 Status: Lurker | Followup to Spacecadet: #00800299
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 | you know exactly where i'm coming from! 
 
 
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 10:00 [#00800309] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800303
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 | She was going to go to the police, but she ended up killing herself before she had the courage to go. I still feel sort
 of guilty today.
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 10:00 [#00800310] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | there was a rape case in italy that got all these attention, because a court ruled that since the girl was wearing jean
 pants, she couldnt have been raped.
 
 they said it would be too hard for a guy to pull her pants
 off, so she had to have taken them off consentually.
 
 which is BS, what if the guy just like, beats her, until she
 takes them off?
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 10:01 [#00800311] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800309
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 | jesus dude 
 
 
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         |  xf
             from Australia on 2003-07-30 10:02 [#00800315] Points: 2952 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800309
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 | jokes aside; holy shit, that's fucking awful :( 
 you still friends with these people?
 
 
 
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         |  Anus_Presley
             on 2003-07-30 10:02 [#00800316] Points: 23472 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800311
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 | arre you serrious 
 
 
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         |  corrupted-girl
             on 2003-07-30 10:02 [#00800317] Points: 8469 Status: Regular | Followup to Zeus: #00800310
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 | That is such  bullshit. 
 
 
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         |  Jarworski
             from The Grove (United Kingdom) on 2003-07-30 10:02 [#00800318] Points: 10836 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800309
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 | So they didn't egg you on to have a go? I thought you'd be up for blowing your muck right up her rectum
 
 
 
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 10:02 [#00800319] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800311
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 | she was my little sister. 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 10:04 [#00800322] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800319
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 | dude, are you just fucking with us? 
 
 
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         |  Anus_Presley
             on 2003-07-30 10:04 [#00800323] Points: 23472 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00800322
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 | yes man 
 
 
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         |  xf
             from Australia on 2003-07-30 10:04 [#00800324] Points: 2952 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800319
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 | ? 
 are you joking about all this?
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 10:05 [#00800325] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | its really not funny 
 
 
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         |  xf
             from Australia on 2003-07-30 10:05 [#00800327] Points: 2952 Status: Lurker | Followup to Anus_Presley: #00800323
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 | oh well, back to having sex with dead girls 
 
 
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         |  Anus_Presley
             on 2003-07-30 10:05 [#00800328] Points: 23472 Status: Lurker
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 | s u c k e r r s 
 
 
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         |  Jarworski
             from The Grove (United Kingdom) on 2003-07-30 10:06 [#00800330] Points: 10836 Status: Lurker
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 | Let's face it, we all like a little resistence. If she's totally game for it and whaps her cunt out at the drop of a
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         |  bill_hicks
             from my city is amazing it is calle on 2003-07-30 10:06 [#00800332] Points: 4286 Status: Lurker
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 | Some people are rather gullible. 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-07-30 10:07 [#00800333] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00800332
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 | youre an asshole man 
 
 
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