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I found out tonight, the importance of seperating your heart, from your mind. My girl and I are taking a break from our relationship for a bit, maybe forever, but it isn't all bad. We both still care, the manifestation of that just wasn't going where either of us wanted. When you let your heart or mind control all you do, you loose balance, and drama insues. When the heart and mind work together, only occasionally working on their own, the results are at least understandable, and always tolerable. Sometimes their for the better..... |
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can you type that in layman terms? ;) |
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sorry, this is a self medicating post or so, lord knows I spam the board with enough relationship crap to drown us all. I just never saw, really, I never noticed, that the mind and heart can work as one, or independently, but only if you are true to both. If you don't listen to your head, or follow your heart, your fucked. You get all confused, lost, and the issues that need to get dealt with, just get left there. My heart is in love, but the brain realizes I need other things, practical, rational things. Sometimes it's the other way around, and you just gotta have faith. I learned someting I was astonished to not know before though, that working together, everythings better. |
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i feel ya, man :) |
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when they work seperatly, but together, we'll the results might not be what either wanted, but you shouldn't come out any worse for ware. I hear that sometimes you need to let one say more than the other, sometimes you just need to listen to your heart, but if mostly they work together, and I never thought that was possible, then you have a little less pain in life. |
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i ruined the best relationship i had with my mind. but i've been my mind all my life. i guess after the relationship though is when i realized that. i wanted a second chance and so did she, so we took it, but it didn't go anywhere. now we're just in limbo because she says cant handle a relationship right now, but we still hang out. i dont know...i guess i'm becoming my mind again because i'm trying not to care so much about someone i may never have again, but the little bit of my heart keeps her in my life. |
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whoa, that is kinda just where I'm at. haven't taken the second trip around, though we pretty much planned to, just need to sort things out, and take time to ourselves. it's ok to let go mate though, if your heart is there, but the mind has shown again and again that it isn't working, then it's ok to say, hey, I love you, but we don't work. I wish we did, and we tried, but it just doesn't work :( it's ok to cut your loses, I had to, and we'll see where it goes from here. |
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my only relationships are with simple creatures. |
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i hope you dont live on a farm |
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i have one specific turtle that loves rainstorms. his name is big guy. i didn't name him. i usually don't name things. |
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i dont name things either. animals will be called as the animal they are. |
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my brother has a new iguana and we have not named it for three weeks. |
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the best name for a dog i have ever heard was "Dee Oh Gee" |
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these are all equally important lessons as well. :) |
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life is often the simpler things. |
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i like BlatantEcho because he represents the everyday working man. :D also the mind is or has more to do with the heart than it does the brain. The brain just keeps the shell going but the heart and soul run the operation! |
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definetly agree. I just really learned today, that if they aren't all talking, well, your fucked. when they do, the operation goes smooth, and you know what, I like that a lot better than the opposite. |
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kinda lonely this morning, knowing no one is really dyeing to see me, or drive down and hop in my bed, but there isn't any of that suicidal depressed stuff. so me thinks this all works out fine. |
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i is kinda in a similar situation, not seeing her too often for a while. wish i could see it as positively as you do, though. |
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I'm starting to believe, that if a girls 30+ minutes away, then don't even bother. someone elses advice, but I find truth in it now. |
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man, you have got to be like the most beautiful person on this message board me and my girlfriend used to take breaks, i know what you mean where it kind of gets to the point where you're like "i think i need a time out" not like to get with other girls at all just so you can kind of be alone with your thoughts and sort your own shit out with out having to drag her into it. |
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like a fine wine we mature with age! |
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i know my emotional part and thinking part are kinda separated, but the emotional is dominating more and more and sometimes i have the feeling i cannot think anymore... and of course i know i can't go on like this, i need to re-equilibrate the balance. but i'm in no love relationship, i've never been in one - and i don't want to. =) "i have one specific turtle that loves rainstorms. his name is big guy. i didn't name him. i usually don't name things." > so you consider him as a thing? turtles are alive, and have feelings too... =( |
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