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Bunch of fucked up things lately... 1) An old friend fo mine is probably going to die (medical but I don't really want to go into it, esp since I'm not even sposed to know about it yet) and she has a 3 year old kid and the whole thing is puttign strain on the relationship with her bf.. 2) Today is the 5th anniversary of another friend's mother's death. She has no parents, just a crazy sister who shoots up. 3) As for me, my gf is going to england and spain etc for somewhere between 8 and 18 months. Tomorrow. I've only been with her a months and a half but it still fucking sucks. Get to see her for the last time tonight. I'm not the kind of person who always needs to be with women so I'm pretty sure waiting won't be a problem. And she def. wants to getback together, but it's so looooooooong. Weird how these things happen, it was like all our lives were (sort of) going so well for so long and then a bunch of shit like this gets dumped on our group. Sorry. Just thought I'd share my grief. |
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Ouch :( Hope things are okay... |
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yikes, that is a lot going on. it always helps me to take a step back, breathe and get in the mindset to tackle each mental thing one at a time. don't get overwhelmed, what happens happens, and I hope all this turns out for the best for you. |
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sorry man that sucks....everything will work out man |
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Not to mention some of our groups friends (who I dislike now) are smoking ice constantly and are pretty much setting themselves solidly down that bad road... But I don't really care too much coz they turned into wankers a while ago. But yeah I dunno. Personally I'll be fine, I'll just miss Mel and shit. A few of us got together last night and basically said we have to stand together as friends and help each other out through this shit (the girl's life being in danger). There is a lot of dramatic bullshit surrounding it aswell, and my mate could easily be sucked right into the middle of the drama aswell, and he has basically no idea on what to do... I just think that there's no real "solution", just gotta do what we all think is best... |
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i'm sorry to hear all this :/ remember just stick to the good things (that is what i CAN'T do and look what a mess i am) |
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I wont bother commenting on all those things.. . but basically Id give up on the girlfriend.. . seriously.. . for me thats too long.. . and I have no idea what sort of personallity you have.. . I know I wouldnt be that worried about her being faithful.. . but a lot of people would be.. . and what happens if something changes in that amount of time.. . best to call it quits until she comes back. .. |
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stick together man. |
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you're killing me saying thatm, but that's pretty much what we already decieded. |
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od_step_cloak, this really sucks. I hope you and your girlfriend get back together. If it's meant to be then you will. I kinda had the same situation but i sat it out. I won't say what happened. Ahh well it's in the past now |
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my last post was directed @ glitch.... I reckon it'd be worth seeing if we can still be together when she gets back coz atm we get on liek a house on fire. and i mean as far as changes are, we're already 4 years apart (i'm 20, she's 24) so i guess that means.....something? anyways thanks for support + thoughts, guys |
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"I reckon it'd be worth seeing if we can still be together when she gets back" if you two get through this it is only going to be even more amazing when she returns! |
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Listen to tolstoyed od, he is very very correct |
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Cheers, man. Any support means a lot atm. :) I just saw her then for the last time in god knows how long. She almost cancelled the flight... Ugh it doesn't help that last night I spent stressign over all this shit (or as close to stressing as you can get when you're stoned) at a mate's place and I got 4 hours sleep (and none the nightbefore that) So I'm even more inclined to get all depressed (well, not depressed....jusrt real sad...at least I think there's a difference...) Anyways sorry to crap on about this, just nice to blurt it out somewhere, eh |
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the moral of the story is "try to control your urges to breed." |
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hang in there OD. That's a hell load to deal with. Breathe deep. Relax. Draw some more pixel cartoons. and write some new tracks. hang in there. |
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i would guess being about to die would put a strrain on the rrelationship :| |
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