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hepburnenthorpe
from sydney (Australia) on 2003-04-14 09:22 [#00649546]
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went out on saturday night with a few friends. ended up meeting this lovely girl 'brooke', anyway, she rings me today tonight to see what im up too, and i end up asking her to meet me for lunch.
here is my delema!
im shit scared. havent been out with a girl for like 8 years or something! she makes me so nervous, which is kinda wierd for me. thing is, i only really split with my wife like 6 mnths ago, and hadnt planned on persueing anything.
i meen, what if i like her? and i think i allready might. i meen, well, she makes me nervous so theres something going on.
i figure theres no harm in doing lunch. its all informal and all, but well, im not real sure i even want to be with someone yet. i suppose im reading to much into it all, but....oh i dunno.
im excited, and thats what worries me.
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princo
from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2003-04-14 09:25 [#00649551]
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Lunch wouldnt be as scary as dinner I reckon.
but.. GO YOU GOOD THING! :D
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-04-14 09:27 [#00649555]
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Go for it. It's always a lot more fun (in the long run) if you're scared rather than it being relaxed and clinical in execution. Nothing like a bit of awkwardness to prompt spontaneous kissing... go for it mullado!
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AE_King
from Australia on 2003-04-14 09:27 [#00649556]
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Stick it in mate!!1
;)
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Kill Switch
from Belgium on 2003-04-14 09:28 [#00649557]
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Why don't just go with the flow and see what happens in the coming days/weeks. And if you find yourself the right time and please (not on that diner offcourse), you could tell her honestly what's on your mind (what you wrote in your post)
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epohs
from )C: on 2003-04-14 09:33 [#00649564]
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ditto
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hepburnenthorpe
from sydney (Australia) on 2003-04-14 09:44 [#00649573]
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yeah...fuck it. what do i care? its meant to be fun. good company and all.
we get allong well. she knows im married. she knows i have a daughter.
just gonna let it go with the flow.
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Dael
from the low end (Australia) on 2003-04-14 09:50 [#00649577]
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that's the spirit!!!
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princo
from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2003-04-14 09:54 [#00649584]
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Yeah, in the cafe' and with everyone watching! ;)
... ah you said fuck "it". my mistake
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hepburnenthorpe
from sydney (Australia) on 2003-04-14 10:20 [#00649622]
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i guess its more the fact that by seeig other people ive resided to the fact that im not getting back with my wife.
and i really dont want to say that.
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evolume
from seattle (United States) on 2003-04-14 10:22 [#00649627]
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i think your real problem is that you're looking for advice on a message board.
relax guy, its just lunch last girl i took to lunch on a first date, i am marrying May 10th.
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-04-14 10:25 [#00649631]
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Congrats evolume!
I think asking for advice on a mb isn't a problem.. no one here would have any sort of ulterior motive that might influence our advice. People he really knows might...
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eXXailon
from purgatory on 2003-04-14 10:25 [#00649633]
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Hepburnenthorpe: Just be relaxed, don't expect anything yet and just have a good time with a woman :)
Evolume: Congrats in advance!
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AphexAcid
from Sweden on 2003-04-14 10:26 [#00649634]
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You go, girl ... ehm, Boy! ^_^
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danbrusca
from Derbyshire (United Kingdom) on 2003-04-14 10:46 [#00649659]
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Where's our invite then?
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evolume
from seattle (United States) on 2003-04-14 10:59 [#00649679]
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bellevue art museum May 10 6:00 pm bring a gift.
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danbrusca
from Derbyshire (United Kingdom) on 2003-04-14 11:46 [#00649758]
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:D
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