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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 14:53 [#00641365]
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...the love of my life! :D
It all started when i was dating my previous girlfriend (yes the one that left for Denmark last weekend). I was DJ'ing on this party (me and my playlist = DJ'ing in smaller communities), and i met this really cute girl. We started kissing later that evening, and I ofcourse had to explain a lot to my former g/f...
long story short - i have emailed a lot with her lately, and i found out that we both have been thinking of each other since the last time we were together. That's 1 whole year of thinking of each other!
Anyway, the only problem is that she's Aries, like me, so that can only be a problem (that's the horoscopes speaking).
The other deal is that she's 5 years younger than me!
But besides that (and the fact that i right now live like 1000km away from her) it actually looks like it's mend to be. It's just THAT feeling. For both of us. It always has been....
btw: this is not a rebound from my ex...i have been having this feelings about this girl while i was dating my ex...wait a minute...that sounded bad :-/
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-04-09 14:57 [#00641371]
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it would never work, email speak is email speak. The distance is too far and it is easy to fantacise about other girls, who lets face it, you hardly know.
Personally I think the horoscope talk is bullshit.
But hey, you have lost nothing by trying. :)
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eXXailon
from purgatory on 2003-04-09 15:01 [#00641377]
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The fact that you are both Aries and it that a relationship would thus not work is nonsense
The fact that she's 5 years younger than you doesn't necessarily have to be problem, depends on your personalities.
The fact that you live 1000km away from her makes it almost impossible for you two to have a working relationship. Forget about that, as harsh as that may seem :(
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:01 [#00641378]
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I was sleeping besides her a whole evening, kissing and touching. I had the same happy feeling the whole night, like i was on schrooms! ...I just now found out that she had the same feelings...fuck emails...this girl is for real! and so am i
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:02 [#00641382]
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dude...i'm moving back to denmark one day etherway....
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TonePu5her
from lincoln !UK! (United Kingdom) on 2003-04-09 15:05 [#00641388]
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love fool.......
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:07 [#00641393]
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YES! i luuuuuuuuuuuuueve her! :D
and i have been trying to get her out of my mind in all that time, cuz my stupid ex got mad everytime a song reminded me of her, or that i had her email-adress (took me ages to find that one again....stupid bong-head)
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eXXailon
from purgatory on 2003-04-09 15:08 [#00641395]
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I'm not trying to discourage you, but you must realise that until the day you are going back to Denmark, your "relationship" is hanging by a thread (not this thread :P). Again, I'm not trying to discourage you. I'm trying to be realistic but I of course hope all goes well for you.
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-04-09 15:08 [#00641399]
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Sheeeeeiiitttt, every time I am lying next to a girl getting up to shit I feel as though I am in love with them. That feeling lasts until the next one. There must be a girl who lives in your own city, town, village or hamlett that you can fall in love with.
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Ceri JC
from Jefferson City (United States) on 2003-04-09 15:10 [#00641404]
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I'm really sorry for you Junktion, but I feel I must agree with what eXXalion said.
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:10 [#00641405]
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I'm pretty fucking sure, that no matter what will happen, I will still have the change to be with her again. Not necessarily a relationship, but at least one evening again. That IS fate!
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:12 [#00641410]
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yeah...it seems hopeless but i'm still happy!! and the social-office just gave me 4800SEK to help me pay my bills (that my ex g/f leaved me with) today!
that last post: change = chance ...damn i always mess up those two
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:14 [#00641414]
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there is...and she has a girlfriend....but i really don't want to have any other g/f than my sweet Sara (that's her name)... :o)
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TonyFish
from the realm of our dreams on 2003-04-09 15:16 [#00641418]
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groan long distance relationship are evil *shudders at the prospect of entering a Greece-UK/France one maybe* :(
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uzim
on 2003-04-09 15:17 [#00641419]
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good luck... even if you are 1000 km away from her, and her 1000 km away from you - probably you will not have physical love right now, but you can still have a relationship together! : )
and who knows... maybe you could just take a vacation if you have free time to see each other if you have an opportunity!
(i don't know why... i'm feeling sympathy for lovers right now... and maybe i'm too utopist... but i wish you best luck and good times : ) )
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-04-09 15:19 [#00641422]
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I once started going out with a girl who lived 4km away from my house and I split up with her because it was too long distance. She expected me to walk or get a bus or taxi to her house.
Then again maybe I am just very lazy ;)
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:20 [#00641425]
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thanks Uzim!
love is a funnyfeeling, that, when it's real, can break any distance!
Bush could learn something there :P
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uzim
on 2003-04-09 15:21 [#00641427]
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i don't know if i have ever fallen in love, or not...
it would be better for me not to.
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:22 [#00641428]
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4KM!!!?
dude i have lived 400km from a girl, and still managed to be with her for 6 months...and besides...where i was living before, i walked 12km every day to school
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uzim
on 2003-04-09 15:22 [#00641429]
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good night...! sweet dreams to all of you.
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Junktion
from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2003-04-09 15:23 [#00641430]
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some day Uzim. ...love strucks everyone...it's up to you to do something about it ;)
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ecnadniarb
on 2003-04-09 15:23 [#00641431]
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Well I told you I was lazy, lol
My current girlfriend moved in with me after we had been together a week because I told her anything past the local off license is not worth my while walking to :o)
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TonyFish
from the realm of our dreams on 2003-04-09 16:08 [#00641499]
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well I'm kinda hoping she'll stay here for a few years and live with me so we'll see..
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Charles D Ward
from ASS, okay? (United States) on 2003-04-09 18:37 [#00641658]
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perfect luck to you friend!
you gotta try it yourself no matter what people say... even if something turns out to be other than you expect, it'll be worth it! love! LOVE! LOVE!!!
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corrupted-girl
on 2003-04-09 19:25 [#00641723]
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awe ain't this cute.
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DiaZoHeXagoN
from The city of angels (United States) on 2003-04-09 19:37 [#00641737]
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hmmm well I live 65 miles from my girlfriend and make the damn drive 3 times a week...we have been together for 5 years
Im not saying it couldn't work but well like Braindance (backwards) said its really easy to fantasize (spelling?) about a girl you hardly know. When you first start seeing someone you only know their good side and later with time we reveal ourselves completely to each other. That is what love really is, when that intial feeling of lust dies and you feel something far more powerful and deep to describe even after you know all the horrible things about each other. To love someone is to know all their faults and still accept them regardless...
hope that makes sense
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