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...since I moved to Sweden for work. Sure, it started out pretty nice when I moved up here with my g/f (now former) in August. The payment was ok in the beginning when I started at technical support for HP AllInOne printers, but now the money just doesnt reach the right places. We started arguing a lot at first, because she didnt have any job, and didn't do much at home (IMO). Then she also started working the same place I was, just on Samsung-support. But the arguing still continued and we moved to each our own apartment. Then the money-problems started. Iit was christmas and we both went home to Denmark for the vacation, but when we got home, I found out theat my g/f had spend twice as much as I had, so there was a problem. Then my g/f had aquired a lot of stuff over the net, and suddenly the bills started coming in, so she couldnt pay rent at her own apartment. We started talking a lot again, and things seemed well, so we decided she should move in t my place again. But she couldnt get in touch with her landlord, so she couldnt quiit the apartment. We desided she should dump the apartment and see what happended. Suddenly there was some money left and we spended it on stuff for our self. Then after two months the bills for from the landlord popped in. And that was three months rent we had to pay. So my g/f got some salury in advance and paid 2/3 of the bills. Then came a telephone-bill at 3 times as much as my expenses, bbecause she had called Denmark everyday in 2 months! The I bought some weed and tried to calm my nerves, but since I have had a drugproblem a couple of years ago, I couldn't stop. Now i'm without money, without any real life, and my ex-g/f is living with me (which sucks), the cat is pissing on my cloth, I can't do anything constuctive in music (ecause of limited access to musical instruments) - but the only bright thing I can see is that my ex-g/f is moving to Denmark in a month or so... and i'm just sitting in another country, missing home... (if you read this far, you mig |
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:( I'm really sorry to hear that seb :( I remember when you were just moving and you were excited....that really sucks :( |
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and the worst thing AT ALL is that I can't afford ADSL, so I have to use this crappy fucking 56k-modem... |
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thanks man...I just had to write all this shit to get the tension a bit out...I really have a problem dealing with the agression due to my state right now... |
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Yeah man, well at least you tried and didn't crap out on moving. So it didn't work out? Try not to worry. You uprooted once, you can do it again if you need to. And if your girlfriend is a spendaholic then it's a good job you found out before you married her. Hope things turn round. |
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I understand :| I had a tough time lately but there's always light |
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yeah...your right...fucking good thing I broke the engagement... yeah...well..my plans are to stay her for 1 year more at least, to get my economy stabelized... And summer is up soon...that's a good time for me...have problems with winter depression (and we have had snow for 4 months now) |
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I have noticed that when I had my 1mbit-cabble connection, I used a lot of the night-times downloading music, and that helped on my depressions. Ii remember downloading BoC, and floating on a cloud for over a month. Without a real connection, my liife is dull, boring and uninspired... |
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what i say to everyone: nothing is beyond your control if you attack it with the right attitude. |
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:( and they seemed to just work their way out, give it time and things will get better, also, pushing things along helps.. |
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I like people who share their problems on this board. "the cat is pissing on my cloth"... hehe doesn't seem like your biggest problem right now. hope things work out for you as soon as possible. |
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atm there is some person(s) fucking with my house. last nite they let my dog out and also cut a big wire chunk out of my security door. and just before my dog was out the front again. |
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I'm really sorry to hear that Junktion. I know you might see it as a cop out, but have you considered hucking it all in and going back home, at least for a while? |
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I can't man...not now...at least I have a job now, and that's something I haven't had for 3 years. I'm pulling the shit together when she moves...It will make it all a hellofalot easyer |
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