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jupitah
from Minneapolis (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:04 [#00577899]
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you ever find yourself absolutely unable to speak or act upon how you feel? i've completely fallen for this girl--very rare that i find one that i feel so attracted to in so many ways--and i've managed to bottle everything up, despite having been with her for three hours tonight, and more these past few days. i've little faith in myself right now. what's the cure?!
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DaWeeze
from WANTED IN 16 STATES! on 2003-03-02 20:07 [#00577903]
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Where are all these girls suddenly popping up from?
O-o
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corticalstim
from Canada on 2003-03-02 20:07 [#00577905]
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write her a letter telling her how you feel - im sure she will understand what you are feeling
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Job a boj
from Land of the Lost Timezone! (Canada) on 2003-03-02 20:07 [#00577906]
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wuts the cure? A nice porno mag and some time alone, get the tension juice out of your system.
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Jon Beilin
from United States on 2003-03-02 20:10 [#00577909]
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spend a lot of time alone. i don't think you can't be happy with someone else unless you're happy with and by yourself.
A couple weeks ago I was in the same situation, so I empathize.
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jupitah
from Minneapolis (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:12 [#00577911]
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i don't know where this girl came from... heaven i think :)
i'm scared of writing a letter... it just feels silly. i feel like i shouldn't be so insecure that i can't just face her and be honest. i think the feeling is mutual too, which confuses me because it seems that would give the confidence i need.
the mag didn't work.
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Zeus
from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:13 [#00577912]
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it sounds like you cant bring your self to tell her?
the harsh reality is, you just gotta take a deep breath, and go for it. Tell her how you feel.
Things dont just come to you. You gotta take action.
This isnt the most sympathetic response, but its honest.
If you want this girl, if you really want her, shes worth the risk. Just GO FOR IT.
Good luck my man.
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Job a boj
from Land of the Lost Timezone! (Canada) on 2003-03-02 20:14 [#00577915]
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Well at least you tried. Just be confident in what ever decision you make, thats usually the deciding factor with women.... confidence....
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corticalstim
from Canada on 2003-03-02 20:14 [#00577916]
Points: 3885 Status: Regular | Followup to jupitah: #00577911
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explain everything to her in the letter man - i swear - she will completely understand you - and if she doesnt - she isnt worth your time or your love
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Zeus
from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:15 [#00577917]
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DONT right a letter
seriously.
it might sound cute and romantic, but most girls want a guy who can have the balls to just go for it, face to face.
Again, good luck.
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jupitah
from Minneapolis (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:16 [#00577918]
Points: 3489 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00577912
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what's your opinion on the written form?
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jupitah
from Minneapolis (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:16 [#00577920]
Points: 3489 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00577917
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k, that's what i thought at first.
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darkpromenade
from Australia on 2003-03-02 20:17 [#00577922]
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I agree with Zeuss. No letter. Just tell her. Face to face.
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Zeus
from San Francisco (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:17 [#00577923]
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:D
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skyfarmer
from a bigger, more complex and tun (Russia) on 2003-03-02 20:17 [#00577924]
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I can never do it right with the girl I really need :(
But why would you need The Cure? I doubt Robert Smith would have any good experience to share
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jupitah
from Minneapolis (United States) on 2003-03-02 20:20 [#00577928]
Points: 3489 Status: Lurker | Followup to darkpromenade: #00577922
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i think romantic letters are for established relationships, definitely not for this situation.
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