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sorry to hear that anus... depression is a state of mind, it will flow away with the next brise, youll see that girl in the bowling one day, yeah i know your even more depressed reading that...me too btw im a beast bowling player, like the flinstones guy, but i hate it, i only do strikes...thats so easy and boring =O |
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well anus_Presley... you are here with us... you can be happy about that... I am sure you have fun here. if you feel depressed listen to elephant song by afx (ab4) and then come back LOL |
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now seriously... I dont know how could I help you, but... if it is of any value for you... I think you are important for this MB |
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I've got a job interveiw in two hours so I'm shitting my self.But I suppose if I get the job i'll meet new people.Plus its a good job which should sort my future out. I'm going to get through all this depression shit starting today if I get the job. Wish me luck. |
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im crossing the fingers Tone :) |
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Good luck man, I HATE interrviews, but I have lied so badly on my CV that i have a good rreason to. Whats it doing? |
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Thanks, and it does in a way. anyway to conclude talk about me - thanks forr making the efforrt to post, i have taken notice of what you have said, its just matterr now of trrying to apply it. |
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I lied on my cv too! I said I was an out-going person! Its doing office work,fileing,faxing, computer based stuff mainly.Its actuall education based,its a training progrramme.I get paid for learning! Its not great pay buts it only for a year then if a I pass the NVQ(training proggramme)I get a great job. Also I've got another interveiw next week,which is a position for selling BMW vehicles!New ones,i'm not going to be a dodgy used car dealer! |
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I've been struggling with depressions for 10 years now. I've talked to a lot of people but I always had the feeling they wanne some kind a brainwash me to be a marionet in society. But not all was bad, I learned to put things in perspectif, but the danger is that you can get pretty cynical. It's a matter of finding the balance between it and that's hard to do. What helps me most is being creative. Do some tunes, write something down (helps you to structure your feelings and see connections you never saw or expected), do something graphic or whatever you like doing. I have the same feeling 'bout people but instead of hiding myself from them, I go undercover and mix in with an attitude of a loner in the mass and I feel comfertable in that position. Sometimes gives you some laughs just observing. It's true you hate the 'Everything's gonne be fine' , 'Other people have more reason to be depressed' advice is not the one you one hear. But don't blame it on them, they really care but just don't know what a depression really is. Something you only know when you have experienced imo. |
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that should pay off TonePu5her, i rreally hope you get it. Kill Switch that makes sence with me, and it is harrd forr people to underrstand, sometimes its harrd forr me to underrstand. I don't walk arround with a face a mile long all the time, i do laugh with my family and things like that, and at funny shows, I'm not the enbodyment of miserry, but i always have this underrlying sadness, and its that which people don't get. how can i laugh at something and not be happy. |
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I know, something you just feel guilty havin' a laugh. But I talked about alot with my close relatives and they understand it a little better now ( I have the luck that their have a really open mind for this). |
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something = sometimes |
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I'm so happy I could cry!! Hoorah! God bless us one and all Mary Poppins!!! |
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my thoughts.... a depression goes along with "what is the meaning of life" "why am i living, for whom..." I know getting a gf will put everything into perspective and there you have your meaning of life - it makes you happy. That's what life is about - be happy.. And that doesn't depend on just having a girlfriend. You have to convince yourself you're worth it - you can't hurry love, you just have to wait. I know it sucks people saying "It's gonna be allright" but really, it does. You have to believe in yourself: Don't bother about these issues.. Find things you care, you like to do.. Staying positive will glance positivity out of you, and people will look at you differently.. |
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"I know getting a gf will put everything into perspective and there you have your meaning of life - it makes you happy" it would make me VERRY happy, it would give me a rreason to make my hairr nice, to get out of bed and make an efforrt to get a job. "You have to convince yourself you're worth it" spot on, I would feel like i dident deserrve herr, that she only picked me because therre was noone else, that would go on forr along time, maybe forreverr. Thats coz i trruly can't underrstand why someone would pick me when therre arre all them betterr people out therre. |
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why would they pick you: -because you have this personality nobody has, unique like humour, creativity and your opinion. Just make sure people don't recognize any bad depression feelings in you - it could scare them off- When they meet you as a positive bright man - they're more willing in contacting. (imo) |
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so yeah - a lot of people are hiding their depression?? probably.... but i guess it's not a bad thing. |
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straight up. personality. ive got hang ups like you wouldnt believe. ive not told anyone what the problem is... and arent ready to either. its been keeping me very single but im getting over it. and noone really likes a perfect person anyway!. thats something which only occurred to me recently, but its put a lot into perspective. theres something with everyone. its the people who dig you for who you are, in your heart, that matter. |
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Why don't you take a course in something you are very interested in. I think there are a lot of possibilites. And then you meet new people, you start to respect yourself again if what your doing is good and maybe there will a girl in the course with the same interests as you. ;-) |
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nice suggestion |
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Agree with Kill Siwtch. |
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I've got a job! I'm so happy!!! I'm a trainee manager,for a local business which creates advertising Alcho-pops in clubs.I get to decide the marketing ideas! It pays exelent money and after my year of training I become assitant manager.But for now i'm just training. I'm head Marketing director at the age of 17! Also I found £60 in my bedroom which I hid away and forgot about! I'm so happy.Maybe this is my big start.. |
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WOO HOO nice one. You must be buzzing. |
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I am. Are you gonna get out a do something constructive for yourself Anus? |
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congrats man! and anus presley, im sorry but i havent got anything usefull to add, just try to be yourself and dont rush things, imo if you force it it'll only get worse. Just remember there's always a new day, and that you are not as worthless as you think, ive tought about my purpose here as well and wondered why i'm alife and all... just take every day as it comes and.. well dunno im not an expert here never mind |
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