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offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2003-01-24 10:03 [#00526840]
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is it right to be having sex with another person because
the one you love is holding sex as a weapon against you ?



 

offline qrter from the future, and it works (Netherlands, The) on 2003-01-24 10:06 [#00526843]
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not in itself, no.. I guess..

I think you should talk with/shout at the person who is
using sex as a weapon against you..


 

offline danbrusca from Derbyshire (United Kingdom) on 2003-01-24 10:07 [#00526845]
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If you mean you're having sex with someone else because the
person you love is witholding it then no, it's not right.
You should work out whatever issue it is you have with your
partner.

If you don't mean that then I don't know what you're on
about :P


 

offline Duble0Syx from Columbus, OH (United States) on 2003-01-24 10:09 [#00526849]
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If you mean the person thats using sex as a weapon is having
sex with someone else...Yes. If they threating you with no
sex to get their way, you should already be with someone
else.


 

offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2003-01-24 10:13 [#00526854]
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does that mean that physical attraction and emotional
attraction are two completely diffrent things?

I mean, I honestly believe that sometimes they are but at
the same time I feel that they SHOULD be one in the same.

*sigh wishful thinking eh?

bah, I'm too indecisive about this. :(

 

offline Duble0Syx from Columbus, OH (United States) on 2003-01-24 10:14 [#00526858]
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So how is she using sex as a weapon?

 

offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2003-01-24 10:23 [#00526873]
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to control me.

like using it as a manipulating device to follow her needs
and wants, not taking mine into consideration... almost as
if its a reward.

however, this is a bias way of looking at it because this is
only my point of view.

I'm sure she has her own perspective if whats going on. :)

 

offline danbrusca from Derbyshire (United Kingdom) on 2003-01-24 10:41 [#00526906]
Points: 4570 Status: Lurker | Followup to DeLtoiD: #00526873



Dude, that's not really a reason to go having sex with other
people.

People seem less and less willing to put any effort into
making a relationship work these days!


 

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