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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-07-04 01:45 [#00295888] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker
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 | discuss. 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 01:46 [#00295890] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to titsworth: #00295888
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 | what? 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-07-04 01:48 [#00295892] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker
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 | if you persue something you're interested in with passion and intelligence that makes you a "nerd" by outsider
 definition, agree or disagree
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 01:49 [#00295893] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | i disagree 
 
 
 
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         |  lctroboy
             from Borås (Sweden) on 2002-07-04 01:51 [#00295894] Points: 1705 Status: Regular
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 | disagree! 
 
 
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         |  Deathsmith
             from Brussels (Belgium) on 2002-07-04 01:51 [#00295896] Points: 1027 Status: Regular
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 | Agree. . . definitely. 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 01:52 [#00295898] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | thats really a crap statement. 
 if anything, its a commendable trait... to know that someone
 loves what they do, and they are dedicated
 
 i love music
 i go to music school
 no one ive ever told this to has called me a dork... they
 thought it was cool
 
 
 
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         |  Deathsmith
             from Brussels (Belgium) on 2002-07-04 01:53 [#00295899] Points: 1027 Status: Regular
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 | Hey how come my avatar isn't reloaded even after I loaded it?
 
 
 
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         |  Deathsmith
             from Brussels (Belgium) on 2002-07-04 01:54 [#00295903] Points: 1027 Status: Regular
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 | Hmm then the people in your school are very mature, Zeus. Because, I'm homeschooled, intelligent enough, and very
 passionate about music.   Most people like me when they get
 to know me, but alot of people in my town that don't even
 know me hate me. . .
 
 
 
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         |  WeaklingChild
             from Glasgow (United Kingdom) on 2002-07-04 01:55 [#00295905] Points: 3354 Status: Lurker
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 | i dont give a shit what other people think about me. i've got worse stuff to worry about than that.
 
 
 
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-07-04 01:58 [#00295907] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker
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 | i didn't say it wasn't commendable, in fact "nerds" by the definition in the topic are my favorite people. what i'm
 saying is, "normal people" (you know, the people who lack
 passion and/or intelligence for something or perhaps
 anything) are intimidated by people like that, hence the
 judgemental branding of "nerd" (whether pretending to be
 kidding or acting completely serious). it is an
 immature move on their part, and i think it's very prevalent
 in society.
 
 
 
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         |  Deathsmith
             from Brussels (Belgium) on 2002-07-04 01:58 [#00295908] Points: 1027 Status: Regular
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 | I think overall the Intelligence + Passion= Nerdiness formula is profoundly true.  Think of all the real nerds,
 the stereotypical nerds, especially the ones in movies and
 such!  The formal outcasts.   Aside from looking like nerds,
 they are usually portrayed as being very intelligent, very
 passionate about one technically "uncool" thing or another,
 and are therefore unnacceptable to their peers.
 
 
 
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         |  Ophecks
             from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-07-04 02:00 [#00295909] Points: 19190 Status: Moderator | Show recordbag
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 | ''Nerd'' can be defined in different ways by different people... if listening to ''difficult'' music and spending a
 lot of time on the computer and not whoring out my
 individualism to be ''cool'' makes me a nerd, so be it. I
 like it like that.
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 02:00 [#00295910] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | no, its not my school... my whole school is a music school 
 people i meet that go other places
 
 no one has thought it was dorky... they get really
 interested..
 
 just normal people
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 02:02 [#00295911] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | well.. .about the home schooling... 
 some people look at it as you think youre better then
 them... that you dont have to socialize with the "normal
 kids" and get a "public education"
 
 at least thats my take on it
 
 
 
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         |  Deathsmith
             from Brussels (Belgium) on 2002-07-04 02:10 [#00295928] Points: 1027 Status: Regular
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 | Yes, homeschoolers are stereotyped to a horrible degree as well, but for the most part, that stereotype-ation is
 justified, at least.   Most homeschoolers I've met ARE
 nerds!
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 02:12 [#00295933] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | hehe 
 well
 
 i still dont agree with passion + intellegence = nerd
 
 
 
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         |  OK
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 | a disagree 
 i'd say that inteliigence + (whatever the opossite of
 passion is) = one kind of nerdiness.
 
 and lack of intelligence + close mind = nerdiness too
 (sometimes)
 
 being bullied at school = nerdiness (generally).
 
 i know people who are very passioned and very intelligent..
 and they all fit into the "cool people" category.
 
 passion makes intelligence useful.
 
 apathy makes intelligence wasted on star trek details. and
 comic books
 
 
 
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         |  Tasos
             from Athens (Greece) on 2002-07-04 06:19 [#00296167] Points: 706 Status: Lurker
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 | I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I
 AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A
 NERD! I AM A NERD! I AM A NERD!
 
 "And then the squirrel went back to defend it's home
 planet."
 
 
 
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         |  SwitchFrontside
             on 2002-07-04 06:22 [#00296172] Points: 818 Status: Regular
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 | DISAGREEEEEEEEEEEEEE !!!!! athletes aren't geeks !
 pornstars arn't geeks !
 
 the rest are :)
 
 
 
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         |  brendan ether
             from the beach (obx, NC) (United States) on 2002-07-04 06:22 [#00296175] Points: 796 Status: Addict
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 | i agree with Tits. 
 
 
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         |  SwitchFrontside
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 | Tasos you have some powder on the tip of your nose ;) 
 
 
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         |  Tasos
             from Athens (Greece) on 2002-07-04 06:28 [#00296182] Points: 706 Status: Lurker
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 | "Thank you, I love you" 
 
 
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         |  LeCoeur
             from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-07-04 06:32 [#00296193] Points: 8249 Status: Lurker
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 | my two cents *clink clink* 
 it all depends on how you look at the word NERD. for me it's
 not negative at all, i consider myself one. =0)
 for example, i LOVE MATH, something that most people hate.
 is that not nerdi-ness to some people? is it negative?
 
 answers - YES....and NO respectively
 
 passion & intelligence is very very ATTRACTIVE/ SEXY to me,
 because the person infuses whatever they LOVE with an
 excitement and intensity that gets you thrilled/interested
 about it and makes you:
 
 1. wanna learn about it
 
 or
 
 2. wanna listen to it
 
 or
 
 3. wanna become proficient at it
 
 etc....
 
 i never wanna lose my passion for learning, it makes it
 exciting to get up everyday! =0)
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 06:35 [#00296200] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | oohhh a new pic from miss LeCoeur 
 and i kind of agree with you... but to me a nerd is some one
 with no social skills, and stuff... not someone who loves
 something, and is intellegent... etc etc.
 
 and yes passion and intellegence is very attractive.
 
 
 
 
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         |  SwitchFrontside
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 | to me a nerd is someone who has a full on obsession with something and thinks lives breathes it and is oblivious to
 his surroundings that dont involve it.......... not that
 that bad or anything just what i think a nerd is.
 
 
 
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         |  LeCoeur
             from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-07-04 06:45 [#00296215] Points: 8249 Status: Lurker
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 | tis sometimes the definition of the word.. 
 nerd
 
 n. 1. [mainstream slang] Pejorative applied to anyone with
 an above-average IQ and few gifts at small talk and ordinary
 social rituals. 2. [jargon] Term of praise applied (in
 conscious ironic reference to sense 1) to someone who knows
 what's really important and interesting and doesn't care to
 be distracted by trivial chatter and silly status games.
 
 the general consensus is that a NERD is someone who is
 socially inept, however aren't we all guilty of anti-social
 behaviour at different times......i know i am and yet i'm a
 very social person.
 
 it tis an interesting question!
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 06:46 [#00296216] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to LeCoeur: #00296215
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 | oh man, did i hit the nail on the head or what?! 
 
 
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         |  Archrival
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 | If u put a lot of passion into your work with intelligence on top of it then u are the opposite of a nerd imo.
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:19 [#00296263] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to Archrival: #00296261
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 | Fuckin A exactly 
 arch is on the level!
 
 
 
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         |  LeCoeur
             from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:22 [#00296270] Points: 8249 Status: Lurker | Followup to Archrival: #00296261
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 | hehehe 
 but but archie.....it depends on your perspective.....we
 need to INFUSE the word NERD with a more positive meaning!!
 =0)
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:23 [#00296273] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to LeCoeur: #00296270
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 | why dont we just forget about the word NERD 
 just let it slip into the past...
 
 
 
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         |  Ophecks
             from Nova Scotia (Canada) on 2002-07-04 07:27 [#00296281] Points: 19190 Status: Moderator | Show recordbag
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 | I'm a first class nerd, come to think of it. I've got no problem with it. I'm cool! Too cool to fool, like Chester
 Cheetah. Like Razor Ramon, and Crash Bandicoot. Like Bubsy
 the Bobcat and Sonic the Hedgehog! Like the Fonz! And Clark
 Gable! And Frank Sinatra! Donald Duck! And John Travolta!
 And Patrick Swayze!
 
 
 
 
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         |  Archrival
             on 2002-07-04 07:28 [#00296282] Points: 4265 Status: Lurker
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 | Yeah, im maybe what the masses would define a nerd (surfing this site alldday) but im telling u....im surfing this site
 with a massive passion plus mad intelligence!! ;)
 
 But to the ignorant masses we definitly need to INFUSE the
 word NERD with a more positive meaning :)
 
 
 
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         |  Archrival
             on 2002-07-04 07:33 [#00296292] Points: 4265 Status: Lurker
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 | theres different kinds of nerds...net nerds (like me), thug nerds, drukqs nerds, plastic nerds, mono nerds, theater
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         |  LeCoeur
             from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:34 [#00296293] Points: 8249 Status: Lurker | Followup to Archrival: #00296282
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 | awwwwww 
 *gives you a european kiss on BOTH cheeks*
 
 =0)
 
 
 
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         |  wayout
             from the street of crocodiles on 2002-07-04 07:42 [#00296304] Points: 2849 Status: Lurker
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 | though i tend to prefer the term 'geek' id say that intelligence+passion=nerdiness having said
 that...i think its a positive thing...the people who are
 labeled as nerds in high school...and are generally
 considered outasts by society...are often the people who
 make a difference and go places with their lives...
 
 those with intelligence...and an interest with something
 other than getting laid and or wasted are always going to be
 considered odd
 
 im rather proud to be a geek, actually
 and the only people i have any interest in being with are
 geeks...
 im not trying to be snobby or pretentious...but "normal"
 people just seem boring..and often superficial..because
 usually to be considered "normal" they have to supress
 whatever might make them seem "weird"...and this isnt
 healthy at all...look at all the unhappy normal people...who
 hate their jobs, get stressed out about stupid things,
 surround themselves with people they can just barely
 stand..just so theyre not alone...they do things they
 hate...just because they feel they are supposed to
 
 i feel sorry for the people who feel they have to be
 something besides themselves..especially those who ridicule
 and look down at those who are genuine..
 
 this is all generalizing, i know...im sure there are plenty
 of geeky people who i probably wouldnt want to hang around
 with...and there are normal people who i dont mind..
 and geeky people dont always lack social skills...but they
 very often exist outside the mainstream group
 
 and zeus..i dont really know you...but the fact that you a.
 hang out on this messageboard and b. go to music school
 indicate that you too, probably are a geek ..which isnt
 something to be ashamed of
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:46 [#00296306] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to wayout: #00296304
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 | well... i guess it all boils down to your definition of geek.
 
 yeah, i spend alot of time on the net... and i go to music
 school (modern music mind you... not classical blah)
 
 i am kind of anti social... but its by choice that i seclude
 myself. in my eyes, this doesnt define geek or nerd.
 
 nerd makes me think of someone who thinks that star trek is
 actually a documentry... not a show.  just to state one
 example...
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:50 [#00296307] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker
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 | *not to sound like i dont like classical music... i love it... but generally people who attend classical music
 schools are snobby narrowminded bastards
 
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         |  LeCoeur
             from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:51 [#00296309] Points: 8249 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00296306
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 | !!! WHAT !?!?!?!?!?!?! 
 Star Trek isn't REAL.......mannnn my whole world is
 shattered =B
 
 i'm a geek/nerd and proud of it.....good take wayOUT! =0)
 
 
 
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         |  Zeus
             from San Francisco (United States) on 2002-07-04 07:55 [#00296310] Points: 14042 Status: Lurker | Followup to LeCoeur: #00296309
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 | hehehe 
 
 
 
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         |  deadwhitespoon
             from Vancouver (Canada) on 2002-07-04 08:01 [#00296312] Points: 271 Status: Lurker
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 | How about: too intelligent + too passionate = nerd/geek
 too = pathological, disfunctionally, obsessively, etc.
 People are "nerdy" or "geeky" too others who are so removed
 from "nerd" or "geek" culture that functional communiation
 ceases. And vice versa: "nerds" and "geeks" can't relate to
 others because they are too far removed from "popular"
 culture and society to functionally communicate. It's a form
 of sub-culture shock I guess. Does anybody understand what
 I'm trying to say? Are we on the same wavelength here?
 Hello?
 
 
 
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         |  wayout
             from the street of crocodiles on 2002-07-04 08:03 [#00296314] Points: 2849 Status: Lurker | Followup to Zeus: #00296306
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 | yeah...i guess the problem is that being a 'nerd' is seen by mainstream society as a negative or laughable thing...when
 in reality...society has nerds to thank for a lot of great
 things they take for granted...
 
 and yeah...those trekkie people can be a bit much...but
 hey...you should respect them for doing their own
 thing...and dressing up in weird costumes and not giving two
 shits about what all the 'normal' people think of
 them...just because they love what theyre doing
 
 
 
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         |  wayout
             from the street of crocodiles on 2002-07-04 08:18 [#00296328] Points: 2849 Status: Lurker | Followup to deadwhitespoon: #00296312
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 | yeah..i know what youre saying...usually things that are 'cool' and 'popular' are sort of trivial...and not worth
 become passionate about...
 usually 'normal' people become interested in whatever they
 are told is 'cool' at the moment..for the purpose of
 appearing cool themselves..so they generally dont have
 genuine interest in many things...since they have to be
 ready to discard it and pick up something new whenever the
 fad passes...
 
 so when someone becomes genuinely interested in
 something...its often something that isnt as
 discardable...and not appreciated by mainstream culture
 ...unless its chosen as the 'hot new thing' for a few
 months...then everyone who's everyone is into it...so they
 can be like everyone...and then once the fad passes...all
 thats left is the people who were truly into it..
 
 its a lot like that episode of doug..where the guy on that
 tv show wore the same outfit that doug always wore...and for
 a week..everyone at his school wore green sweaters and brown
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         |  wayout
             from the street of crocodiles on 2002-07-04 08:29 [#00296343] Points: 2849 Status: Lurker
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 | and...i think having 'social skills' is overrated anyways...it seems those with 'social skills' are people who
 are just good at meeting others...and making small
 talk...this doesnt mean they have tons and tons of really
 close friends and important relationships...just a lot of
 acquiantances...people they talk to and hang around with a
 bit...but have no real connection with
 
 these people seem to usually find silence
 uncomfortable..especially around others...
 as douglas adams said 'when peoples mouths stop
 working...their brains start working'...so they feel the
 need to fill all this silence with mindless chatter...or
 vapid pop music...whereas 'nerds' would much prefer sitting
 in silence daydreaming or thinking about things ..rather
 than talk to someone they hardly know about baseball or
 shoes or something
 
 plus ...having an interest in something that isnt considered
 'cool' at the moment may get them ridiculed or at least
 looked upon negatively by others...so they often avoid these
 awkward situations by keeping to themselves
 
 
 
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         |  Ceri JC
             from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-07-04 08:58 [#00296355] Points: 23533 Status: Moderator | Show recordbag
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 | Proof that homeschoolers are "nerds": 
 http://www.seanbaby.com/nes/dearnintendo04.htm
 
 
 
 
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         |  Bob Mcbob
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 | i would never dress up as a vulcan, i am not very intellegent and i am fairly apathetic (open minded)...yet i
 consider myself a 'nerd'....i 'do my own thing' and am not
 interested in what other people are interested in...am i a
 nerd then? i prefer the term 'weirdo'....
 
 
 
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         |  jand
             from Braintree (United Kingdom) on 2002-07-04 10:28 [#00296387] Points: 5975 Status: Moderator | Followup to Bob Mcbob: #00296358 | Show recordbag
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 | speaking of dressing up as a vulcan, has anyone seen the movie "Trekkies"...it's a very funny documentary about Star
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         |  titsworth
             from Washington, DC (United States) on 2002-07-04 18:36 [#00296760] Points: 14550 Status: Lurker | Followup to Bob Mcbob: #00296358
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 | apathetic does not mean "open minded" 
 
 
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         |  Smyrma
             from Beloit, WI (United States) on 2002-07-04 19:24 [#00296818] Points: 2478 Status: Lurker | Followup to jand: #00296387
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 | "Trekkies" is a funny movie.  I love the kid with the mullet who designs his own uniforms :)
 
 
 
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