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a few of my friends are deciding to be get "friends with benefits" which basically means friends to ...do stuff with..hehe, like everything but SEX, but with no comitment, has anyone tried this before? will it work out in the end? im thinkin' i get me one of these :-] |
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i thought this was gonna be about the goddam dole! |
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i don't get it |
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me neither??? |
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I get it. But I don't like it... it would feel dirty to do it with someone like that... how could it NOT go beyond sex if you're going to get that close... You should feel ashamed of yourself young man! Tsk tsk!!! |
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I dunno about this idea. its kinda strange. |
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some one explain it so i can agree on its strangness |
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its not that hard to understand. |
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listen to your heart man, just listen to your heart!! :) |
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I don't think i'll actually get one, but my friend seems real keen on it. lol. i think i'd have a guilty feeling about the whole thing, so w/e |
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u mean do anything physical EXCEPT sex... but no emotional commitment? like a sexbuddy withought actual intercouse? |
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YES..exactly |
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why don't you just get a sex buddy WITH the sex? :) |
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yes, exactly! if ur going to go THAT far... u might as well have sex! but ur only 15! damn ur lucky! BUT: make sure ur willing to take the chance that it could screw up ur friendship with this person.... im not saying it definitely will (though ive heard it usually does).... but just be prepared that it MIGHT know what i mean? |
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13! haha so if i do get anything i'm happy.. haha i've considered that friendship thing, and that's really the only thing holding me back |
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my friend is a "friend w/ benefits" and she's getting kinda tired of it. she's actually really frustrated, so from what little i do know of it, i don't recommend it. |
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13! well i must say, ur being very mature for your age, the way ur considering it! well, do u consider her friendship that important? does she? |
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i think i do. i think she does. i haven't talked to her about it. i will. i don't wanna screw it up i like to consider myself mature for my age, sometimes. |
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i this, i that. phuk you spoonz! talk about somthing else, phuk'r! |
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lol btw: from what i hear, they very rarely work out well:( so when deciding maybe you should just assume that the friendship would be over, to be on the safe side... |
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I def. agree. I'll wait and see how it goes w/ my friend and his "friend"..if it works, i'll go for it next summer. I'll be older, even MORE mature (if it's possible) b-sides, this summer, i'm staying with this family with a hot daughter my age on independance day, ill try to get some haha are chix easier on independance day??? ther will be fireworks and EVERything |
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you're 13, tuck your dick in for at least a couple years |
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I like AMinal's way of thinking abot it much better. I still got like a month to decide. And then some for the girl in Edmonton. |
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friends with benefits is ridiculous. Just be friends and you have one less thing to complicate life. A girl you want as a true gf will be around the corner, and what if you miss her just for some drama filled necking with your "friend"? |
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hes just young... let him learn. not saying he will learn a bad thing or a good thing, just let him learn. spoonz lives here in the same community as me even. we share a 6 year age different, he is 13 im 19. its pretty cool, I lost my virginity when I was his age. But I doubt that is what he is talking about, well its not actually. We/you shouldnt be concerned with what this persons doing now or in the future if it doesnt effect ya, you can give good responses, like.. if your going to have some sex sometime now or even later, wear a condom and know what your doin first. thats all. at a yound age "friends with benefits" is strange, even when your older its strange, trust me. emotions can tear a man..e r.. boy apart like nothing. |
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