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What gender norms or stereotypical advice have you internalized about human relationships concerning sex? Are you redpilled? Are you MGTOW, or a normie? Are you a feminist? What gets you laid and what doesn't? |
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have you tried talking to girls |
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No |
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https://www.sosuave.com read this site |
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Yeah, don't bother, it doesn't work. It also doesn't particularly help to be nearly 40 years old. I want to diarrhea 69 with someone before I die. I guess there's always horses. Also keep in mind, all that immense complexity in your brain.. listening to music, seeing the 3d environment outdoors, thinking... all of this stuff is a pattern similar to music itself. Your life is music. With music there's usually repetition like a bassdrum etc. Well every one of your ancestors is a drum beat, successfully reproducing that beat into the next generation... until you. Like, we're talking a huge chain of incredibly intricate and interesting music all the way from single celled organisms. But now the music of life fucking stops, we are the last beat of the drum, there will be no replicated mind of roughly equal complexity as yours. The pattern will stop, they won't be able to listen to music or see the outdoors because they won't exist because we suck at life too much to reproduce. But how good is the music of life? The new world order likes shiiity music, they want the music to be about DMV, social security numbers and compulsory education and mcdonalds. I mean if that is the song, maybe that song should stop. Or much better maybe the new world order should stop. We need good music up in this motherfucker again. Also george michael said "heaven is a kiss and smile", how else would an outside universe programmer communicate to us than through the dominant memes like song lyrics? And why do the illuminati replace these oracle musicians with clones? |
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I'm woke as fuck nigga, I had an ewok mentor |
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you should go up to a hoe and say "bitch you wanna get laid or what?" it might work or not |
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This is a good idea, but i fear i would come off as to nice or warm, so i'll better throw another insult in there inbetween. |
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no monoid! no insults! you should always compliment her. say something like you wanna tear that ass apart or slap those titties and she'll get the idea |
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You’ve seen windowlicker right? |
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I’ve learnt (the hard way) that trying is better than wussing out. Also it’s important to understand that often the woman you’re chatting with and enjoying the company of may be nervous too. You’re both only human. Of course it’s important not to be too nervous, as women “tend” to like confident people. I used to be terrified of any woman I fancied. There was one girl I remember being totally head over heels for, but I was way too nervous to ever try something out. About 15 years of not seeing later the girl and I swapped a few messages and low and behold she told me that she never understood why I didn’t like her! She married now with a kid, and I’m with someone, but it goes to show. It’s happened a few times were women took me shyness for arrogance or a lack of interest. Be yourself, stop the massive pressure you put on yourself, and understand that a lot of women are shy and awkward too! |
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I think you put the pussy on a pedestal and it’s hindering your chances, Monoid! |
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Either on a pedestal or in the gutter, either way inaccessible! |
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that's the guy with the mouse mask, right? |
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oh there are some ugly bitches in there nice music tho thank u |
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See the first three posts in this thread? That's literally the same exchange with Monoid as you would get in 2002. Hay Monoid! You're about as real as I am! |
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Forever young |
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Well yes, of course they are. So i am always looking for ways to make them and me comfortable. So what builds trust, and how can people connect on a more deeper level? |
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you sound like you will stay in your save bubble forever. stop talking about deeper level shit when you haven't even kissed a girl for gods sake. get some friends to meet at a bar or something, and make them bring some girls. their friends or girlfriends or whatever. get a little drunk and talk to the girls you just find interesting to talk to. are you a good listener? are you interested in other peoples ideas and opinions? doesnt seem like it to me |
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Clims |
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its been years since any one open a can of clims all up in this shit clims, |
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Clims still has great power and I encourage all xltronic posters to deploy it in their Posts, allowing us to observe its mysterious nature |
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Well yes, to some extend i am not interested in the self disclosure of other people. Often it is very dull content, indeed. I am also a bit prudish when it comes to sex. Many people also stink. |
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clims activated ...and now we play the waiting game |
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just a guess here, but when i here people talking about feelings, connection and socialising in big, general, great sounding words and ways like you do, they generally have a lack of empathy that they are trying to compensate though this. which is fine, because i can see youre trying hard. also some of my best friends are like this. so my tip would be working on your empathy skills. you can do this with a psychologist. a psychologist can help you reflecting every day situations and tell you what you should do better also you could be dead honest to others. talking about getting girls: you could make a dating profile where you talk about this. you would be surprised how many women actually have similar problems but are afraid to talk about it, because women have to be warm and understanding and stuff im dating a girl, who is always told she is a robot. she's dead honest, pretty intelligent and witty. i like her. im pretty different though. |
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I dunno if i lack empathy. Recently a co-worker told me how bad he felt, after his dad died. I do understand this was a hard situtation for him, but i didn't know his dad, and it is also pretty normal that people die. It happens and you can't do shit aboit is. The truth is, i didn't care about this, but gave some pseudo-psychological answer like 'Loosing a family member can be an immense loss, i know'. The truth is, i never had a good relationsship with my dad, and i don't give damn if dies or lives. Should i have been honest about this to the guy? I mean, it will make me look like an asshole if i admit that, lol. |
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no, you should not be honest then :) i wouldn't care so much about his dead family member either, because there is no connection to his dad. but you have a connection to your coworker if you would tell this to him it would be all about you in this situation. and it should be more about him. but it also depends on the relationship you have with your coworker. if this coworker is a good buddy of yours you could have tried to get into his situation and work from there. something like, i don't really know how you feel because i don't have a good connection to my father, but i could never life without my mother. that would really fuck me up for weeks... this explains it very well: |
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... but never start talking too much about your own problems then. thats the wrong way. i have some friends who are like this, which is fairly annoying . you tell them something and they take it and start talking about their own shit instead of listening. or they try to tell you how it should be done. this makes me mad sometimes. most people are bad listeners. so, i mostly date girls i can have good conversations with. i listen and also share my honest thoughts with them. and if its like 2am in a bar and she still sits next to me thats a good sign |
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Yes the Monoid persona says the same and is the same as he was in 2002, which has always made me wonder how real the account is. |
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"We are what we pretend to be, so we must be careful about what we pretend to be." - Kurt Vonnegut |
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if u are not asking 'how do i get a quick shag', which is basically just advertising, then i think this question just bottoms out on "how do i be a better person", which ppl have been struggling with since time began, which is no reason not to try & forumulate your own answer, in fact I think that's probably a fairly decent approach to life. |
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What actually do you expect from asking this question? To compare what you have to what other people think, or to steal things wholesale? Either way it's obviously not going to work. You can't tell anyone anything they don't already know. |
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Nah, i am already a pretty decent person. I want to know what would make my interactions with people more enjoyable for me. Listening and communicating in an empathic manner is one way, to make interactions more smooth...however, i still don't enjoy this very much, because it is often boring. |
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I rarley talk about myself. I let other people talk. My whole live i was under the impression that no one really cares. Also i don't think the stuff i have to say, has much value to another person. I don't want to bore them, most of all i don't want to bore myself. |
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Again, that’s something a psychiatrist is good for. You can dump all your „boring problems“ on them. It’s their job to listen and help. I can tell you this helps a lot. You would get more comfortable talking about yourself, which is a good thing |
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horsie! how are you doing? monoid, if you haven't had sex by now.. you'll probably never have unless you pay for it. |
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logging back in just to advise you all that a virgin is a very moral thing to be in this crapsack world |
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anyways how are you guys doing, i dream of this messageboard often enough |
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i'm a regular now |
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Hey, it’s lovely to see you! You do cross my mind from time to time! I hope you’re doing well! |
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I've been in therapy twice. Im probably normal now |
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define normal please. |
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where have you been? nice to see you.. |
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heyo coucou!! moi ça roule relativement bien, ça va pour toi?? |
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Dumb, lazy and horny like the rest of humanity tho i enjoy the benefits of being born in one of the richest countries in the world with 24h access to porn. |
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Wow t’as pas pris une ride toi! Oui ça va pas mal merci, ça ondule mais je tiens relativement bien le coup! |
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hey juliette, lovely to see you again! |
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hey alex what's up!! it's so nice to see all the clims still hanging on to this rickety corner of the world wide web |
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monoid do u have a nice bum? if so u could try showing off those assets more maybe wear tight yoga pants it could help you get laid |
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