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If your feeling a bit lonely this Christmas or depressed and drunk you can have a chat on this thread, or email me if you like! |
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great initiative. i hope i dont need it |
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yeah I was talking to a few people off and on line and they were telling me how depressed, stressed and lonely they can get that this time of year, weather doesn't help either |
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we all need to get back when we were 18 and didnt care about such things |
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i mean mentally |
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yes life seems a series of worries, as you age |
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Usually of our making. I mean sure, our society is sick, and it’s painful at times to be in it, knowing how beautiful this planet is, and how happy we could be. Yet often we can find that we create our own problems, and learn to function knowing that “life is problems”. It doesn’t have to be. |
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I don't presume to speak for everyone, but seems to me we are living in unnatural circumstances, that are poisoning our "souls". If you live in an overcrowded city isn't sort of loosely analogous to a plant being grown in a dark stuff cupboard |
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Yes, but we can’t just give up and feel sorry for ourselves all the time. It’s healthy to take responsibility sometimes. Do people want to live in a small hut in the countryside with no WiFi or takeaways? Doubt it. I mean that there’s good and bad that came with industrialisation and mass capitalism. Trust me, I don’t like this society, which is (as I said in my previous comment) sick. But the biggest evil is not only to do nothing about your happiness, but to make yourself sick because of our society. I’m really speaking to myself here. Not having a go. |
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I mean its trite what ive said but true |
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yeah I know what your saying, I doubt id be happy in a isolated cabin without contact for long |
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Christmas is always such a tough period for the depressed and/or lonely. |
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I think over all I'm optimistic of the future, I think future generations will really go through the wringer, but the way things are just aren't sustainable in the current configuration, |
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True trite? |
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I wasn't detailed enough in my explanation, but you got the jist anyway, I think sometimes I can come across as a bit of a simplistic thinker because I'm lazy when it comes to typing out a detailed explanation of my thoughts |
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Yes, there is a lot of suffering at Christmas, I really like the ethos of Christmas, good will to all men, forget grudges and make amends, |
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apart from being mental torture, it very bad for your physical health, |
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you need to be firm and strategist of your life |
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are you seeing your sister at Christmas Mo? |
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no, shes going to a friend of her |
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Ah ok, what did you do last year? |
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last year the same as this year, im home |
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im not sad about it |
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yeah I'm going to be eating mince pies and drinking myself comatose in front of Jurassic park or whatnot |
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yeah I get the impression your the self sufficient type, new year is when I get most depressed I don't know why |
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i didnt even had a place where to stay, not so long ago |
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so its my second safe christmas. not yet implanted my semen to build my own family but self sustaining myself, yes |
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the advantage is you can do what you want, if you want to get pissed and watch all the movies you want in a row you can, do they sell mince pies in Italy? |
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https://thehappyfoodie.co.uk/recipes/mpigliati-calabrian-mi nce-pies they look ace |
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oh i know what you mean, yes they sell mince pies here but im not a consumer, my mum loved them and used to buy them on festivities. im buying a pandoro for christmas. |
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ive never seen one before, it definitely looks like something I would ear |
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ive just been told they sell them in loads of supermarkets over here |
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spend that one pound more choose the best quality |
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I enjoy not being around other people. Christmas is great, usually the world is quite around you, and you just can fuck around the whole day, doing nothing and get drunk. I like christmas tho i am an atheist. |
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yes exactly |
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I'm on the look out for some, |
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nice |
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Christmas tends to remind me how dysfunctional my families are. I used to love it as a kid, but I haven’t really spent a nice Christmas in 27 years. I do like giving people gifts. |
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im giving my sister a sack with 1/2 litre of oil, i will recycle this gift i had from the cooperative |
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considered everything, i think the delusion that the festivities bring is equal to none. at least there's xltronic to moan about it. |
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Its like everyone is huffing glue for a couple of weeks, cant complain really! but when its over reality comes back like a slap in the face |
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going to watch the neverending story now, one of my faves |
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yeah like today, really felt like a miserable until i logged in here |
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not willing to go to work tomorrow, not willing to exericise, no more sick but still taking flu drugs, and shitting strangely |
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Sounds like a shit way to start your new year, When I woke up I looked like a corpse, like someone had just dug me up out of the ground, and I have to actually start doing stuff tomorrow. I suppose I have to remind myself its an atypical time of year so I will feel odd, I think I'm getting better at dealing with negative emotions as I get older, as its been such a constantly thing in my life I'm over familiar to it, |
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I usually get terribly depressed when its new year, but was strangely alright this year, last year was better than the year before, so if 2018 isn't any worse than 2017 I should be fine |
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i never get used to the shit that brings this time of the year, but i like your positive approach. by the way we're ignorant but this shit has scientific names, like psychophysical stress or something. |
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i need to take this from the balls, and do exercise now |
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50 push ups and 50 squats and a shower, and i feel like i just entered 2018 |
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yes its funny how exercise atunes the mind sometimes, I did lots of stretches for my bad back before and made me feel better, released those N-dolphins into your bloodstream |
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