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How do you deal with social expectations? I read that only alpha males can get women, but i have no intentions to adapt this role. I find it annoying. The sad fact is, that it seems to work....well at lot better than my constant identity. So I wanna break out of it...but i seem not be able too. Should i fake it till i make it for a while? |
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girls like to be fucked for hours and hate short cocks. that's a fact. |
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This ain't a problem for me |
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I'm sure there's complex societal, religious, philosophical and political reason why every other man, woman and child on that planet finds you a massive bore. |
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I admit, im not the best entertainer. But is this a reason not to have sex with me? Is it? |
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lol |
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ooooohhhh monoid. you dont have to be Alpha, try being a Beta male. |
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and i deal with social expectations by not achieving them, if you maintain that level for a while people expect you to not achieve them, then you fulfill peoples expectations of you by doing nothing more than you normally. but i imagine people expect you to be a boring cunt by now and so your already doing it. give your mom a call, she'll be proud. |
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Trust me, you don't have to be alpha. |
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yes. |
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So what else? What if i think of myself as a work of artvinstead? However..i wasn't the artist who had complete control over his work..it was society! |
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I want to go on a shooting rampage! |
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you need to become a gamma male |
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I have a 1mm penis and last 3 seconds, but the ladies love me cuz I listen to IDM and post on forums. |
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get into something! do something! something u feel for! (except killing) then the girls will come automatically. if u use your knowledge and abilities to just virtualize worlds in your head u willbe fucked. |
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Nothing interests me. |
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Monoid: Do you have facebook? |
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No. Only a fake account which i never use. I prefer twitter. |
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Do people fallow what you have to say, possibly global fallowers? |
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Yes, i have about 189 followers. The link to my account is in my user profile |
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the girls will come! better to have none at all than one or two you can't stand. I was a virgin til i was 19 =\ |
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I lost my virginity at 73, but I did enjoy a lot of jazz in the 1920's, which makes up for punani. |
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oh yeah, moment you play jazz the pussy follows, no doubt |
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I can't overcome my inner fears. Im just too shy to talk to strangers. I don't lack any social skills or whatever....i just can't overcome my fear and anexity. I have a massive problem to deal with my emotions |
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so, u think too much before u start talking with somebody. and i bet u hate smalltalk. i can just tell you, that when u decide to talk to a girl and u already have all this stuff in your head, like oh shes cute, oh maybe shes annoying, oh maybe she doesnt like me, maybe i should talk about fancy stuff, maybe i shouldnt be so reserved, maybe,... then it wont work. too much stuff going on in your head already and you are blocked. u have to make your head free. and u do this by getting involved into something that is not yourself... so what you should do to begin is going to places that have some established code of behaviour that is not primarily pointing towards "i want to meet somebody and fuck". clubs and discotheques would be an example. so what you should do is go join a politic party (piraten), or a gun club, or a reading group, or a club of cineaste,... get a hobby, dude. |
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Just go to matchmaking . com and meet someone as socially inept as yourself who knew how to made a profile. Upload a picture about 8 years ago, it still looks enough like you but she won't feel decepted once she meets you at the internet cafe. That is where you should meet because you can go back to cyber talking if interaction with pheromones becomes untolerable, as it certainly will for someone literally crawling out of their skin who hates their shoes in a certain social environment. |
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The Piraten is a party full of ugly male nerds. I don't want to be around these people |
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u just dont want to change at all. thats your problem. |
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I had a period where i was like that until i realised it didn't always have to be about me. Stop second guessing from time to time. It' will give you a break. |
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Whatever guys. Lets get back on topic. Today i went to a goverment agency and I talked to some guy who worked there. This dude mistook me for another client and I mixed him up with someone i called a few days before. So there is a psychological & Sociological mechanism at work here i guess. I really want to escape from these traps. |
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i've heard penis extension makes you irresistible to women. they JUST CAN'T HELP THEMSELVES. or so i've heard. |
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they CAN JUST SENSE YOUR PENIS EXTENSION THROUGH YOUR PANTS and then they want to have sex with you, marry you and give birth to your children. |
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i'm sorry. it wasn't meant to sound condescending. but probably is. i hate women btw. fuck 'em. serially. |
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You think this is all bullshit. You live in a dream world. Time to wake up |
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Monoid you're rude. Change the fucking record fcol! It's been what, 8 years you churn out the same fucking drivel? I've not seen you change one bit. I wonder why you ask for advice. I guess you really are a sad little man. Or, a great dupe/troll that's getting old. |
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I try to change...and people start to hate me |
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no. no-one's hating you. you're hating YOURSELF. |
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Sometimes, maybe. But in general im ok, tho not perfect. |
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I don't hate you! You big sissy! You've been trying to change since the dawn of xlt it seems. Have you ever come here unmiserable? |
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i've had tough times myself, for sure. i understand your problems, monoid. i can only give empirical advice over the interwebs (interwebs is a lol). but honestly, carl rogers changed me. he really did, and i highly recommend everything he's ever written. good luck with life and whatever you choose to do, monoid. good night. |
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Here's to another 8 years! |
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That Dude was boring. Good night |
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omg, I love Carl Rogers! :-D *high five* |
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My religion has taught me to not only refute but despise people like mr Rogers. |
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What are your internet expectations? You seem to think the answer lies on xlt, yet i think you maybe be better served with intense updates on twitter andfacebok... possibly even chatroulette or 4chan. Go sir. Fuck right off into the web for a wealthier serving of internettings. Grasp the infinite possibilities. Drill into the deep web. Show your hidden passions. Befriend a common enemy. Learn to withstand the pressure of peer. Fight the power and rise up. But most importantly, just fuck right off. |
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You sound bitter |
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You sound DUBturbo |
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