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I need a solution to this problem I'm having with my girl friend right now, thanks in advance for any suggestions. So I just recently started a relationship, we been together for just 2-3 weeks. We hung out 3 times in which I payed everytime. I drive to her, pay for gas, pay for dinner, movies, and anything that we do. I end up spending at least to $100 everytime we chill. She makes more money than me, she has 2 jobs where as me...I'm a student and only have a small part time job. She has never offered to pay for anything. When we goto the movies she just stands there when she orders the tickets, I don't want to be like "hey can you pay for youself?" so I just pay and don't say anything.Even worse, yesterday she bought this pendant and asked me to pay for it. A little rediculous for sure. You know, that's a big deal to me. The first time is fine but now it's like routine for her to do this. What should I tell her, and how should i tell her about this problem? I don't want to sound poor and be like "my money is tight want to go half half next time". It'll be weird. |
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I do think the only advice I could offer is direct yet diplomatic communication. I know you probably already heard of that! haha But if something were to work it would be this. But remember the word "diplomatic". lol! |
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sorry a moment of lexical optical illusion but I thought the title read ...My girlfiend always makes me wear her underwear and I hate it...and I went like... whoah... seriously twisted and reversed power struggles here...but no...so dont mind me..carry on everyone |
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