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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 04:12 [#02276046]
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my uncle is really old and living alone. he used to live with my aunt bet but she died. when she died the window cleaner was there to be supportive and kind. things have gotten really fucking creepy. the window cleaner brings his family round and insists on doing kind things for roger whilst constantly telling him that they are there for him bla bla. the families kind of bullied him into being reliant on them and has isolated him by suggesting/hinting that family visits disrupt the support they are giving him. roger is always worried he'll displease them somehow and they use this to get things, they've already been given a lot of money for being so 'helpful'. when bet died they used rogers emotional frailty and kindly suggested that they cleaned out bets room as it would be too sad for him....nuff things are gone, things like this silver milk jug bet really loved and loads of special antique bits and bobs. lots of special family things are gone actually. thing is roger is a proud man so we can't tell him, we can't confront the window cleaner and his pikey family cos he's manipulated roger so much (he'd say 'see, your family dosn't understand you roger, we're pals but they just get in the way,' that kind of shit), we can't stop them from being around because that will be in their favour too (roger would really miss them, that's how they got their claws in see). he gave them a cheque for 5000 and tried to include the pikey son in the will! it's just so creepy the way they've done this, and they've blantantly sold bets collection of things at some nasty car boot sale. i don't mind the money roger gave them, it's the special little things they've taken. it's the way they've done this to him at his weakest point. it's so fucking low and dirty. anyway. sigh
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2009-03-01 04:52 [#02276049]
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What do you mean by "pikey" - are they actually Roma or are you using that racial slur to indicate that they're dirty and thieving?
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gingaling
from Scamworth (Burkina Faso) on 2009-03-01 05:16 [#02276052]
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why bring that up? either way this window cleaner sounds like a dirty rat fuckwit.
its a fookin cheap shot wat he's doing, and i bet my window licker is probs preying on more than one of his clients, dude needs taking out of the equasion.
Ampi why dont you start knocking rnd at ur uncles place more often and let window dude know that you are grateful-ish for his support so far but your about to take over now....?
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spelunker
on 2009-03-01 07:17 [#02276081]
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Im going to be serious for a minute....
Ampi, I would go to your Uncle, completely dead serious and let him know how upsetting this whole thing is. Be completely honest, and id even write down your original post, as it gives a good portrayal of your actual perspective. Which is the perspective of someone who cares, who is seeing the situation from a distance, but is fenced off and feels helpless.
Fuck the "proud" shit, from what you say, this is way past worrying about anything of that nature. Mr. window fuckwad is way out of line.
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recycle
from Where is Phobiazero (Lincoln) (United States) on 2009-03-01 07:19 [#02276083]
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when anyone says "im going to be serious for a minute"
i wait for their next comments, they are building the plot.
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fleetmouse
from Horny for Truth on 2009-03-01 08:35 [#02276113]
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/me pictures Papa Lazarou at your uncle's door
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 09:22 [#02276124]
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haha
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 09:38 [#02276125]
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honestly. imagine youre old and desperate for a bit of friendly help, then being told it was all lies. he has serious depression and is crazy like the rest of my family, so pride is a big thing to him, especially since he can't wash himself or dress or anything. he kind of knows that these folks are crooked, but the day he outright admits it to himself is the day he finally gives up any sense of security. old people are funny, he's lost everything so these little things are all he has left.
i suggested going down to see him but mom insists he'd hate it, pride again. but dad is living with him now and this window cunt hates it, but he uses every moment that dad isn't there to get his claws in. once rogers passed away we can think of doing things to these fuckers, but if we do anything before (even merely suggest that they've stolen things) they'd use it against us. i want to send them really horrible mystery things in the mail, like dead stuff in a box. they'd never know who it was from, but somewhere along the line they pissed someone off, someone who sends them dead things all the time. that'll scare them forever.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 09:40 [#02276127]
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pride is important, he needs help to piss. it's tricky
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spelunker
on 2009-03-01 10:00 [#02276133]
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ya.............. there seems to be a lot more going on then originally stated...............
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larn
from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-01 10:33 [#02276143]
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I think you should get to the root of the problem; that is the pikeys!
I would not let them get their filthy hands on your uncles money, they obviously just want to get in his will too. Do it tony soprano style and scare them off. but to do this takes some balls, and i know it's easier said than done.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 10:38 [#02276144]
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ah but my uncle wants them around and if they go he'll blame himself, they've set it up like that. crafty aren't they. never trust a window cleaner
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larn
from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-01 10:40 [#02276145]
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is the window cleaner's name Dave?
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larn
from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-01 10:40 [#02276147]
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cus all windows cleaners are called dave
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marlowe
from Antarctica on 2009-03-01 10:40 [#02276148]
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Shut the fuck up you ignorant prick.
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larn
from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-01 10:41 [#02276150]
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i see the dilemma, very tricky
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 10:41 [#02276151]
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i hope god doesn't just go around forgiving people like these thieving cunts.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 10:43 [#02276153]
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well it's nice to have you back anyway.
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larn
from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-01 10:47 [#02276155]
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mate we've all got hard issues to deal with in life, sometimes it's better to make light of the situation, instead of getting bogged down. i do respect ampi so don't get the wrong idea
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obara
from Utrecht on 2009-03-01 11:15 [#02276158]
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go and do something to help him instead of posting on a messageboard
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freqy
on 2009-03-01 12:36 [#02276168]
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tape record the bastards .
your dad takes roger out , you place a recorder up high away from sight
you invite 2 of them around to do a job of some sort, paint a wall ? ( have they got a key?) if not invite the two around then leave them to it for the afternoon and go out ,record the conversations etc.
or confront them about it away from roger and record the convo. get some evidence on tape .
how about doing the gardening? wire up a mic and record from inside? haha monitor them .
oooooohhhh....wait ......wait...invite around ....leave a fiver on the floor of the toilet a fiver on the floor of the living room. ...some kind of letter on the living room table that might tempt them to ring a mobile number, regarding the will? when the mobile rings answer record the illegal convo .......go to the policea or show them the evidence bribe ...get your money back ..then go to the policea .:/
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Barcode
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-01 13:47 [#02276186]
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If you uncle is so easily lead, how about duping him into giving all his money to you, then you can put it back in his account when he's not looking.
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Advocate
on 2009-03-01 14:01 [#02276189]
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"... especially since he can't wash himself or dress or anything."
i understand from your posts that he's quite old as well.
what about a nursing home?
if he's a very proud person, it might be hard to convince him to this, though.
but what about getting qualified people to talk to him, assess his situation, etc?
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Cliff Glitchard
from DEEP DOWN INSIDE on 2009-03-01 14:34 [#02276195]
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yes 'pikey' is a bit derogatory, the correct pc term would be 'swarthy vagabond'
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redRummy
from Brighton (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-01 15:56 [#02276230]
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sounds like he's in danger really... I'd get some professional help for him if he really can't look after himself... or maybe his family could do it, but I know this can be difficult.
Basically you've gotta get rid of the pikeys. Confront them about the missing things? Ask your uncle where they are.
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funkadil
from United States on 2009-03-01 23:01 [#02276327]
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what is wrong with writing a letter to the window cleaner people and being like, "you are really fucked up awful people for doing this etc etc. manipulating an old man.."
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swift_jams
from big sky on 2009-03-02 00:48 [#02276330]
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I didn't read most of that, but damn dude. :[
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-02 05:21 [#02276343]
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what? so why is marlowe so stroppy about pikeys. shit, you'd have to be really hung up on political correctness to get itchy about that one.
racial slur?
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gingaling
from Scamworth (Burkina Faso) on 2009-03-02 05:25 [#02276345]
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perhaps marlowe is of pikey decent?
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Tractern
from Brighton (United Kingdom) on 2009-03-02 06:57 [#02276375]
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go and do something to help him
Great. How specific and helpful. If you're going to have a go at someone in a situation like this, at least suggest HOW to remedy their problem.
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2009-03-02 10:56 [#02276415]
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if i recall correctly marlowe has mentioned that he is of romany descent. politically correct or not: if you able to respect people who are different from you, you will recognize why negative class/race stereotypes are hurtful to people who belong to the groups you are disparaging.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-02 11:03 [#02276418]
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nah fuck off. i'm poor and always have been seriously poor. the context of the word pikey in this case is obvious in every respect. it's blatantly not meant to offend marlowe and it seems strange that marlowe is almost keen to take it as an insult. sorry tho marlowe you KNOW i didn't mean whatever you think i meant.
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mohamed
from the turtle business on 2009-03-02 11:13 [#02276421]
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is your uncle compos mentis?
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2009-03-02 11:43 [#02276437]
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i'm just trying to shed some light on why marlowe might be offended.
i'm not personally familiar with the usage of that word.
and i didn't mean that as a jab at you.
it's probably a good suggestion that i fuck off...
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-02 11:53 [#02276439]
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no you silly tart i just say things :). and btw marlowe, you've found a way to be insulted by something here but you needn't be. i think my sniffy response is because you've hijacked my thread about an old man being robbed and made an issue out of something that i'm sure dosn't need as much attention as it's gotten. also you really needn't call larn names innit cos he's a reasonable chap.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-02 12:02 [#02276443]
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yeah so all that aside...i think things are going to be alright. my family is looking after him (he has other relatives too but he's an awkward old bugger nad he only likes my mom and dad). as for the thieving shits; like i said, NOTHING can be done until roger has passed away. they'll use whatever they can, especially now that they've been cheated of the chance to get something out of him. i will send them dead stuff. imagine a box turning up at your house, and inside is a sparrow stitched to a rat. you'd think 'who did that? what kind of mad scary fucker did i piss off?'. i kind of want them to know that it's because of what they've done to my uncle, but it's much better if it's a complete mystery to them. they wont sleep so well, they wont feel so safe, they wont feel so fucking smug. they'll be spooked about it for the rest of their cunting lives hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahah!
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glasse
from Harrisburg (United States) on 2009-03-02 12:31 [#02276455]
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it is hard to comment because what spelunker said.
i think you and your family should just continue to approach your uncle and try to reason with him. keep bringing up observations about specific things they do that don't seem on the up and up.
at the same time pitch in and do the handy work that they would normally be doing. when the people show up there is nothing to do because it is already done.
do you want to solve problems through domestic terrorism? i don't think sending them things in the mail will do anything but bring you down.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-03-02 12:35 [#02276460]
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youre spot on about everything except the terrorism. i'll have a great time preparing the package. i'll upload pics!
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plaidzebra
from so long, xlt on 2009-03-02 18:19 [#02276552]
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har! i was feeling a bit sick at the time, so...yeah.
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-04-17 15:16 [#02286518]
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died today :(
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larn
from PLANET E (United Kingdom) on 2009-04-17 17:07 [#02286546]
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:( damn sorry matey, what happened?
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glasse
from Harrisburg (United States) on 2009-04-17 17:10 [#02286550]
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hey sorry to hear that bro. condolences.
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Cliff Glitchard
from DEEP DOWN INSIDE on 2009-04-17 17:50 [#02286553]
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wounder. peace to roger.
did you out the didicoys?
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-04-18 03:42 [#02286586]
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cheers boys. died from a collaspsed lung. mom was there so he went out happy n stuff. PEACE OLD MAN :)
now.... those thieving fucks backed off towards the end but not thru lack of trying. i'm digging up one of their relatives and and nailing the corpse to the front of their car.
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gingaling
from Scamworth (Burkina Faso) on 2009-04-18 04:44 [#02286591]
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savage, hope all is well for you and ur kin.
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Advocate
on 2009-04-18 10:54 [#02286610]
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:(
sincere condolences from me to you and your family, AMPI!
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mohamed
from the turtle business on 2009-04-20 12:42 [#02286878]
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my condolences
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-05-05 16:45 [#02289656]
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so i went down to be at the funeral. i slept in the dead guys bed. spent 5 days hunched over a laptop making silly electro music. i met the pikeys at the funeral. the man is obviously a cunt. he was really pissing me off about roger: "oh just th other day he was singing away like a little robin, its such a shame mr p is gone blah blah". he shit his pants cos i looked him straight in the eyes and mouthed YOU CUNT with the creepiest gay boy smile i could manage. really threw him off. the woman is clever tho, she knows how to seem like a good person. any way thats that and everytings as cool as it could be. peace old man
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pulseclock
from Downtown 81 on 2009-05-05 16:48 [#02289657]
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crazy.. man, Sorry. I just found out a good friend of mine has lung cancer and hes ony 20 year old
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AMPI MAX
from United Kingdom on 2009-05-05 16:54 [#02289662]
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shit! damn. i'll smoke this one with him in mind tho.
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