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Last night I called my girlfriend on her cellphone and asked her when she was coming home from the bar she was at, and she said "not that late, I promise". Since I was sick and have been caughing for a couple of days, I thought that it would be a good idea to go to bed early (and let my girlfriend woke me up for some pettin'). Next thing I know I wake up at 4:30am and shes still not home. At that point I was a bit dissapointed that she havent called me and told me she was sleeping somewhere else. But then at 8:00am she comes home, drunk and with a friend, saying stuff like "I couldnt call you cuz I had no phone to call from" (her phone is blocked for outgoing calls). Then I got pissed cuz she just made it sound like everything was ok. She just didnt think about her (just returning from AA) father coming to the apartment at 2:00pm. (thats in 6 hours and the place looks terrible) Am I stupid cuz i'm mad at her or what? |
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Don't be too fucked off...let her have some fun; that's the way the best relationships work.... |
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i'd be pretty mad.. i think its justified but if she WAS drunk.. then its not like she was thinking clearly now, is it? wait.. is this happening NOW? what time is it for u? |
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it's 9:38am here..and yeah it's happining right now |
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Please listen well my friend... as this is probably the smartest few things Ive said on this MB before... Junktion: I dunno man. This works both ways right. I mean it may be HER letting you down, but it may be yourself letting her let you down.... you know what I mean? I have had some pretty serious and long lasting relationships in my time and after a while, if you are not totally open with eachothers personal feelings {which is even hard for me to say, im trying now with a wonderful girl..... *knocks on wood*} you just create some complex around your relationships with your girl/woman. But I mean if it was your buddy saying "ya ya im gonna call at whatever time" and he didnt, youd be angry too right? I would be. Its like you have something you want to do or say, but you dont because you sorta WANT to feel upset or angry - waiting till they notice and apoligize, you know what I mean? That isnt really fair of you, but its not that nice of them at the same time... If I was in your situation there I would have told her that I was pretty pissed about her not calling, the next day is a good time to let her know.... just say that you didnt appreciate her not calling like she said... responsibility. You |
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I'd think she was up to no good... Not to make you worry more, but I would think she was out bangin some other guy, but I don't know her so I couldn't say for sure... But don't feel bad, I've been single for a year and a half, and my last gf turned out to be a slut after I was with her a year... |
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Man shit..... if someone cheats on someone else.... man.. {look guys im a asshole to lots of people, i have hardly any real morals.... but..} if someone cheats on someone else thats disgusting and totally unforgivable in my books, end of story. I was cheated on once and it hurt, and I was very fuckin' angry |
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You are angry at her actions . . the fact that you were angry just proves how much you care for her! Wait till she sobers up and give her the change to explain. |
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thanx guys...that may have calmed me down a bit |
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I hope what I said helped! |
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it did Reflex...it did |
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Good.. that makes me feel better about it all then.. |
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Look! There in the sky!! |
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