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i didnt really want to be with her anymore, but it still hurts a bit. cause i got to know myself better in a relationship situation, and it turns out once i get used to someone, i can be quite inconsistent with them, like nice, then rude, happy, sad, mean, hostile, silly, funny, etc. and it was too much of a roller coaster for her, and i warned her about it in the beginning, not to get attatched. but i still fed the fire and kept it going, even at times when i was using her, not in a bad way, sometimes just as a friend to lean on. but as time past the relationship itself became very one sided. i expected things and gave nothing in return. it wasn't like that for the first 5 months. bah. i need to have a long hard think about it all. maybe I'm just not cut out for dating. its too much work. once i gain a girls trust and love (whether it be online or in real life) i get bored and detatch myself, as if it was an elaborate video game. i fucking treat it like a game. it's a learning experience for me, but I don't like what I'm learning about myself. :/ |
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yo whats her number maybe i can console her |
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sorry if it was serious. not everything it's build to last and givin yourself time alone its a good idea, time makes things clearer somehow. the right one will still be too much job although you may want learn to stay with yourself first. if you're looking for more than a fuck, of course. 2¢ of random thoughts. |
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u should make a thread about it |
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we care |
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.. because you do |
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Carecup half empty half full c[~] tell me more. |
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sorry to hear i also agree that is seems like too much work at times. perhaps there could be an arrangement like the episode of seinfeld where george assisted jerry with his girlfriend (this was supposed to be the summer of george!) |
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sometimes all you need is a break from being around each other alot. |
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yeah, you'll make it through this shit i find that i don't really like most girls, i just want to know that i can win them over, sometimes you are repulsed by what you find. listening to voicemails my ex left me a while ago today on my cell, and her fake ass "love voice..,," i wanted to gouge my eyes out |
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actually, my earsrs |
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all men just want to marry their mother |
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dude. |
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:( sorry to hear that, listen to SDC on repeat. |
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can you give me a link to sdc? i searched my hd earlier with no results :( something must have happened to it ;\ |
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time to sit on the front porch and play that guitar dude! |
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i remember thinking (while in my previous relationship) that life was better before this. i had time to myself and no one to answer to. i could smoke bongs all day and scratch my ass. but in actual fact smoking bongs all day and scratching your ass is not all its cut out to be. life without a woman is not all that great. *notes to self: find a woman* |
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at heart we're all just children who want the next best train set |
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as if you were going to stay with her forever anyway! get married, have kids and manage to survive that! get real! make the pain (and past pleasure) part of your better self and get over it, jeez plenty more fish in the sea the pain is just selfishness |
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The thing that sucks about this is the sadness. It's too bad we can't just switch it off and move along not thinking about it. The only advice I can share with you on this is eat healthy and get good sleeps. It sounds stupid but it really takes a lot of work out of the whole getting over yourself shit. I don't know what you're feeling right now, I think it is beyond 'not having a gf' and just thinking about how bad of a person you think you are. I say chill and try to realize it's not your personality, but just the fact you need to find someone who can , I don't know what the right word would be ... challenge maybe ? Like, not take your shit and shake you up a bit, but in a GF way and not a "I'm leaving you" way. Breaking up sucks, but thankfully videogames and pizza delivery places exsist. |
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aww diddums, you just didn't love her that's all. You probably used her because you liked the attention - made you feel good. Eventually you realised that irrespective of that she was getting on your nerves too much. Now you miss the fact that at least 'something' was going on in your life, but don't worry, you'll soon fall back into your old habits. |
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A Regular women is what i want now* |
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Relationships cripple life |
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fuck buddies are the way forward |
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ok |
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dont sweat it. sit back, do nothing, let the moment pass... |
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Being in a good relationship doesn't mean everything has to be dandy and swell all the time. Being able to realise problems and talk about them are signs of a good relationship. Telling your partner that you just aren't excited about them as you used to be is another good thing. It's average to have happen. Just don't go and give it all up for it. Sometimes it takes going through the bad to get to the good. |
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Like, the best relatinship is where yeah, you can see each other as being a friend. A really good friend. That's what I have right now and it's very nice. We care about each other as well as ourselves and we don't big it up that we are in a relationship. We don't worry about sex, because that's not really important right now. We act like good friends who help each other out with anything and everything. I mean, maybe it's just a personal opinion, but that's the idea isn't it? That's what a relationship really is? |
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swift, you goin out with my missus? pretty much exatcly what i got goin on. Its cushty. |
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It's real nice. It feels right. All is going well. :] |
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actually guys, it's her thats hurt, but her pain is my fault so i feel sad. we're still talking. sorting shit out. |
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Fanny Hair |
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when a story finish its both/nobody's fault. once someone said me that a cross is made of two sticks. one may be shorter than another, but two sticks are needed anyways. |
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years ago i started taking my gf for granted. the magic was gone. i thought, "what are we doing here?" My solution: I asked her to marry me. Then after about 2 years of happy marriage, I found myself in the same situation. i thought, "what are we doing here?" My solution: Have a child!. It's been great. we are now on our second child. its great. |
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Being single... man, you have some good times ahead. Think of the beer, think of the girls. And no more nagging. Ah, the sweet single life.... |
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O_o |
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haha, yeah - that's how most people seem to solve boredom in relationsships... |
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