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offline Advocate on 2008-01-05 21:30 [#02160826]
Points: 3319 Status: Lurker



I know I shouldn't be up this late at night. I just can't
sleep. Here's the reason why: One of my best friends said he
was gay to me tonight. He said I was the first person he
confessed to. I'm 22 and he's 21. I've known him since high
school. I can honestly say that this won't affect our
friendship. I'm quite liberal when it comes to sexuality.

What I'm worried about, however, is that he's been extremely
self-destructive the past few months. I suspect the whole
sexuality thing is his biggest problem. He's been
experimenting with drugs I wouldn't even touch (GHB, meth
and other types of shit).

I'm worried. What the fuck should I do?


 

offline TheRaiRai from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-05 21:32 [#02160828]
Points: 53 Status: Regular



Stick it in his butt and pee.


 

offline staz on 2008-01-05 21:34 [#02160830]
Points: 9844 Status: Regular



He probably has AIDS already anyway, let him live it up.


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2008-01-05 21:34 [#02160831]
Points: 21444 Status: Lurker



x...l...tronic


 

offline yoyoyo from cornwall on 2008-01-05 21:34 [#02160833]
Points: 1543 Status: Lurker | Followup to Advocate: #02160826



tell him all about your worries and ask him how he feels?


 

offline yoyoyo from cornwall on 2008-01-05 21:35 [#02160834]
Points: 1543 Status: Lurker | Followup to staz: #02160830



aids in norway he will seek you up :)


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2008-01-05 21:35 [#02160836]
Points: 21444 Status: Lurker



Also how the fuck come everyone on this board suddenly
became a half decade younger than me. Am I the only one who
ages?


 

offline yoyoyo from cornwall on 2008-01-05 21:36 [#02160837]
Points: 1543 Status: Lurker | Followup to w M w: #02160836



time machine


 

offline TheRaiRai from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-05 21:36 [#02160838]
Points: 53 Status: Regular



My advice still stands.


 

offline staz on 2008-01-05 21:37 [#02160839]
Points: 9844 Status: Regular | Followup to w M w: #02160836



I STILL LOVE YOU.


 

offline Dagibit from USA on 2008-01-05 21:40 [#02160841]
Points: 2599 Status: Lurker



Fuck.

All I can think of is refer him to a shrink, which sucks
because I think shrinks are pigs and am sure it would be a
rediculous idea in your scenario for some reason.

Just saying something because I know this sucks for you.
Hope it works out well.


 

offline w M w from London (United Kingdom) on 2008-01-05 21:40 [#02160842]
Points: 21444 Status: Lurker | Followup to staz: #02160839



sknaht


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2008-01-06 07:34 [#02160932]
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Tell him that you're worried about him, tell him (if you
haven't already) that his being gay doesn't affect how you
see him one bit, and that anyone who's a decent human being
will feel the same way. Anyone in his life that can't accept
him for who he is should be forgotten.

Sorry for the cookie cutter advice, but the first step is
always to make sure he knows you're there for him, and that
he doesn't need to turn to drugs because he can turn to you
for support.


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2008-01-06 07:44 [#02160934]
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Tell him you are already gay...with his dad.


 

offline Combo from Sex on 2008-01-06 08:05 [#02160941]
Points: 7540 Status: Regular



My advice is to do what the fuck u want instead of asking
advise to other people, it's always a bad idea.


 

offline Zephyr Twin from ΔΔΔ on 2008-01-06 08:10 [#02160942]
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now that's just silly.


 

offline Barf Simpleton from the outback (Zimbabwe) on 2008-01-06 08:13 [#02160944]
Points: 195 Status: Regular



get him some pussy


 

offline morphuze from Denmark on 2008-01-06 09:51 [#02160966]
Points: 278 Status: Lurker



Zephyr's first reply was good. I don't know what else to
say. I once tried to write a serious post to another forum,
and I got lot's of stupid replies (just like ine this
thread) ..they told me that I should'nt go to a music-forum
to get advice for something serious.. hm..


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2008-01-06 09:53 [#02160968]
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Introduce him to monoid.


 

offline Drunken Mastah from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2008-01-06 10:08 [#02160973]
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http://xltronic.com/mb/100766/seriously


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2008-01-06 10:12 [#02160975]
Points: 1767 Status: Lurker



Even I must admit the last post is funny.

But seriously Zephyr says it right. The guy is taking drugs
to escape from the reality of being gay. He probably
wouldn't have to if society wasn't full of childish assholes
cracking jokes (and worse) at his expense. And there's a few
too many of them on this forum as it happens.

I had a mate who came out as well, it was big deal to him,
but not to me. He's married now with kids.


 

offline cuntychuck from Copenhagen (Denmark) on 2008-01-06 10:16 [#02160979]
Points: 8603 Status: Lurker



so, you are worried now that he is gay and not when he was
taking meth!=?!?! you are a weird fucker!


 

offline pulseclock from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:17 [#02160980]
Points: 6015 Status: Lurker



I used to know this music teacher in high school who was
flaming gay, and i recently saw him up at a bar, and he
creeped me out, like he kept looking at me, i felt like he
was scanning my hormonal aural discharge if that makes
sense. gays can be really cool, or fucking creeps just proud
to have the label of gay.


 

offline pulseclock from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:17 [#02160981]
Points: 6015 Status: Lurker | Followup to Barcode: #02160975



wait he married a man with kids?


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2008-01-06 10:21 [#02160984]
Points: 1767 Status: Lurker



No, he married a woman dopey.

And your other post is garbage too. I have watched how some
guys behave around women, and there's nothing more creepy
and lurid than that either. It must be fucking horrible to
be an attractive woman in a bar full of numb nuts. That's
why so many women go to gay bars for a good night out these
days.


 

offline TheRaiRai from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-06 10:24 [#02160987]
Points: 53 Status: Regular | Followup to Barcode: #02160984



Being a prime example of a creepy heterosexual, I agree with
this man.

Amen or something.


 

offline pulseclock from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:25 [#02160989]
Points: 6015 Status: Lurker



i just meant that it was strange for me to see my teacher
checking me out.


 

offline Barcode from United Kingdom on 2008-01-06 10:28 [#02160992]
Points: 1767 Status: Lurker



It's heterosexuals that make gays "proud to be gay". It's
preposterous that anyone should have to be proud of their
sexuality, don't you think?


 

offline pulseclock from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:29 [#02160993]
Points: 6015 Status: Lurker



everybody's gay


 

offline TheRaiRai from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-06 10:36 [#02160998]
Points: 53 Status: Regular



ya dad


 

offline cyrstal dude from LA all day! (United States) on 2008-01-06 11:07 [#02161019]
Points: 900 Status: Addict | Followup to Advocate: #02160826



keep hin away from the meth, that's some fucken evil shit.


 

offline TheRaiRai from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-06 11:10 [#02161021]
Points: 53 Status: Regular



That's an interesting remark coming from "Crystal Dude."


 

offline ecnadniarb on 2008-01-06 11:11 [#02161023]
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Meth


Attached picture

 

offline cyrstal dude from LA all day! (United States) on 2008-01-06 11:16 [#02161026]
Points: 900 Status: Addict | Followup to TheRaiRai: #02161021



healing cyrstals, lol


 

offline Mum_Ra from LOL (United States) on 2008-01-06 12:24 [#02161076]
Points: 296 Status: Lurker



lol. meth = healing crystals.


 


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