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Advocate
on 2008-01-05 21:30 [#02160826]
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I know I shouldn't be up this late at night. I just can't sleep. Here's the reason why: One of my best friends said he was gay to me tonight. He said I was the first person he confessed to. I'm 22 and he's 21. I've known him since high school. I can honestly say that this won't affect our friendship. I'm quite liberal when it comes to sexuality.
What I'm worried about, however, is that he's been extremely self-destructive the past few months. I suspect the whole sexuality thing is his biggest problem. He's been experimenting with drugs I wouldn't even touch (GHB, meth and other types of shit).
I'm worried. What the fuck should I do?
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TheRaiRai
from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-05 21:32 [#02160828]
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Stick it in his butt and pee.
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staz
on 2008-01-05 21:34 [#02160830]
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He probably has AIDS already anyway, let him live it up.
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w M w
from London (United Kingdom) on 2008-01-05 21:34 [#02160831]
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x...l...tronic
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yoyoyo
from cornwall on 2008-01-05 21:34 [#02160833]
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tell him all about your worries and ask him how he feels?
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yoyoyo
from cornwall on 2008-01-05 21:35 [#02160834]
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aids in norway he will seek you up :)
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w M w
from London (United Kingdom) on 2008-01-05 21:35 [#02160836]
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Also how the fuck come everyone on this board suddenly became a half decade younger than me. Am I the only one who ages?
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yoyoyo
from cornwall on 2008-01-05 21:36 [#02160837]
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time machine
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TheRaiRai
from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-05 21:36 [#02160838]
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My advice still stands.
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staz
on 2008-01-05 21:37 [#02160839]
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I STILL LOVE YOU.
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Dagibit
from USA on 2008-01-05 21:40 [#02160841]
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Fuck.
All I can think of is refer him to a shrink, which sucks because I think shrinks are pigs and am sure it would be a rediculous idea in your scenario for some reason.
Just saying something because I know this sucks for you. Hope it works out well.
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w M w
from London (United Kingdom) on 2008-01-05 21:40 [#02160842]
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sknaht
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2008-01-06 07:34 [#02160932]
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Tell him that you're worried about him, tell him (if you haven't already) that his being gay doesn't affect how you see him one bit, and that anyone who's a decent human being will feel the same way. Anyone in his life that can't accept him for who he is should be forgotten.
Sorry for the cookie cutter advice, but the first step is always to make sure he knows you're there for him, and that he doesn't need to turn to drugs because he can turn to you for support.
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ecnadniarb
on 2008-01-06 07:44 [#02160934]
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Tell him you are already gay...with his dad.
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Combo
from Sex on 2008-01-06 08:05 [#02160941]
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My advice is to do what the fuck u want instead of asking advise to other people, it's always a bad idea.
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Zephyr Twin
from ΔΔΔ on 2008-01-06 08:10 [#02160942]
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now that's just silly.
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Barf Simpleton
from the outback (Zimbabwe) on 2008-01-06 08:13 [#02160944]
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get him some pussy
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morphuze
from Denmark on 2008-01-06 09:51 [#02160966]
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Zephyr's first reply was good. I don't know what else to say. I once tried to write a serious post to another forum, and I got lot's of stupid replies (just like ine this thread) ..they told me that I should'nt go to a music-forum to get advice for something serious.. hm..
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ecnadniarb
on 2008-01-06 09:53 [#02160968]
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Introduce him to monoid.
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Drunken Mastah
from OPPERKLASSESVIN!!! (Norway) on 2008-01-06 10:08 [#02160973]
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http://xltronic.com/mb/100766/seriously
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Barcode
from United Kingdom on 2008-01-06 10:12 [#02160975]
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Even I must admit the last post is funny.
But seriously Zephyr says it right. The guy is taking drugs to escape from the reality of being gay. He probably wouldn't have to if society wasn't full of childish assholes cracking jokes (and worse) at his expense. And there's a few too many of them on this forum as it happens.
I had a mate who came out as well, it was big deal to him, but not to me. He's married now with kids.
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cuntychuck
from Copenhagen (Denmark) on 2008-01-06 10:16 [#02160979]
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so, you are worried now that he is gay and not when he was taking meth!=?!?! you are a weird fucker!
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pulseclock
from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:17 [#02160980]
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I used to know this music teacher in high school who was flaming gay, and i recently saw him up at a bar, and he creeped me out, like he kept looking at me, i felt like he was scanning my hormonal aural discharge if that makes sense. gays can be really cool, or fucking creeps just proud to have the label of gay.
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pulseclock
from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:17 [#02160981]
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wait he married a man with kids?
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Barcode
from United Kingdom on 2008-01-06 10:21 [#02160984]
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No, he married a woman dopey.
And your other post is garbage too. I have watched how some guys behave around women, and there's nothing more creepy and lurid than that either. It must be fucking horrible to be an attractive woman in a bar full of numb nuts. That's why so many women go to gay bars for a good night out these days.
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TheRaiRai
from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-06 10:24 [#02160987]
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Being a prime example of a creepy heterosexual, I agree with this man.
Amen or something.
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pulseclock
from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:25 [#02160989]
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i just meant that it was strange for me to see my teacher checking me out.
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Barcode
from United Kingdom on 2008-01-06 10:28 [#02160992]
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It's heterosexuals that make gays "proud to be gay". It's preposterous that anyone should have to be proud of their sexuality, don't you think?
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pulseclock
from Downtown 81 on 2008-01-06 10:29 [#02160993]
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everybody's gay
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TheRaiRai
from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-06 10:36 [#02160998]
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ya dad
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cyrstal dude
from LA all day! (United States) on 2008-01-06 11:07 [#02161019]
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keep hin away from the meth, that's some fucken evil shit.
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TheRaiRai
from behind the curtain (United States) on 2008-01-06 11:10 [#02161021]
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That's an interesting remark coming from "Crystal Dude."
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ecnadniarb
on 2008-01-06 11:11 [#02161023]
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Meth
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cyrstal dude
from LA all day! (United States) on 2008-01-06 11:16 [#02161026]
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healing cyrstals, lol
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Mum_Ra
from LOL (United States) on 2008-01-06 12:24 [#02161076]
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lol. meth = healing crystals.
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