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offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:13 [#00470903]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



I am quite drunk now and will no doubt regret posting this
tomorrow but I just wanted to share this with you all....

I had a date tonight with a girl who I think is really cool
- Takae. She even loves the same kind of music as me and we
went out for dinner and a few drinks then came back to my
place to chill and drink some wine and listen to some
tunes....

We had a really nice time and shared a nice kiss but then
she said she had to go home.. I totally respect that and
everything but you cant help but be left with this amazing
sense of bitter sweet frustration - we really connected and
had a great time and everything - but I really wanted her to
stay over and "get freaky" if you know what i mean....

It was still a great time but I cant help feeling just a
little bit 'cheated'.. if that makes sense..? Not like I
deserve a game of 'hide t he sausage' or anything, but when
you really think you have made a connetction and then
somebody seems to be running away like that... what does
that mean?

And I am going to London to visit my family for Christmas in
10 days and I cant see her before then and I am not coming
back to Tokyo until 15th January by which time the momentum
will have been lost... shit... sometimes if you meet someone
just before you are going to leave somwhere you need to make
that kind of physical commitment to show that you like them
and will be thinking about them while you are away....

I feel I am going to lose this whole thing..
Anyone know what I am talking about?

Drunk and needing advice.
TJ


 

offline C738 from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 08:18 [#00470908]
Points: 1722 Status: Regular



Get sober and give her a call in the morning.
Its just hormones + alcohol that are causing this.
Relax man... There's more than sex (xltronic.com/mb)!!!
Just keep in contact with her, take her out etc...
When its meant to be, it will continue after 15th januari.
dont worry.


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:24 [#00470915]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker



burn her some good IDM tunes while your at it...she can
listen to that while your away ;)


 

offline bill_hicks from my city is amazing it is calle on 2002-12-06 08:26 [#00470921]
Points: 4286 Status: Lurker



Who cares about the bitch? From your description of her I
think I've had her and let me tell you she wasn't up to much
- plus she gave me a dose. I haven't itched so much in ages.




 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:28 [#00470925]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker



she's probly just a bit afread cuz she really likes you ;D


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:28 [#00470927]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker | Followup to bill_hicks: #00470921



stop it Bill...let the boy date ;)


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:30 [#00470930]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker




Hey, good idea Junktion...!

I will stick a few sleazy tunes on there as well - (sex
machine, german porno music circa 1975 etc etc).... NICE..


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:32 [#00470934]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Bill_Hicks

Yeah I think she mentioned she got an evil rash on her inner
thighs from that wicked facial hair thing you have going
on... dont do it again you bastard.


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:33 [#00470935]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker | Followup to TokyoJo: #00470930



put really sick Squarepusher on it, and some of the more
melodic Aphex (like Flim and Cow Cud Is a Twin)...Chris
Clark also... ;)


 

offline JAroen from the pineal gland on 2002-12-06 08:34 [#00470937]
Points: 16065 Status: Regular



VENETIAN SNARES!!!


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:36 [#00470941]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker | Followup to JAroen: #00470937



some Vsnares will proply make her pee in her panties...

Autechre and BoC are more girlish me think


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 08:37 [#00470944]
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put some soul into the collection. Take something you really
feel is special...


 

offline C738 from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 08:38 [#00470946]
Points: 1722 Status: Regular



better dont add ' come to daddy ' to the compilation..


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:40 [#00470947]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker




I will put on some tracks from this cd I have of "Cambodian
Rock Music 1970-1976" THAT IS SO RIDICULOUSLY FUNKY it
caused my ex girlfriend to lose her rocks every time she
heard it...

You perverted bastards look what you have made me done -
this thread started so innocently and with such romantic
intentions...


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:42 [#00470951]
Points: 4176 Status: Regular | Followup to TokyoJo: #00470947



"lose her rocks"

I love those words. They are perfect every time.

o/~Get cha rocks off, get cha rocks off honey..o/~


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:45 [#00470954]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Agree that is a fine expression..

Vinegar Strokes - an expression that seems to be used most
often by Viz editors or by people who are "gannin doon the
toon th'neet"


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:46 [#00470956]
Points: 4176 Status: Regular | Followup to TokyoJo: #00470954



I pass the Viz HQ loads of times in town.

I live close to Newcastle. Going there tonight!!! Yay!


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:48 [#00470961]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Stay clear of the Bigg Market ( I am sure you knew this
already though ) - I got duffed up there once...


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:51 [#00470968]
Points: 4176 Status: Regular | Followup to TokyoJo: #00470961



*nods* Too many monkeys around here thinking with their
fists. I hang around the pink triangle where i'm nice and
safe, everyone is tame there. or go to private partys.


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 08:51 [#00470970]
Points: 4176 Status: Regular | Followup to Spikee Dragon: #00470968



I like alternative so I don't go where the main clones go.


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:55 [#00470975]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Just wanted to pick up on something Junktion said before -
do you really think girls go all weird and aloof when they
like you...?

Not that I claim to really understand women at all (and
definitely not Japanese women) but when I like someone I do
my best to let them know..

I always though the " they are just playing hard to get
because they like you" argument was just a way to make
yourself feel better when it doesnt work.... But.. well feck
it I dont know..

Opinions?


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 08:56 [#00470980]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Spikee - Pink Triangle? What is that??? Sounds like a house
of ill repute to me, or is that just my latent sexual
frustration coming out..?


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 09:02 [#00470989]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker | Followup to TokyoJo: #00470975



Japanese woman = culture questions

Yes some girls (especially the not-so-freeminded types) can
go really wierd when they feel "dangerious" types are
getting to them. Theyre are afread of a broken heart.


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:03 [#00470991]
Points: 7824 Status: Lurker



just make sure you contact her, then things will be fine,..
keep talking to her, it's only when the two of you are alone
that your minds can dwell on these thoughts,.. analysing
every little incident that happens will only lead you to
beleive what you want, not what is true,. just talk about it
to her


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 09:08 [#00470998]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Junktion - Japanese females are the most enigmatic creatures
on gods earth... (and amongst the most beautiful too_)

I have lived in Britain and the US and I think it is not so
hard to work out what makes the women tick in those
countries... Not so in Japan...

But who isnt afraid of a broken heart? I think most guys who
are into IDM mucis are usually pretty sensitive (under the
cool exterior) - exactly the kind of guys who got their
hearts royally shat on by some incrediblly amazing but aloof
girl...


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:10 [#00471003]
Points: 7824 Status: Lurker



that's so true

(in most cases)


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 09:11 [#00471005]
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under the cool exterior..*Hehe*...good one..

yeah, I also think japanese girls are really cute

soften her a bit...show her youre her friend...you can do
that if you think of something else than getting her
panties.. ;)


 

offline TokyoJo from London now, not Tokyo anymore on 2002-12-06 09:12 [#00471006]
Points: 615 Status: Lurker



Refund - wise words and I like your avatar by the way - from
some Japanese manga comic, right? That is what the ladies
here try to look like....


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:14 [#00471009]
Points: 7824 Status: Lurker



really,...

I wish moving to japan was a viable option for me,. but I'd
never get let in,. I've heard that realisticly only engrish
teachers and baseball stars are allowed to move into the
country


 

offline Junktion from Northern Jutland (Denmark) on 2002-12-06 09:15 [#00471011]
Points: 9713 Status: Lurker | Followup to TokyoJo: #00471006



dude... click on the number in the corner of a post to make
a reply ;)


 

offline Spikee Dragon from Newcastle (United Kingdom) on 2002-12-06 09:16 [#00471012]
Points: 4176 Status: Regular | Followup to TokyoJo: #00470980



Gay zone. I have lots of gay friends and there is no trouble
around there. good music too.


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:18 [#00471016]
Points: 7824 Status: Lurker | Followup to Junktion: #00470989



like this?


 

offline Refund from Melbourne (Australia) on 2002-12-06 09:19 [#00471018]
Points: 7824 Status: Lurker | Followup to Spikee Dragon: #00471012



"gay" people are usually very accepting about music,. but
mostly listen to various forms of pop (at least in
australia)


 

offline C738 from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 10:38 [#00471076]
Points: 1722 Status: Regular



Heh.. A lot of people think I'm gay. But I guess I just dont
have the 'macho-gen'.



 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-12-06 10:40 [#00471078]
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Damn having sex with a girl on the FIRST date.......i'd say
thats asking for a BIT much.

i mean really, if you really LIKE and RESPECT the girl you
should be happy that she didn't just hop in the sack with
you, means she doesn't do that with OTHER guys.

you need to re-evaluate what you consider a successful date.
IMO

sheeeeeesh


 

offline C738 from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 10:44 [#00471083]
Points: 1722 Status: Regular



True leCoeur...

I wouldnt like it when I would be grabbed by a girl.
At least... ... ...unless she's a real hottie.

I'm only human you know...


 

offline LeCoeur from the outer edge of the universe (United States) on 2002-12-06 10:49 [#00471090]
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thing is this.....and think about this for a moment.

while in fantasy life .....maybe something like this SEEMS
like fun, hot, etc....

HOWEVER in real life.....do you think a person (guys and
girls) who PUTS out at the drop of a hat....is gonna stick
around for ANY length of time, when the going gets tough do
you think they'll be there for you......NO F#@king way.....

so while it may be a nice lil fantasy....this is a DEAD end
road...

i know some people aren't in IT for the relationship, thats
fine....but if you are....think twice about what you want
from someone....


 

offline C738 from Outer Space on 2002-12-06 10:52 [#00471093]
Points: 1722 Status: Regular



I'm just talking one night stand here. seems fun and I know
those things allmost never work out.
I've been inactive for 5 months now, so you know... hormone
trouble ;)

To fall in love I need to know and trust a girl. That takes
a while.
I know, leCoeur, I know...



 


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