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Would you give your virginity to someone who wasen't you bf/ gf? Im a senior in hs, virgin, but this girl, hottest girl in school imo and my friends opnion and she want's to get down and dirty, so im not sure if i should seal the deal. But really, how many chances will i have to get a girl this hot ya know? *sigh* descions descions!! ....Yeah Like i've been with girls before, just not sex, and im debating wether i should take it there. Like she's all about it, and her being REALLY REALLY hot dosent help so im so confused, she is dumb as wood but i duno, ahhhhhhhh! please more people give me ur input |
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I posted this at the other thread: You only live once. I think you should do something with her beforehand and then make the decision. Who knows it might lead to a relationship, but then again it just sounds like the run-of-the-mill slut. I may be wrong....I may be right, but like you said an oppurtunity likes this might not come along again. Good call with the new Thread. |
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no way man. If you have waited this far, and I am assuming you aren't just someone who never had a chance at sex, why now? Wait for someone you love. That's my plan anyway........:-/ |
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also, is it important to you if you get her off? I mean, if your school is all close, the last thing you need to hear is: girl: i fucked this guy with a tiny penis and he didn't get me off man, that would be shit to deal with. If your school is huge and you don't care, I still hold to my first reply. You will get 2000 times the respect not screwing her that you would from doing what anyone else would do. |
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i have empathy except i'm not in any such dilemma at the moment honestly i'd be a little scared if i were u. i usually go about my own business not worrying too much about girls, so i always take it easy & let things flow. but if u r really considering the risk, it's all on u.. |
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i wrote my comments on the other thread! but don't take a poll.....you need to decide for yourself!!! |
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Very True, also I was just thinking....the more you reject her, perhaps the stronger she comes on? Who knows, perhaps she'll realize friendship is needed, and then partnership. Although, she is dumb as a box of rocks as you basically stated. |
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Thanks guys, and you too lecouer i love having girls opinions! =) I think i'll pass this up, untill atleast we're in the heat of the moment and let me pee-pee do the thinking. 0.o |
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since LeCoecur complimented me in her reply, here is a copy and past of what she said in the other thread about your situation: ---------------------- echo is giving you some good advice! just ask yourself why you're asking for advice....i think because you already know the answer, but need to be reassured. so consider this reassurment. =0) you first time should be with someone who cares about you and vice versa....imagine if you were so nervous you couldn't 'get.....' that wouldn't matter to someone who cared about you, but someone who doesn't.....YIPES....i'd be careful!!! |
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I honestly think you are making the right choice. It is especially right if it is what YOU decide is best for you, but I think this is the best choice you can make, period |
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You should consider that sex should be about love, not looks. Also, it's a really no-balls choice to engage in such activity with someone you find stupid. You'd essentially just be using her and being used; which is frankly stupid. |
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well, yeah go for it! if she just wants sex and you just want sex i dont se why not.. sex is not such a big deal. if you wait until you are 25 you will have super expectaitons and it will probably be a bit of anticlimax.. never wrong to get some practise before you meet someone you really like. :) |
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i was at this music festival once, and this girl was extremely drunk and i guess she was totally obsessed with me (actually i knew this for awhile) now she is actually extremely hot and it was tempting, especially since she was saying shit like "chris, lets go fuck" hahahah...... but i stayed reserved. its well worth it. you don't have to put up with akward bullshit afterwards. |
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don't listen to Gubb, that green monster is making him stress out and not think clearly :) |
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this also is true, good advice is comming out of everyones ears! |
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i dont really get the "wait until you meet someone you love" approach to sex.. sex is a bit like sports, you cant just sit around thinking about tennis to become a good tennis player. the firt time is often fumbly and akward but it gets better. but if you want to cum on the love of your lifes favorit shirt before you even get it in the first time you have sex then do so, but bad sex is not a good way to start a relationship... just my two cents in the matter. perhaps its a US/europe thing... |
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november eh.. |
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but if you're playing sports with someone you like, it's alot better than playing with someone you think is an idiot. Tenis with a girlfriend is better than with a friend, especially if you and your girl friend get better at tennis together. Also, if you have been practicing your tennis stroke with someone else, when will you ever get to the point where you are satisfied with your forehand and back hand? Only if you are with someone who would have liked your form either way, good stroking or bad :) |
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boxing is a sport |
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*ok, got lost in sex analogoy* I think sex is better with someone you love, especially if you saved it for that person. That is just how I feel, most people feel differently, and no metaphor is going to change that, so yeah, I can practice my backhand by myself anyway :D |
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You do make some valid and good points Gubb, and no it's not a U.S./Europe thing, it's just peoples different ideals that's all. |
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that's pretty much exactly it |
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different strokes for different folks.....to complete the analogy :) |
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Haha, I say that about wraps things up. Now help me on my dilema thread!!! :] |
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duh. if she wants sex, and she's sure she wants it and that's all she wants, then why the fuck not? honestly some people worry too much. As long as you respect her and make sure that she's sure she wants it and she wno't go all weird or whatever, then go for it. Oh yeah if she goes on about you have a sall dick, I'm pretty sure no one would believe that shit anyways, but go on the "dude she totally a thing for [insert weird fetish here]" Guh unless you're trying not to have sex or sumn. |
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The average man looses his viginity at 23. Read that somewhere. |
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yeah but it is his first time you know.. that does make it different. |
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what's with all those relationship threads all of a sudden? they keep popping up since last week!! |
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not complaining, it's just an observation. |
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sorry mate, dunno if I helped this trend.....*sigh* you replied to yourself too, that makes me laugh |
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Seemes like they are the most popular ones, but i don't know... I'm just celebrating my one day birthday here on the mb now! :) |
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the times they are a-changin'.. |
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cortex everyone wants a relationship.......NO WAIT.......everyone doesn't cos the hate the opposite sex......thats it....sorry i forgot for a moment =0) |
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im not trying to be disrespectfull or anything but: "Wait for someone you love. That's my plan anyway........:-/" i might get this the wrong way but it looks here like you havent had sex yet so how would you know if its better with someone you love or not? anyways, i wouldnt know since i didnt love the one i had sex with the first time, it might be super fantastic for you. im just telling you my views in the matter: sex is nice, but to hyped. just take it as it comes. |
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hey Gubb, no worries, your question regarding what I said is completely justified, I'm not offended. That is my hope I guess, my philosophy from seeing the world through my own eyes. Could be wrong, but I keep banking that if it's right, for me, then it's going to be a big payoff. not offended by the question though |
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yeah, YOU are the one to blame for this!!!! ;) looks like everyone wanted to talk about this subject, but you were the first to have the guts to do so on this board. |
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I spose it could be easier w/ a relationship.... coz yuo actually know the person better and you don't worry as much about fuckign anything up or whatever. The best way to practise is public exposure, go surprise bukkake the face of a schoolgirl at the busstop that'll get you used to it watch your confidence rise as you outrun the cops week after week!!! (disclaimer: joking!) |
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sorry m8 :( we all have worries, i worry about my worries! |
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HA HA HA ew, bukkake.. |
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its the november air |
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who have you been having sex with ?!?!? j/k |
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me |
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hahhahhaa touche my dear =0) |
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I've had sex both with someone I loved and someone i didn't (not at the same time) and I didn't notice that much difference other than the one i didn't love was more experienced and therefore better. |
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assorted girls, and the last year just my girlfriend. whats it to you? |
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I don't understand the dilemma. If she's over the age of consent (well maybe you don't care about that) and you both want to do it then do it. If you don't want to you'll have plenty of chances later with someone else. |
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the problem seems to be he just doesn't know whether he wants to or not.. |
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-flip a coin? |
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whatever happened to the good old days when getting a hummer sufficed for sexual release? |
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believe me, if you don't do it you might regret it later, i should know. don't make this a lost opportunity! just make sure the condom doesn't break. be careful. experience is valuable. |
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