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offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2002-10-03 23:51 [#00392173]
Points: 2934 Status: Lurker



Well, it goes kinda like this:

I just left my job and g/f to be with my daughter for 3
months, as you've guessed, my ex and I went ka-put a while
back. but my daughter means the world to me... my ex and I
are trying to mend things up again.

I feel now that my ex is really just half-assed about "us"
and never really makes me feel that "love" feeling that I
need so much. Always saying "oh i love you" but never really
showing it.

However, my g/f (now ex) always gave me that feeling of love
and self-worth... were best of friends and very close still.
I think she partially understands my responsibility as a
father and urge to raise my daughter...

what would you chose?



 

offline BlatantEcho from All over (United States) on 2002-10-04 00:17 [#00392180]
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you need love man, as pure as you can find

simple as that, you love your daughter and your ex-gf. You
fill in the rest


 

offline Hiller_ from Tornio (Finland) on 2002-10-04 02:59 [#00392231]
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Crap ya pants for no reason.


 

offline Ceri JC from Jefferson City (United States) on 2002-10-04 03:13 [#00392239]
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Does your (now ex) gf live nearby? There's always the poss.
of getting back with her and having joint custody of your
daughter...


 

offline LuckyPsycho from a long way from home (United Kingdom) on 2002-10-04 04:44 [#00392300]
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A relationship without love isn't good for anyone... if your
ex gf loves you, and you her, you should be together.

Your daughter will be happier if she sees that you are
happy... whether that is with her mum or someone else.


 

offline unabomber from Palma de Mallorca (Spain) on 2002-10-04 04:52 [#00392304]
Points: 3756 Status: Regular



kinda in ur situation here. all I can say is that if ur
exwife behaves like that (so does mine) u will get
depressed, ur selfesteem will drop down, u will feel alone,
and love will not come by surprise. I'm thinkin of stop the
"mend things up" task, as far as I know it's not workin. a
petty.
at least I don't have a daughter...


 

offline jewels1234ca from waterloo (Canada) on 2002-10-04 05:28 [#00392317]
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:)


 

offline unabomber from Palma de Mallorca (Spain) on 2002-10-04 05:40 [#00392325]
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:(


 

offline DeLtoiD from Ontario on 2002-10-04 10:21 [#00392546]
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thx guys...

and yes jewels i love you


 

offline jewels1234ca from waterloo (Canada) on 2002-10-05 02:48 [#00393321]
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I know you do!
And believe it or not I love you too!


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-10-05 03:21 [#00393350]
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I'm 18 years old... so I'd choose the girl.

...cause I have like..... NO experience with fatherhood...
but your kid "needs" you I guess....

Good heavens... I'm glad I'm not in that situation. :-S

I'm sorry if I'm absolutly no help at all :-/


 

offline Sido Dyas from a computer on 2002-10-05 03:27 [#00393355]
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Nice to see you care really much about raising you kids
right.
Respect!
Theres alot of half assed parents out there.


 

offline princo from Shitty City (Geelong) (Australia) on 2002-10-05 03:34 [#00393360]
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True, very true!


 

offline Jedi Chris on 2002-10-05 03:44 [#00393367]
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Your daughter....


 

offline jewels1234ca from waterloo (Canada) on 2002-10-05 14:06 [#00393683]
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he what's to know between his ex and his babies mommy


 


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