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I don't try 100% at anything I do, and accept my mediocrity at school and life becuase I am afraid of failure. This session again concentrated on my Dr. figuring out the underlying controls that prevent me from being happy. I'm anxious/nervous and all this stuff becuase I fear failure. I can accept criticism only if I am not trying 100%. In the rare event I give all of myself to someone or a task, I better be damn sure it is going to turn out ok. I'm never going to be what I dream unless I can embrace failure as a part of the process and not feel like shit for fucking up from time to time. Next session is going to be about strategies to do just this. ---------------------- I feel much bette, and can't wait till fridays meeting. I think I am going to get over my fear and really blossom into the person I want to be. The wait is killing me, I hope it lasts. |
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My therapists cant figure out whats wrong with me. |
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BlatantEcho it really sounds like its helping you out a lot and that is a good thing, dealing with rejection faluire is a hard thing for everyone. I know I have a hard time with it. I hope this helps you solve your personal problems, best of luck! WOOOOZLE WOOOOSIE WEEEEEE! |
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thanks Mickey so far it has only made my problems clear to me. The step in the therapy is to outlined and plan strategies and steps for me to get over any of my lil problems. ------------------------ I appreciate your support |
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I get excited: "The NEXT step in the therapy is to outline and plan strategies and steps that allow me to get over any of my lil problems." typos can eat me, I'm not scared of them |
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Good for you blatent. Wish you luck this new year. :D |
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Typos can eat me too! hahaa I should have thrown in the word some, in my last post, because people have loads of problems and challenges in their lives..... HAPPY NEW YEAR MAN! w00t! |
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it makes so much sense when you read it like that. I had seen some of your non-studying posts before, and i always thought that you should stop complaining about it, and just sit down and do your work, lol. But yeah... your Dr. seems to know what he's talking about. Atleast that first post made perfect sense to me... knowing the problem is half the battle won i think. So good luck! :-) i hope it'll all work out for you. It's a terrible feeling when you're not able to be who you'd want to be. |
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hey George, I appreciate the support and kind words. I always posted about how I was posting to put off studying. I'm now struggling to get past that, and I think I will do ok. your last line is very telling. "It's a terrible feeling when you're not able to be who you'd want to be." cheers mate |
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Blatant, dont you feel that other people telling YOU how YOUR mind works difficult?? I can take critisism from the people i know well and love, but from other areas i get very deffensive |
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i am really affraid of criticism. what I found out myself though, is that my fears, which I couldn't understand or find a reason for having, were holding me back. I didn't know why I couldn't study, or why I was always nervous and anxious. I have sought the advice and treatment of a professional, and so far, it has been everything I could have imagined. I'm learning how I can act on my dreams instead of just dreaming. I'm enabling myself to be me, and it is a fine feeling. |
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cool blatant happy 4 you i think for me love is the answer im slowly turning on it! |
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you got to do what is right for you. if love is your power, then by all means run with it. whatever it takes. hope your new girl situation works out just fine :) |
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