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I just got back from a dance club, yes thats right, the pop/techno kind. Too bad all of our clubs suck. But I went anyways out of pure unadulterated boredom. I have a question aimed toward the ladies (guys can answer too if they know), but what is your policy on dancing? If a guy comes up to you and starts grinding do you push him away? Or do you like that kind of attention? Also any other pointers would be welcome too. |
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heh heh sounds to me like weatheredstoner did some grinding but no one ground back ;) |
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i laugh at clubs...the music is terrible... some people just never learn |
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grinding?! weathering in your case mate ;) |
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a dance club doesnt equal a all access pass to girls. its just like flirting... you gotta make eye contact first, and see if there is an interest from the girl... you cant just randomly go up to some unexpecting girl and start dancing all up on her without some sort of OK from the girl. |
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I find that if a girl is dancing face to face or in a circle with other girls, its best to steer clear !! If there are 2 girls , obviously together, but dancing/standing side by side or a few feet apart ( not face to face) , thats the time to move for then they are open to advances. I hate clubs . Wish I could one day open my own based on positive human contact without drugs..... and have great music... are there any anywhere ? |
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smokey, id like to attend that club when u open it. :) unless you really are from Heard and McDonalds island....too far to walk from here |
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yes - but i live in london where there are great clubs - i f i lived in the town where i come from then i would't bother |
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Yeah i agree with Zeus. You have to check the vibes first. I used to go out on clubs every week , mainly DNB clubs. But now im bored with it, same thing everytime , now i only go out when one of my mates are playing or if there is some bigshoot dj you can't miss. And none of my mates like EEM like i do. Of course there is always Raimons but he is on some medicine so he can't drink and he never has any money anyways... I managed to drag a couple of mates to a cool EEM party one time but they really ruined it for me by complaining about the (great!!!) music all night. |
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Bob> heh. maybe thats why I don't get out more often. I'm not a strong swimmer ;) |
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i love going to the techno free parties in bristol each month! but im usualy too wasted to even blink let alone dance or even see women! |
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Yeah, I thought it'd be great to open a club/bar like that. One where the bar staff can actually serve drinks, where the glasses are chilled and the vodka is only polish or absolut vodka and it's kept in a freezer. One where the music is good and the people aren't fools. Shame not enough people would go to one for it to make a profit. |
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Oi Dingleberry: Where are they? I'll go to the next one and meet up if you want. |
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*heh* -that all depends... -if u just starts grinding without beeing sure if you're welcome *lol* then u can't expect them to dance with u.... make some eyecontact at first -and if we wanna dance -there won't be any doubt in your mind ;) but really... sometimes we just wanna make the first move ourselfes ;) but personly i just go clubbing for the fun of it... not for all the cheesy pick up lines *argh* -really guys... they suck!!! |
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I only go clubbing about 3 times a week these days :( |
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Actually the problem with clubs is that they serve all the wrong types of drugs. Alcahol is shit. Apologies to all you alcaholics out there, but its true. I want to start my own club too. Except there will be around 10 different rooms in the club and each room will have a different theme. One would be a jungle, another would be out in space, another could resemble stonehenge, etc. And each room would have an appropriate dj to complement the scene. Bouncers at the door would only allow certain drugs, but confiscate others. No crack/heroin. |
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mr ceri ill get the info and ill keep you posted! |
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I've never gone clubbing because I can't stand the music and any girl I would meet there would have nothing in common with me anyway BECAUSE SHE'S AT THE CLUB So I'd rather stay home and go to this board |
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Is it that "species" free party I've seen advertised? |
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dancing clears my mind. I pretty much always dance without being drunk or anything like that... yeah. |
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Never been clubbing, probably never will. And the only way I'll ever get a chick is if I pay her. |
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at real parties that is.... i never go to fucking clubs with commercial fucking crapmusic with those damn drunks and stupid people all around. |
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One where the barstaff are all enjoying being there too, not just suffering the abusive workload... where the only dresscode is a smile... where the DJ can actually accomodate my requests to PLAY SOME APHEX !!! :) All the students in my town seem to actively hone in on cheesy chart music, so I'd have to emigrate if it was to work... I'd ideally like to run a backpackers bar in Vietnam , playing SAW in my beach-hut *dreams* |
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ictroboy - you sound as closed minded as the pop listeners themselves. an attitude liek that will probably lose you some interesting experiences. i dont like dance music itself, but go clubbing occasionally. its fun to dance, theres nice women, and my friends are there. going to drum n bass clubs is better tho, i reckon. |
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Astrid right...London has so many great clubs it's easy to find something that suits... And clubs during the week do seem to be less full of people on the pull (which is generally the most tiresome reason to go to a club anyway...)... |
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od_step_cloak: trust me, there couldn't be any possible experiences for me in a place like that. i enjoy small pubs, with like no music... |
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....if i go out in MY town that is. With my posts here, i'm only referring to MY town. ok? |
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i used to go clubbing three times / week, but it's such crap. nowadays only forest parties and chillout events get me out of my place. and if someone comes grinding or bugging me while i dance, it really ruins my mood. i'm not a bad person and i like getting to know people but silly things REALLY get me pissed of |
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I go out from time to time if there is some one playing who's music I enjoy and I go for the energy and fun that goes along with, and to dance...I do take dancing seriously, and if some guy comes up to me and trys to ..gross.."grind" on me, it is INSTANTLY stopped by first the natural reaction of the disgusted look then followed by "I don't dance like that, go away now. |
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MY PLACE IS IN THE CLUBS. Or rather, it will be (I'm 15 years old, can't go to clubs yet.) However, it is true, my place IS in the clubs. That is where I belong, but not as a clubber, as a dancer, as you might suspect. My domain is at the DECKS. DJing is what I am destined to do. I can't wait till I can dj at clubs. Soon I'm going to start doing dj mixes at my local university radio station, CJSR, so that'll get me lots of experience. |
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I LOVE clubs!!! The atmosphere, the music, the ENERGY. And of course you fellow Aphex Twin fans would no doubt find the music they play there (hard house, house, trance, etc.), cheesy, but come on, any kind of electronica is cheesy compared Aphex Twin, so stop comparing and take it for what it is. It may not have the depth of IDM, but it's just as good, if only in different ways. |
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bump goddamit! |
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Deathsmith, you seem to have the ability to kill any thread you post on, I have the same problem.... |
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Lol. . . . ;_; |
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I enjoy the trance/techno also. Raves are good because I dont have any good clubs around here. |
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yea i went once to a typical club wher they played hiphop and trance.... it sucked major ass... WHY DO GIRLS ALWAYS HAVE TO HAVE FAKE NAMES LIKE ANGEL AND SUNSHINE!!!! jeeez :( |
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Haha, agreed my friend. |
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my ex and i used to go to raves alot. i've only been to a few clubs in my lifetime, but they all sucked in my opinion. my ex and i used to go to raves alot, though; which were tops. lots of sexuality and f-f-fantastic music. best set of electronic music i'd ever heard in a public place. heard a track or two off of AB3 by AFX. |
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ooopppsss... hmmmm... nevermind that last post. ;-) (hehe) |
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hey baby... hey baby... hey baby... hey baby... is that a mirror in your back pocket? |
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